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Topic: Virgos
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nattie33 unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 01:13 PM
Is it just me or do virgo's hate to be touched. I don't mind animals just people. I was always like this and when someone touches me with the exception of my daughter it makes my skin crawlIP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 02:55 PM
God I hope not!I'm in love with one! And I'm a SENSUAL Taurus that NEEDS to be touched...------------------ S:Taurus ASC:Gemini M:Scorpio IP: Logged |
Beowulf unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 03:41 PM
It depends on who is doing the touching. Also, their age and experience of intamacy is a factor to be considered too. If a stranger touches, then they are likely to back off quickly, with a kinda shock response and feel rather embarressed. However, I did say 'depends' on who is doing the touching. If the touching is from someone who they welcome, want to be touched by, then Virgo can be very sensual and responsive. If it's unsolicited touching then they can be offended. EXPERIENCE is critical here. Most Virgos, especially woman, go through their early years without much experience of intimacy. Unless they have had contact with a Scorpio as a friend or family member. Or they have other factors in their charts which lead them towards sexual intimacy like a Scorpio moon in the 7th or 8th house. Then, during their 30s and 40s, they explode into a sex fiend who has this inner complusion to TRY every form of sex act they can before it too late. They feel as if they have missed out on something and they have to make up for it. I have found that this only gives a false sense of peace and most Virgos, male and female, end up stating that sex is 'over rated'. Sex, to Virgo, is a complicated issue. On the one hand they can be very 'prim and proper', sex can be a little 'dirty'. All the smells, the slurping wet sounds can be a bit 'disgusting' to their sophisticated senses. The whole sex act can be seen as 'boring' and monotonous. It can also become 'routine'. On the other hand, sex can be liberating. Offering a sense of well being that can not be gained from any other source. So, I'd say this: If a Virgo loves you, then it's likely s/he will do anything you want as long as you lead the way. If s/he does not love you it can be like trying to get open a chastity belt where the key has broken off and rusted into the lock. Some Virgo's prefer porn, adult toys and masterbation to actual intercourse and all the MESS that does with it. ------------------ Welcome all, good buddies. Be friendly and I'll be nice. IP: Logged |
noreenz unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 04:20 PM
I agree with what Beowulf said regarding to whom is doing the touching. In fact, I can agree with quite a few things Beowulf said, lol. BEOWULF, I could certainly use you as my therapist, lol IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2007 04:26 PM
I am a Taurus and I hate to be touched too!IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2007 05:14 PM
I'm a virgo mooner and I've always had a hard time being touched.....especially in public. Being tactile is not something that comes naturally to me so my family thinks I'm strange. My moon even falls in the 8th and I still find it hard. Good thing Saturn is going through my 8th house of intimacy so I can deal with all these *lovely* issues now. Isn't life just grand? IP: Logged |
Tanae unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 05:15 PM
Noope!!! It's not just you, I don't like being touched either and ESPECIALLY if it's unexpected...I don't know..I'm just not that big on touchy feely people, no matter who they are and ESPECIALLY in public (moon in Capricorn). IP: Logged |
Tanae unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 05:15 PM
Noope!!! It's not just you, I don't like being touched either and ESPECIALLY if it's unexpected...I don't know..I'm just not that big on touchy feely people, no matter who they are and ESPECIALLY in public (moon in Capricorn). ------------------ Tanae' Asc: Libra Sun: Virgo Moon:Capricorn IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 06:12 PM
no wonder..that aqua sun/virgo asc. didn't like it when i hugged him...he barely touched me.. :/ IP: Logged |
nattie33 unregistered
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posted April 23, 2007 07:19 PM
I have a taurus moon also. And 7 planets in earth. I used to have a good friend a capricorn male. We got along great he didn't like to be touched either.IP: Logged |
izodesmozina unregistered
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posted April 24, 2007 12:43 AM
Right, nattie! I've got a Cappy Moon & Asc and I HATE to be touched by strangers, sometimes even family! The displays of affection do not come very easily for me and NO WAY in public! Just... breathe in, breathe out, it's just a touch, everybody does it. It gets better after a while. Try to think less about the fact that you are being touched, concentrate on the conversation. IP: Logged |
nattie33 unregistered
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posted April 24, 2007 01:05 AM
My mother was a leo with an aries moon. Very touchy feeley. also could turn on the water works a lot. When we would go on vacation together she would always get a message hope i spelled that right. anyway she always asked me if i wanted one. I told her that's like paying someone to touch you. I don't like it when it's freeIP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted April 24, 2007 01:22 AM
i like to be touched by very few people. i think virgos are energy conductors. if the energy isn't right, it causes strong reactions in us. sensitive nervous systems is why. we also wind up easily and get irritable if the timing isn't right in terms of sex and romance. haha.i'm extremely tactile though. no thing goes untouched. again, further support of ones sensitive nature. of course i have a cancer asc. and 4th house moon, and stellium in Libra. makes me moody, but romantic. who knows. *shrugs* that is the worst feeling though, being repelled by another's touch. IP: Logged |
SilverFairy Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Delaware Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 24, 2007 03:01 AM
My husband use to not like touching and still has this issue. I have a friend who hugs everyone (She's a Taurus) He hated this for the longest time.. but eventually got use to it... and our niece and nephew he's okay with. IF I don't hold his hand, or affectionate enough he gets upset with me. But I don't like to be touched a lot either. I will hug those I am close to. But other then that keep your distance. I also don't like constant touchy feely people.. Especially out in public.. when we are home I do curl up with him and watch tv. It's just not a constant thing with me. IP: Logged |
Missa Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted April 24, 2007 06:20 AM
I have Virgo Ascendant/Venus/Mars, I don't mind touching but it depends of the person and how/where they touch. I hate it when strangers or people I don't like too much touch me, especially those who try to hit on me - I find it offensive. I've never been too much of a touchy feely person who wants intimacy constantly, as a multiple air sign I prefer just talking and sharing thoughts.IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted April 24, 2007 10:29 AM
5 planets in Virgo.... I agree with Beowulf It's all about who is doing the touching. With a STRONG Scorpio influence, I actually experience the opposite. With the right person (energy)... Its goosebumps and tingles... IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 08:15 AM
HiI agree with some things Beowulf said,but not everything... Im a Virgo,with moon in taurus,on the 8 house;venus and mars in Leo. i consider myself a very complex person.Im not a woman who likes to be touched by everyone,but just adores to be touched by the people i love. When i meet someone, i like to show my sympathy and always kiss them in the face and likes to be kissed too. Since a child i always been the sweet one,giving and receiving hughs from people ( even the strangers that i met through my parents or brothers). i was shy, yes, but always liked to be given attention and be admired from my personality. Concerning intimacy, i do had it late in life ( comparing with the average) but the main factor was not seeing sex as discusting( i find it a key factor in a relationship). Was the fact i´ve never met anyone with whom i wanted to be intimate.When i met him,things happened naturally, and i love to be tuched by him and touch him ( even in public). He´s a Libra and he´s the one who doesnt like to be touched by strangers . Virgos are very picky on what it concerns to the ones they love,but once they find him, virgos can be and are very sexy and sensual, giving sex a very sacred sense. It´s just the way i look at IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 25, 2007 01:07 PM
Virgos are charming, but aloof when comes to touching(at least they are with me)...heartbreakers they are ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
amisha121877 unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 02:17 PM
saturn in virgo 1st house, virgo 2nd housei don't like to be touched by everyone either or hug and kiss everybody either - it's awkward / and i like to keep my sex life to myself/circle - it doesn't have to be put on a bulletin board. i don't like people whispering in my ear - that is SOOOOO annoying or touching me to make a statement, you know, like tapping on me or poking me or something. I can not stand that. all in all, in some cases, it depends on who is doing the touching. IP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 02:24 PM
eww i hate people whispering in my ear. hot steamy breath. blecch. heebie jeebies!!IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 1840 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 25, 2007 02:26 PM
I've been friends with two Virgo suns who were both very physically affectionate (hugs, etc) with platonic friends...IP: Logged |
Highly_Inflammable unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 02:38 PM
Virgos I know have never been offended by hugs or touching.. But what is true is that their preferred way of showing affection/ emotions is by words...especially the written form.perhaps it is their way of interacting.. more verbal communication, somehow their body does not always gives the right "body language" to convey the message. IP: Logged |
sVirgo Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Colorado Registered: May 2009
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posted April 25, 2007 09:42 PM
Yes, I too don't like touching until I am in love with the person. IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 10:00 PM
EEEwww...I'm right w/ you Amisha!No prominent Virgo in my chart,but I hate people touching my ears or poking me!!Just TALK to me!!Now when I'm w/ my lover...its a differant story! ;-)IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted April 25, 2007 10:00 PM
EEEwww...I'm right w/ you Amisha!No prominent Virgo in my chart,but I hate people touching my ears or poking me!!Just TALK to me!!Now when I'm w/ my lover...its a differant story! ;-)------------------ S:Taurus ASC:Gemini M:Scorpio IP: Logged |