posted March 29, 2007 11:28 AM            

Virgo women are like people who can be nurturing and caring with feelings without the emotional baggage to cancers.. I guess we like that. they might seem crude and unemotional sometimes though.. there just generally stronger people.. but alot of Virgos I have met are sometimes stuck up.
Ive been attracted to virgos before but nothing has ever happened heh.. we would probabaly butt heads.. Virgo ASC

Cancer SUN
Libra MOON
Virgo ASC

.. for a minute their I thought this was another thread about cancer men and why they act the way they do, and I thought here we go again.. lol.

posted March 30, 2007 05:39 PM            

Well I’m not a Cancer male, but as a Cancer female my longest running relationship of seven years was with a Virgo. I’d say what attracted me to him the most were the following:

1. His care – shown most often through worry. He’d call me at work to tell me it was raining outside, and to suggest I drive extra careful. He’d always double check both directions when crossing a road, ready to put out an arm and stop me if he thought I might endanger myself. When I was out at night he’d call every hour or so to make sure I was ok. He’d give me a blanket and a ton of medicine when I was sick. While some might find this vexing – I loved it. I think being the nurturers we are, it’s easy for Cancer’s to understand Virgo’s unique way of nurturing and taking care of others. We see their care through the trappings of their worrying, and place a great deal of value in it, which in turn makes Virgos feel understood and appreciated for the sweet dears they are.
2. His attention to detail – he always remembered the little things. He made it a point of remembering every little thing I liked whether it be food, flowers, movies, etc. When I had a blue day he’d come home with one of my favorite cheesy romantic comedy movies rented from Blockbuster. He never forgot a date, and always made each holiday special. I think Cancers tend to pay attention to the little things more than many signs, but in my very humble opinion I think Virgos have us beat. Being loved by someone that showed his love in a similar fashion, but expressed it even better than I could, made me feel incredibly cherished.
3. His imagination – I’ve never met a Virgo that didn’t possess an amazing imaginative flair and creative bent. He could spin a story better than anything you’d read in a book and paint a picture better than many things you’d see on museum walls. Together we dreamed up beautiful worlds – and never lacked a plethora of things to talk about. The mental and imaginative connection between Cancers and Virgos is truly a beautiful thing.

All in all, I think Cancer’s and Virgo’s make a lovely match. My fellow and I didn’t work in the end, but he’s still a dear friend, and I wouldn’t hesitate for a second to encourage any of my Cancer friends to date a Virgo if the opportunity presented itself to them.

I hope this makes sense.

Kindest regards,

posted March 31, 2007 02:09 PM            

Speaking of cancers how did you and your partner work out after that short period of tempers rising? ...

me and my girl have been having a rough time lately.. I dont know why but for some reason I dont think its any particular transits that might be going on.. I would have her birth info right now but we have been kinda upset these last few days..

posted April 02, 2007 07:45 PM            

I’m so sorry to hear you and your crab girl are still struggling. The last few weeks have been peaceful and full of love for me and my boyfriend, but we had a very difficult time in the weeks proceeding. Much like you and your girl – I had a hard time pinning down what transits were causing the issues, however, in retrospect I think a few brief mars transits, and two long Saturn transits were our culprits. We were also struggling with quite a bit of stress at our workplaces, which probably added fuel to the fire. I think the turning point for us came when I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself, pulled myself out of my mopey hole, and bought him a colorful balloon and some flowers to try cheering him up. I think when two cancers are down and feeling blue, one of them has to make the decision to be the “strong one” in that instance, and pull themselves up by their bootstraps and give some tender love and care to the other. Otherwise you’ll both drown one another in your sorrows, each futilely looking to the other for support and strength. Now that those cloudy skies have cleared for my sweetie and I. We’re out of our shells and back to our loveable, cuddly selves. So hang in there, Kevin. I have no doubt the storm you are going through is a temporary one. If you can summon up the courage you might try buy your girl some flowers, or a teddy bear and leave it somewhere for her to find with a loving note. I have no doubt she’ll warm up instantly when reassured of your continued love and affection for her.

*Hugs* Wishing you the best…

posted April 02, 2007 11:10 PM            

thats funny.. I know exactly what you mean.. heheh. and Im the one who recognizes this and always brings us out of our sorrows with some playful activity or something other.. that is very true.. sometimes I might let it go on for to long though.. hmm we are fine now but yea I found out I will never really know her birth time so it kinda sucks lol.. but in a way I guess I could kinda look at this as good...

posted April 03, 2007 12:43 AM              

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.. for a minute their I thought this was another thread about cancer men and why they act the way they do, and I thought here we go again.. lol.

~Kevin

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those cancer men *rolling eyes*

posted April 03, 2007 10:31 PM            

did you forget I was a Cancer man? lol or was that sarcasm...heheh

... ahh know the Cancers girls... so silly.. tisk tisk.. lol

~Kevin

posted April 04, 2007 09:09 AM              

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NAM,
did you forget I was a Cancer man? lol or was that sarcasm...heheh

... ahh know the Cancers girls... so silly.. tisk tisk.. lol

~Kevin

p.s. - how do you do the quote thing?

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That quote thing ^

use this code:
write the word quote between these brackets: []

so,I'll give you an example but without the brackets so it won't take and you can see what it looks like, I'll use parenthesis instead.

(quote)NAM is the best.
Kevin (/quote) <----haha!!!!

the last quote is going to have that slash before the word.Same thing with other codes you want to use like making the letters bold, instead of the word quote you would put only a letter b, or if you want to add a pic you would write IMG.

posted April 04, 2007 09:11 AM              

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posted April 04, 2007 09:14 AM              

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NAM,
did you forget I was a Cancer man? lol or was that sarcasm...heheh

... ahh know the Cancers girls... so silly.. tisk tisk.. lol

~Kevin

p.s. - how do you do the quote thing?

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