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NAM
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posted April 20, 2007 10:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok, I am not sure if this is astrology related but I will put it in here just in case.
Is there anything out there that can make women want children, like anything with the moon at certain times of the month, or the planets or anything like it?
Or is it more related to age, you know how people say "your clock is ticking"
And if it is this way why is it that I have this urge to be a mom again? at 35 after having two grown up kids....
ahg! this is driving me insane!

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posted April 20, 2007 11:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Girl....You've got Sun AND Moon in Cancer!!That should explain it all!!LOL!The most nurturing sign of all!

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NAM
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posted April 20, 2007 11:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah but I wasn't always like that, I can calm those feelings by "parenting" the rest of the world.this time it has to be another child.I am not adopting noone, it has to be mine.

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posted April 21, 2007 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nam, I believe I posted little comments here and there on the board of my struggles with wanting to be a mom.. Even at one point after getting no help from doctors (Several actually) Went to a psychic LOL

I go through phases of deeply wanting to be a mom.. been that way since I was very young. I'm a cancer sun. I nurture everyone I come into contact with.. but i'm not cuddly mom type..but i do appreciate and adore children and their spirits! I don't know what my problem is. haha

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posted April 21, 2007 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Right now I feel like I don't ever want kids of my own. But watch, like 5 minutes later I'll change my mind. I know, I know, I got a long time to think about this...yada yada yada but what can I say, I'm torn on this issue. I have a very-cuddly-and-nurturing cancer sun and a not-so-cuddly-and-nurturing virgo moon so yeah.......

I also have a fifth house venus and the interps for that also suggest that I want children and will have them. Ehhhh, depends on my mood.

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 21, 2007 08:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NAM
re ** .. Or is it more related to age, you know how people say "your clock is ticking" .. **

regarding 35 ..
for someone born around mid july '72 .. they would have ..
2 trine aspects from transiting Chiron to their natal Saturn and Uranus placements
1 trine aspect from transiting Saturn to their natal Chiron
1 square aspect from transiting Chiron to their natal Lillith

transiting Lillith aspecting Venus and Merc
ditto for transiting Jupiter ..
transiting Nodes squaring natal Saturn ..

1 square aspect from transiting Pluto to their natal Pluto ..

i reckon all the planets futher out past Chiron have that 'clock ticking' effect ..
in on way or another .. .. though .. Saturn has the reputation of being the daddy of all clock tickers ( as far as i know ) ..

maybe look at how those could raise the mommy issue by seeing what they are touching in your natal chart by house .. etc .. .. most of those transits will be in terms of a few weeks yet to go .. ( aprox ) .. although that Pluto transit will be going on for quite a while yet ..

methinks transiting Jupiter is playing a part .. just a guess .. :-)

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NAM
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posted April 21, 2007 12:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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regarding 35 ..
for someone born around mid july '72 .. they would have ..
2 trine aspects from transiting Chiron to their natal Saturn and Uranus placements
1 trine aspect from transiting Saturn to their natal Chiron
1 square aspect from transiting Chiron to their natal Lillith

transiting Lillith aspecting Venus and Merc
ditto for transiting Jupiter ..
transiting Nodes squaring natal Saturn ..

1 square aspect from transiting Pluto to their natal Pluto ..

i reckon all the planets futher out past Chiron have that 'clock ticking' effect ..
in on way or another .. .. though .. Saturn has the reputation of being the daddy of all clock tickers ( as far as i know ) ..

maybe look at how those could raise the mommy issue by seeing what they are touching in your natal chart by house .. etc .. .. most of those transits will be in terms of a few weeks yet to go .. ( aprox ) .. although that Pluto transit will be going on for quite a while yet ..

methinks transiting Jupiter is playing a part .. just a guess .. :-)


Actually i am a June baby, the 22nd and 1971 is my year.
I had thought I was done with my two kids and for years I didn't want anymore, but last year I met this guy that everytime I see him makes me want to have a baby, isn't that weird, so i am trying to figure if it is a "me" thing or if it is linked to him somehow.
Even if I don't see him I still think I would like to have one, but it all started with him.

I like to look at myself and study my feelings

Of course I do have those days when i think, am I retarded? why would i want to start all over again, so i was thinking about getting me a monkey

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NAM
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posted April 21, 2007 12:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Nam, I believe I posted little comments here and there on the board of my struggles with wanting to be a mom.. Even at one point after getting no help from doctors (Several actually) Went to a psychic LOL
I go through phases of deeply wanting to be a mom.. been that way since I was very young. I'm a cancer sun. I nurture everyone I come into contact with.. but i'm not cuddly mom type..but i do appreciate and adore children and their spirits! I don't know what my problem is. haha


I nurture everyone I come into contact as well, I do that with my clients as well, they are all my babies and i will do anything to help them, thinking of them first.
i do this with my friends too.

i am also not the cuddly type either, I only like to cuddle and spoil my mate, I mean I do it with my kdis but it only last so long.

I can give you my two kids if you want a weekend with them and you are not going to want children again they are very "healthy", they will get you very tired very quick.This is why i think sometimes why am I wanting another little brat LOL

I wish you the best with your wish of being a mom

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 21, 2007 01:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
re: ..
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Actually i am a June baby, the 22nd and 1971 is my year.

.. considering the 'attraction' .. ;-)

.. for that date .. it works out thus ..

*aspects to natal Mars ( 'men' in a gals chart ) ..
transiting Saturn *opposes .. and transiting Jupiter *sextiles .. natal Mars

transiting Chiron *conjunct natal N.Node ( in aquarius .. so south node is leo )

and .. transiting Lillith is currently trining natal Mars .. ( aha !! .. )

basicly you can feel an age clock ticking .. Saturn does that ..

re: transiting Chiron in conjunction to your N.Node ..
see N.Node ( aquarius ) .. and Chiron links .. via ..
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/audiofls.html ~
you may be facing up to .. in some way .. your Node interps/meaning ..

transiting Lillith to natal Mars .. .. randy panda bear potential ..
.. it's about 10 days for a Lillith transit .. ;-)

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seveneieghtorange
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posted April 22, 2007 04:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im a Cancer sun/ scorpio moon with my moon in the 5th house which most natal chart readings tell me that i love children and that I will probably have a lot of them. Im only 22, so I have no idea if I WILL want kids down the line, but as of now and as far as I can tell I have no desire to reproduce. People always assume when I say that Im a cancer that I love kids but I have no affinity whatsoever with children...from my nephews to nieces to my friends' kids. When I went out with mr pisces who had a 3 year old son, I could barely muster the energy to get to know his son better let alone want to spend "family" time with the both of them.

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babeefoxx
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posted April 22, 2007 06:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Cancer moon and I really want to be a mom too!! <3

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NAM
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posted April 22, 2007 06:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Im a Cancer sun/ scorpio moon with my moon in the 5th house which most natal chart readings tell me that i love children and that I will probably have a lot of them. Im only 22, so I have no idea if I WILL want kids down the line, but as of now and as far as I can tell I have no desire to reproduce. People always assume when I say that Im a cancer that I love kids but I have no affinity whatsoever with children...from my nephews to nieces to my friends' kids. When I went out with mr pisces who had a 3 year old son, I could barely muster the energy to get to know his son better let alone want to spend "family" time with the both of them.

Don't worry, I had no desire or intentions of having children before I did, I totally thought I was never going to have them.
I was the kind that would look at parents and think to myself how in the world they allow kids to act the way they did and if they were mine they would such well behave little angels because I wouldn't put up with them...well...WRONG! it doesn't work that way LOL

When my ex husband met me he asked me for a kid right away and the tought of having kids was just not there, I was scare I wasn't going to have the patience but, trust me, once you become a mother all that changes.

I have a little friend that is 22 as well and she is a Cancer as well, she is another one that thinks she will never have kids, she says my children are her birth control HAHAHAHA she feels she doesn't have what is needed for the job but I bet you money the minute she has one she will find that and more.And she will be a great parent.

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NAM
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posted April 22, 2007 06:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
HappyDragon wrote:
considering the 'attraction' .. ;-)
.. for that date .. it works out thus ..

*aspects to natal Mars ( 'men' in a gals chart ) ..
transiting Saturn *opposes .. and transiting Jupiter *sextiles .. natal Mars

transiting Chiron *conjunct natal N.Node ( in aquarius .. so south node is leo )

and .. transiting Lillith is currently trining natal Mars .. ( aha !! .. )

basicly you can feel an age clock ticking .. Saturn does that ..

re: transiting Chiron in conjunction to your N.Node ..
see N.Node ( aquarius ) .. and Chiron links .. via ..
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/audiofls.html ~
you may be facing up to .. in some way .. your Node interps/meaning ..

transiting Lillith to natal Mars .. .. randy panda bear potential ..
.. it's about 10 days for a Lillith transit .. ;-)



What do you mean:
Considering the attraction?


I went to that link , boy there is a lot of work put inot that, I read some but i still need to look some more
Thank you!

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 23, 2007 01:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
re:
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What do you mean:
Considering the attraction?

this bit ..
** .. but last year I met this guy **
i.e. added ingredient since header post .. :-))
.. ties in with the transits to natal mars ..

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