posted April 28, 2007 08:27 PM              

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I am confused.
I read in cafeastrology that if -for example- person A's planets fall in your 5/7/8th house, person A will likely feel more attracted to you but some claim the opposite.
Do you have any personal experiences or info that might help me understand this... thing?

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posted April 28, 2007 08:35 PM            

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This I have pondered over this many times, I am starting to think it could go either way. The planet person feeling it more(depending on the planet)more than the house person. There been a few times where I've looked and seen synastry between two people and noticed the planet person feeling the effect more, which is weird because we've all read it's suppose to be the 'house' person that experiences the attraction more. I think it might be what planet the person has strongest within their own natal chart. One example... if person A has their Uranus in person B house, and person B has alot of Aqua related planets(kind of energy) their accustomed to than they will acknowledge the attraction more. Does that make some sense? With me it's Saturn energy, I can't relate to it, so if someones Saturn falls in one of my fun zones(mainly 5th house)it's more like that other person will feel the attraction more than me, which has happened.

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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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posted April 28, 2007 08:44 PM              

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From personal experience if its mutual i.e. both of your suns fall into the 7th house it should be a good thing but if only one does and the other is in a hard spot say 12th house it can be more difficult than fun.
my husbands sun falls in my 7th house and our relationship is perfect to him. His sun on the other hand falls in my 12th house and find myself feeling more like a parent than partner at times.

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posted April 29, 2007 10:25 PM              

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In my experience, the house person feels it more. I've seen a lot of one-sided attractions where one person's planets activate the other person's 5th/7th/8th houses, and the planet person wants to just be friends, while the house person is already naming their future children.

I've noticed that I attract people with Scorpio rising, because that placement puts many of my planets in their 5th and 7th houses. Sometimes the attraction is mutual, but often, they like me much more than I like them (unless they have a lot of Pisces or Taurus energy -- corresponding to my 5th/7th houses).

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posted April 30, 2007 04:36 AM              

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Hi, Green Fairy!

I also think the house person feels it more, though I've also seen a few cases when the planet person was more involved (Sun in someone's 7th house for instance - the house person didn't want a relationship, but the planet did).
My personal opinion about this is that the house person kinda feels the vibe without having a choice (for instance, planets in your 8th house - you're gonna feel the attraction and depth of the relationship, like it or not); the house person is more like a "receptor", a "receiver" for the vibration, while the planet person is the "giver", the active part - and yes, I think the planet person has more freedom of choice, he/she can influence the house person or walk away. Luckily, usually this goes both ways and we have to check both charts hehe. Because let's say your planets fall in my 4th,8th and 12th house (I'm gonna be helplessly drawn to you), but it depends where my planets fall in your chart - if they fall in neutral houses, like 2nd, 10th, 9th, 3rd and so on, you'll probably just want us to be friends or work together. But if they fall in the romantic houses, sparks will fly! In this case it would be very difficult to say who feels what and to what extend. So... my conclusion is that it depends on the whole picture, not just the position of one planet in one house. [the girl I talked about at the beginning, who's Sun was in someone's 7th house had his planets in her very personal houses - 4th, 12th most of them; she was very affected by the relationship. Her planets were in his 7th, 11th, 3rd house - he wanted to be friends with her and not get involved].
I hope I didn't make things too blurry .

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posted April 30, 2007 11:00 AM              

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Hmmm...me and my partner both have empty 7th houses!(Sag. and Cap.,respectively).Well,mine has Neptune and thats it!I have a stellium in his 11th house(Taurus/Gemini) and he has a stellium in my 4th house(Virgo).

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posted April 30, 2007 08:56 PM            

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hi there ^_^ I guess that if person A's planet falls into person B's 1st/4th/7th/10th houses, both can feel strongly, as these houses are linked to AC/IC/DC/MC. For example, if person A's Moon falls into person B's 7th house, person A's emotions influences person B (since 7th house/DC resembles what we seek/behave in relationships), but they also get influenced by person B's way of being in relationships.
But if person A's planets falls into person B's houses (let's say on some empty houses), then normally is person B that would feel more. Person A's planet might remind person B of that area of life that the house resembles, but since person B has no planets on that house, he doesn't reflect much of that energy back to person A. For example, imagine that person A's Moon falls into person B's 8th house. Supposedly, person A's emotions would ignite person B's deep and intense side of life (sex, death, joined resources, etc.). But since person B doesn't have any planets in his/her 8th house, so let's say that he/she isn't really into this intense and deep side of life. Then person B wouldn't really feel that much, and so he/she wouldn't really reflect that energy back.. so without reflecting it back, person A's Moon doesn't feel much at all.
But well, there are cases in which person A's Moon might be nicely or badly aspected to person B's planets when it falls into person B's 8th house, so both people would feel much about it.

Well, non-astrologically speaking, imagine that someone makes you feel that nice home feeling, making you feel as if you can be with him/her all the time, as if he/she is a part of your family (like someone's stellium falling into your 4th house). Then you'll behave like treating this person as a family member, wanting to share everything and be together all the time. Then this behavior of yours will also affect the other person back, right? But then, it depends on how the other person react to this behavior of yours.

I guess that it often depends on each case to truly know if the house person feels more or the planet person.. But in case of the planets falling into the other's 1st/4th/7th/10th, I'd say that normally both feels almost the same. ^_^

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