posted March 30, 2007 07:15 AM            

Synastry

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posted March 30, 2007 10:22 AM            

I'm tired right now, but I'll give it a shot tomorrow..

posted March 31, 2007 02:46 AM            

Ok, well I reckon his main influences are Taurus (obviously) and Leo (both his Asc and NN are there) .. You could probably add Libra in.. but it would come second, as there are no personal planets there.

Your main influences would be Taurus (like him), Aqua (your moon), Scorpio – since you nataly have some strong Scorpio/Taurus oppositions – Leo (your Asc) and possibly Gemini as well – NN/Chiron – it looks like something that would affect your personality a fair bit.

Now, the Taurean sides to both of you are perfectly compatible.. and I’m actually surprised that the energy of the conjunctions *plus* oppositions hasn’t already precipitated this into a relationship.
Whenever you mutually act as Taurus or Leo.. you would absolutely be on the same wavelength and feel like you’ve found a life long partner or at least a life long friend. By acting like Taurus I mean – sensual, artistic – anything musical or arty that you may do together – physical – sexual in a lovey dovey sort of way – down to earth as they say – maybe a bit possessive or protective of each other – genuine and physical in expressing affection towards one another – great body language communication going on (moon/merc conj in Taurus)
What I mean by acting Leonine is – you both love the limelight, at least a little bit and having your Asc there you are not afraid to shine when you walk into a room. Leos just love each other when they act all Leo lol (I’m pretty sure it works for the Asc as well).. so I’m sure you’ll absolutely love your mutual talents and self-confidence.. and probably stroke each other’s egos quite a bit unless there is something to compete over.

Now the problems come in with your Scorpio placements. If personal planet Mars wasn’t there – it might not have played such a big part in you.. but since Mars/Saturn and Pluto are there opposing some of your Taurus stuff.. you *do* have a Scorpionic streak. You want a bit more out of a love life, than this guy has to offer.. Alternatively you may want *more* out of him and try to change him to suit you (which will work horribly so please don’t go into it with the idea of changing him).. What you need is more intensity of feeling, more depth, more of that spiritual passion Scorpio has. Taurus has plenty of passion but he is (or seems to be) a meat and potatoes kind of guy. Very physically straight forward – hates playing games – doesn’t want to be controlled or bossed around or he can be as stubborn as (lets not even go into that – 6 placements in Taurus speak for themselves).. You do seem to want to control your lovers.. Deep down with Scorp Mars (plus Saturn) there is always at least a bit of the dominatrix in you.. and you may do it undercover.. but after a while it could really get to him.

Basically the Scorpio/Taurus oppositions could ruin what could otherwise be a very promising relationship. Any sort of attempt of manipulation or control on your part will get very bad reactions from him. You need to learn to compromise so that both of you can get what you want out of it and be happy at the end of the day.

Together you form a fixed grand cross (by sign even if not always in orb).. Individually you already have the 4 fixed signs in your make up, however he does not. It may be harder for him to deal with the intensity of energy that the relationship creates.

I was also going to mention your Moon in Aquarius, but I actually don’t believe it would much that much of a problem. It is conjunct his DC, so something about you feels like the right woman to marry.. I think the Scorp placements are much more dangerous to the relationship than Aqua moon (completing grand cross) would be. He also has his Libran placements trine your moon.. There’s something about your Aquarian-ness that he’d find quite interesting and likable.

But he doesn’t seem like someone who would deal well with the sign of Scorpio (too much Taurus). The other thing is he only has one water placement and it is Uranus. When you have almost nothing in an element, you either don’t show it much, or you exaggerate it. I’m gonna take a stab in the dark and say that he doesn’t show it much (based on past experience with someone with a singleton Uranus in fire who was about as fiery as the sea floor). What this means is, he is less attuned, sensitive and emotional in comparison to you. There is a depth about you he doesn’t quite understand. He also has less fire in his chart but not by much, - this probably won’t feel like a problem..

Basically, this could work well as a relationship if that Taurean staying power pulls you through the rough times.. which it may as well – on that level you are quite compatible. Once you begin something you will stick to it and try to make it work – as long as you compromise – and do not engage in any push and pull Scorpio behavior .. I can see this going places.

I don't know much about composites, but if William sees this - I'm sure he'll help you.

posted April 08, 2007 08:57 PM            

Pretty much all of what you said was spot on! And in fact it could work for a lot of my relationships as most of the lovers and friends that I attract tend to be Taureans as well!!!

The man in question is a year long friend of mine and yes there are definitely sparks, but I am in a happy relationship with another bull and despite some tough times, I won't be doing the dirty on him with bull 2!!!

One thing you mentioned that really stood out for me was that mutually either acting taurean or leonine with each other would put us on the same wavelength. Well that's right on the money - we're both very tactile, affectionate people and we certainly do butter each other's looks up a lot, lol!!! We also go to a lot of concerts together and will be going to some music festivals over the summer as well! (but as part of a bigger group - there won't be any sneaky tent sharing!!! And where most friends come round to your house with a few of beers of an evening, he comes over with a couple of steaks and helps me cook us all a meal! How taurean can you get?!?!

You were right about my Scorpio side - it's definitely in there, bubbling away from time to time. I do rather shamefully have to admit to being a bit of a control freak in my relationships - (not that they know it, as it's quite undercover) and I do try to "improve" my partner under the guise of doing it for them when it really also benefits me. Gosh, how manipulative! To be honest, I've always tried to suppress any of my scorpionic urges, but to be honest, I think that channeling them properly would be more beneficial. For example, studying psychology might enable me to turn intensity into shrewdness and doing more sports might tone down any aggression!

He's a wonderful man, but I'm not going there! I just thought it would be interesting to see the astrological viewpoint as our connection is definitely strong! And my moon conjunct his DC is very interesting, because he has joked with me before that he and I should make one of those marriage pact thingys... ("If neither of us are married by age 35, blah, blah, blah!") LOL!

posted April 08, 2007 09:18 PM            

The MC/IC angles are at the 29th degree, which is interesting.

posted April 10, 2007 07:16 AM            

He and his father own a successful estate agents and are planning to expand this year. They've asked me on board from September!!! You might well be right on the money, thank you!!!

posted April 10, 2007 10:43 AM              

lol just kidding