posted April 11, 2007 05:20 PM              

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I (Scorpio Female) was born 11/12/1981 and he (Cancer Male) was born 07/22/1983. He seems very distant and I understand that he’s a Cancer, but after a while I'm starting to think it's not worth it. One minute he seems to like me, then the next... well, you know. I'm starting to loose interest. My question is... was it doomed from the beginning? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Him
Sun Cancer 29°00'11 in house 1 direct
Moon Capricorn 0°24'43 in house 6 direct
Mercury Leo 12°43'47 in house 2 direct
Venus Virgo 6°46'45 in house 3 direct
Mars Cancer 15°24'42 in house 12 direct
Jupiter Sagittarius 1°08'30 in house 5 retrograde
Saturn Libra 28°04'48 in house 4 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 5°17'20 in house 5 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 27°01'59 in house 6 retrograde
Pluto Libra 26°46'25 in house 4 direct
True Node Gemini 24°50'58 in house 12 retrograde

Me
Sun Scorpio 20°14'53 end of house 9 direct
Moon Gemini 1°36'06 in house 4 direct
Mercury Scorpio 4°40'42 in house 9 direct
Venus Capricorn 7°19'16 end of house 11 direct
Mars Virgo 12°52'44 in house 7 direct
Jupiter Libra 27°04'59 in house 9 direct
Saturn Libra 17°17'00 in house 8 direct
Uranus Scorpio 29°46'05 in house 10 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 23°20'52 in house 11 direct
Pluto Libra 25°17'16 in house 9 direct
True Node Cancer 24°35'15 in house 6 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

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posted April 15, 2007 02:36 AM              

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To my fellow scorpio... I have dated a couple cancer men. I thought it strange that they were supposed to be my ideal, because it didn't seem like it. One moved too fast and liked me too much, and I of course ran for the hills, I don't like that. The other, I fell for fast and I guess it was an infatuation, but anyhow same thing...he seemed to be very into me one minute, and distant the second. Drove me insane, and eventually he disappeared and stopped talking to me! Turned out he was playing some other girl at the same time, which I am sure puts a spin on things... But that has been my experience. Your synastry looks good though, your venus is trined...

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posted April 15, 2007 02:43 AM              

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It is weird though. The first night we were sooo into each other, the kissing (don't usually kiss on the 1st date) was so passionate (that’s all we did). That night he told me that he never liked anyone so fast before and I told him the same thing. We live in 2 different states and I’m going to see him in about 6 days (but who's counting? LOL) I'll see what happens then. If he seems distant, like he has been lately, then I'M running for the hills. I don't like playing games, you're either into me or your not. If he's not willing to open up then I'm gone. I'm ready to settle down and have a family (not in 6 days LOL) Well, he did ask me to teach him when it comes to the sexual department because he has no experience. I guess that’s opening up, but we'll see.

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