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pearlized
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posted April 10, 2007 11:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I need help please. My husband is driving me crazy , he has developed a case of absent mindness that i find hard to believe. And he doesnt want to go anywhere but work and back to home!
He has left lights on his auto several times inthe last month, then someone has to assist him to get home(usually me). I would think the first time it happened he would have learned a lesson.
The only transit i see going on is Saturn conjunct natal Moon. I know that will cause a person to be very hermit like especially with is moon being in the 12th house.
He just got over a serious illness in January of this year. i had to take care of him then he would not take his medicine as directed even though he could have been hospitalized behind the illess. He hates his job but dont we all sometimes? That is life of an adult you have responsibilites.

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 12, 2007 11:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.. from the chart pic on page ..

tChiron opposite his moon .. conjunct natal Venus ..
t.Chiron retrogrades back to 10 deg aquarius .. so will again square up to his natal Chiron .. feb 2008 aprox ..
( although .. it doesn't quite reach the 9 degree of his natal chiron .. )
tNeptune sextiling natal Neptune .. and no doubt has been effecting his mc/ic .. by square ..
and tPluto looks to have been at a square to natal Saturn ..

here's a page of retro/direct dates .. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/013101.html

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pearlized
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posted April 12, 2007 09:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cant find any info on these transist online Chiron that is. Anyone have any idea?

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posted April 12, 2007 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune could be wreaking havoc as well.

Transitting Neptune:
Saturn isn't the only thing affecting his Moon. tNeptune is in a loosening opposition to it.

Natal Neptune:
Transitting retrograde Jupiter is sitting on his natal Neptune. Jupiter expands whatever it touches. Transitting Uranus is coming into a square with his natal Neptune (as it heads into his 8th house).

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Uranus Transits in Aspect to Natal Pluto: This is a great transit for clearing things out of your life --- whether you want them to go or not. The changes that Pluto brings are slow. They may take many years to build up. Like a volcano getting ready to erupt, everything may seem placid for many years, but there are forces of change working unseen. Uranus changes, by contrast, strike like lightning.

Put these two together, and you’ve got a spectacular show. Things will be going out of your life at this time. Accept this. Let go of as much as possible and salvage what you can. Frequently, these changes will be for the better, although you may not be able to see this at the time. This transit, especially the stressful aspects (conjunction, square, and opposition) can bring the kind of experiences that everyone wants to have gone through, but no one wants to go through. The changes will be greatest in the areas of your life where Pluto is located in your birth chart and where Uranus happens to be transiting. For instance, if financial houses (2 and 8) are involved, watch out for financial reversals or tax problems. Fortunately, transits can be checked even years ahead, so you can make plans to handle the situation well in advance. http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/transitsUranus18.3.htm


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pearlized
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posted April 13, 2007 12:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the link. I was reading up on Pluto transits and this jumped out at me. Back in Nov we went to visit my family. I used some of the trip to spend time with my nephew a Leo. My husbands rising sign is Leo as well. Half way through the trip they started to really get on each others nerves. Now my nephew is only 4 and my husband is awesome with kids so i was stumped as to what was going on. Pluto was just starting to transit through hubbys 5th house and he was having a power struggle with my nephew! I can laugh about it now but at the time i thought they he was losing the common sense he was born with.

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Jan_A
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posted April 14, 2007 05:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi pearlized!
I see it a little bit different. Health and work problems had/have certainly something to do with Saturn crossing his 12th house and opposing his 6th house. The situation in that areas should meanwhile be not so dramatical(of course he should have done something to make it better).
Now he has to fight against depression(Saturn on his Moon and AC).
The best strategy would be to relax and do something for the soul(do something he likes ). And please be a wise women( ) - give him a feeling you love him whatever happens. Okay?

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Nightjar
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posted April 14, 2007 06:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Health and work problems had/have certainly something to do with Saturn crossing his 12th house and opposing his 6th house

Just wanted to add...
A transiting planet only affects the matters of the opposing house as long as it's conjunct the cusp. For example t.Saturn opposite MC will have an effect on 4th and 10th house issues as long as the planet is near the fourth house cusp. After that it will only affect the fourth house.

T.Saturn in the 12th can indicate low energy and withdrawal from other people. Saturn entering the 1st house represents a new beginning, and now while the planet is still in the 12th, it's time to get rid of everything that's dragging you down so that you'll be ready for the new cycle.

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pearlized
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posted April 15, 2007 03:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yikes well Saturn will be transitioning over is Ascendant the last week in June should i expect problems at home during that time(7th house). Saturn will be transitioning my 7th house at the time as well.

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pearlized
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posted April 15, 2007 03:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jan i have been doing stuff he likes this has been our theme for the last year it seems. Recently he has began to be appreciative of me doing things for him instead of taking it for granted. I am hoping our financial problems will lighten up soon and then we can take a real vacation.

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Jan_A
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posted April 15, 2007 06:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
pearlized
I think vacation would be very good for you and your husband.

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Neferemi
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posted April 17, 2007 03:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He hates his job but dont we all sometimes?

That's the problem, right there.

It's true that people don't generally like everything about their job all of the time... But Sun in Capricorn in the 5th House, Venus in the 6th House, and North Node in Virgo seems like someone who places high emphasis on their work. I would say this person needs an extremely creative job that is unusual and will grant them prestige.

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That is life of an adult you have responsibilites.

Responsibility is outranked by misery. His Sun sign and placement require enjoyment and achievement.

I left a job last year that had made my life misearable. I also went for long periods of not taking any prescriptions or vitamins. I just didn't care about anything, including my health. No one should have to be unhappy! And there are plenty of people who can't wait to go to their job, so unhappiness and employment aren't exclusive to each other.

If you want to help him, he probably needs some compassion and help writing up his résumé. It might also help for him to read up on people in his field (or the field he wants to go in) and find out how they got to where they are. He may not be able to afford to quit his job, but if he sees that there is a future it will probably ease his depression quite a bit.

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pearlized
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posted April 18, 2007 01:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
his field is computer technology. he does not have adegree and wants to self teach himself, although admiral he is at the end of options for the education level he has. he will not admit it but going back to school would cut into his video game playing time. the work schedule he has now is very flexible if he wanted to explore higher ed. he is really good with kids and i think would make an excellent teacher.

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pearlized
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posted May 27, 2007 04:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neferemi how did you get out of your low period? I ask b/c he finally quite his job after saying he wanted to for almost a year. He did not apply for any positions before doing this and just got fed up and left. I did a resume for him a few months back.
Was reading about True Nodes tonight and his True Nodes is Virgo with his south node in Pisces. The Pisces traits are heavy:introverted, escapists,impractical etc.
I see that the Saturn transits is wrecking havoc on his opposite house and wont leave until late next month.

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Neferemi
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posted May 27, 2007 02:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pearlized ~ I just saw this but am leaving the computer for the day. I'll be sure to post a proper reply here later tonight!

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MUSTANG
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posted May 27, 2007 08:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am worried he may need to see a Dr. What was his illness, if you don't mind me asking....if you do, I understand.

Depending on what was wrong with him, he could be ill.

When you say you had to help him home, that frightens me. A lot.

Absentmindedness and memory loss/confusion can be indicative of something serious. I don't want to scare you, but I had to say something.

If he isn't ill, I agree with neferemi. If someone can't stand what they're doing in their career, they are bound to be miserable.

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Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc Taurus

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pearlized
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posted May 27, 2007 09:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He had an severe tooth infection and the only way they could drain it was to operate from outside his face. so he know has a scar there but his facial hair covers it.
He hasnt been to a real dr in years but i think it is time for him to go we do have health insurance. He asked if our insurance covered a psychologist b/c he is not feeling like himself and hasnt for a few months. Told me this stuff in the last week about his feelings b/c usually he doesnt talk about that stuff. mental illness is prevalent in his family he has a few relatives who are bipolar.

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pearlized
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posted May 27, 2007 09:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When i say help him get home i mean give his car battery a boost not that he was disoriented. I can tell leaving the job lifted a huge burden off his shoulders but know i have a burden of paying bills until he finds another job.

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Neferemi
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posted May 28, 2007 03:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pearlized ~ Sorry to be posting so late, and I know this still won't be a "proper" response as I'm a bit crushed for time...

My job title was impressive and I got paid a nice salary and the company is prestigious. That is all surface stuff, but it was a pretty surface so it was hard to let go of it.

What helped me most:

Sleep.
I hadn't had enough sleep for years. The first week of unemployment I took over-the-counter sleep meds to force myself to sleep. I knew my body needed to repair itself from years of intense stress, anger, and resentment, and I didn't want my anxiety or depression to prevent me from sleeping.

A goal.
I was in school trying to finish my BA when I quit. I'm getting ready to move out-of-state to get an MFA. I would not have done this if I had stayed at my job. My focus changed from the job to a degree. I realized that through education I can have what I want, and misery is not required for professional success.

I can't overstate how leaving that job has improved my life. It took time for all of the benefits to surface, and I do still feel rare pangs of regret so it's not as though "I'm gone! It's all happy-fun time for meeeee!" It has been rough. It has been worth it.

Doctor stuff: He should get a full physical to rule out any possible issues that might keep him from feeling as best as possible (depression can be caused by thyroid problems, etc.). You have insurance and he has time - now is optimal.

If he is asking about mental health coverage in the insurance plan and he is being more open with what's going on in him, then he is asking for your reassurance about getting help. If you want to look at it via astrology, look at the Moon in the 12th House. He needs to know that he has options and that his comfort-level doesn't have to be extended in order to get help. If he doesn't feel comfortable visiting a therapist, most family doctors can prescribe medication for depression and/or bipolar.

I have to go now so no transits or moon node biz, but I'll likely be back online sometime tomorrow night...

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