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Topic: Libra male...please help
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GrlyGirl20
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2007 08:42 PM
  
Hey, I wasn't sure how to deal with this man. It's the first time that I've found myself attracted to someone who is so much older than myself. And he has so much air in his chart, I'm not sure if we'll get along. I'm not sure if I can deal with it or if we'll get along. We've been talking for two months, and I'm a first for him. He ususally is attracted to older women And I'm in a way falling for him. Here is his chart:October 5, 1972 born in Richmond VA at 11:44pm
Please Help!!! Thanks 
His aspects:
Asc: Cancer...I think I say this because he picks up vibes very easily and he is moody and will wake up moody somedays
Sun: Libra
Moon: Virgo
Mer: Libra
Ven: Leo or Virgo...I think leo because he has a bit of an ego
Mars: Libra
Jup: Cap
Sat: Gem
Uran: Libra
Pluto: Libra
Nep: Sag
My placements: July 3, 1985 born at 5:34 am in Bellflower, Ca
Asc: Can
Sun: Can 1st
Moon: Cap 7th
Mer: Leo 2nd
Ven: Tau 11th
Mars: Can 1st
Jup: Aqu 8th
Sat: Sco 5th
Pluto: Sco 5th
Nep: Cap 6th
Uran: Sag 6th IP: Logged |
babeefoxx
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posted April 22, 2007 10:15 PM
I'd wouldn't stress getting along , him having a Cancer ascendant and you a Cancer sun is what will tie you together. Also, your moons are practical,level-headed earth signs. You may get fed up with his sun's detachment, but i'm sure that because his Cancer ascendant, it won't last too long and he'll end up apologizing(if you two are caught up in a quarrel). He'll want things from every aspect to be equal in your relationship which you will definitely love.
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GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 319
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2007 12:45 PM
Thanks so much, I met this guy online (after a horrible relationship with double sag guy). And this is the first guy I've ever met through an online type of thing. I just don't know if my age is a large factor. I know he likes me, but I'm trying to be realistic and keep in mind that there could be no future between us (as much as I may want one). He wants children and marriage in three to five years (not with me...in general) and I'm almost 22. Yes I want to be a mom and married by 28...but that is still 6 years away. I like this man and I want to see if something is possible between us. Any help on how to deal with him is great. Also I can't help but think I bring nothing to the table. I know for a 21 year old I am very mature and have been called an old soul ( I have no idea if I am or not) but I am a cap moon, with a lot of pluto placements, and he is a 34 year old divorced engineer.
When I look at the facts...I can only surmise that sex is what he wants. Am I reading too much into into this or what? Thanks. IP: Logged |
pseudofemme
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posted April 23, 2007 07:46 PM
Here is a picture of your synastry chart, assuming both birth times are right:  This is really interesting. Your Ascendents are conjunct and your Sun is sitting right on his Ascendant (0'05 degree orb), so you two definitely have a "connection" -- despite the age difference, you're probably eerily similar in many ways. Your moon is also conjunct his North Node, so he feels like you're "good" for him, and will pull him in the right direction in life. He also has a stellium of planets in the 4th house, so even with all that air, he can be a bit watery -- Cancerian, really, since he also has Cancer rising. There are a lot of squares made to your Neptune, though, as well as your Sun and Mars. With Neptune, there's a very real chance of idealizing this relationship and building castles in the air... you may be seeing what you want to see at this point, instead of what's really there. An illusion can arise where one (or both) of you blindly ignores the other person's faults and the improbability of the relationship working out... it all seems lovely for a while... then one day the illusion will shatter, and you'll see reality (which will not be so lovely). That's the nature of hard Neptune aspects -- and this relationship has a lot of them. There ARE some nice aspects, though. Along with the Sun/Ascendant/Ascendant conjunctions, your Moons are trine, your Venus trines his Moon, your Jupiter trines his Sun and Saturn. There is definitely a level of compatibility here, but like you said, all that air in his chart makes some difficult aspects to your planets. The problems will probably not be evident until later on, because the Asc/Asc connection tends to smooth things out at first. Also, from his chart, he doesn't look like the kind of person who'd use you for sex. He does look like a family-oriented guy who'll want to settle down (the Cancer ascendant and all those 4th house placements), though thanks to the indecisiveness of Libra, it may take him a while to get there... also, he has natal Neptune square Venus, so he's apt to idealize relationships as a whole, and may not be entirely practical when it comes to them. Have you met this guy in person yet? IP: Logged |
Atlenta
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posted April 24, 2007 05:25 PM
Voah he seems like my alter ego.
sun Libra/ moon virgo /merc libra
his ASC is in the opposite sign of mine :OAs was mentioned he seems to be a libra with a strong cancer house focus. he has saturn in aspect to the sun, and this makes him serious. and i liked the sun on top of his ascendant! definitely has a familiar feel from you to him IP: Logged | |
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