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Topic: R certain ppl just never meant 2 get married?
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scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 05, 2007 04:32 PM
My boyfriend is sagg with aquarius rising. born 11-26-75. He told me he doesn't feel that he is ever meant to get married, he needs his freedom and does not want to be tied down with responsibility. We have been together a year and half, and I have just always felt we would be together forever. Apparently he does not. I know sagg and aqua are supposed the notorious bachelors, is that always true though? Idk. Im sad. IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 05, 2007 04:33 PM
Oh, and not to mention his age. At thirty one, if he is saying that, then I'm taking it pretty literally that he is serious.IP: Logged |
seveneieghtorange unregistered
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posted May 05, 2007 04:52 PM
Hi scorpiofrancesca! I am a cancer sun, with capricorn on the descendant. I feel I will never get married, not just because astrology tells me that capricorn in the 7th house hardly ever does, but I just dont think I can ever relinquish complete trust and control in a partnership. I also have a scorpio moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and the thought of being completely vulnerable to someone terrifies the s*** out of me. So, no I dont think only saggitarius and aquas are the only ones who dont feel the need for marriage and "forever" partnerships. Maybe you can post his chart?? I know a lot of Venus-Uranus people who have a very hard time settling down because of this placement. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4417 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2007 05:06 PM
You could very well be together forever, just not married. It's not always true of Sag or Aqua that they can't stay married, but I would think that most of them could deal with not being married. I'm a Capricorn, and I could deal with not ever getting married. I'm not against it. I'm just not particularly for it either. IP: Logged |
SLAYER unregistered
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posted May 05, 2007 06:25 PM
I also feel like I wont ever get married. This is a very strong feeling I have been experiencing lately. I am excessively fond of my independence, but I don’t think it is because of my freedom fondness. I just don’t feel like it is going to happen. And I think I am okay with it. I have an empty 7th house, the Descendant is on Aquarius.
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marsconjunctmercury unregistered
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posted May 05, 2007 06:36 PM
I am 32 and Sagittarius and say the same thing. I will probably never get married and heaven forbid i impregnate anyone.------------------ MCM - Forum 'Boob' :) 4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K marsconjunctmercury@yahoo.co.uk neutralcruiser@hotmail.co.uk http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8122.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8132.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8120.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8127.MOV IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 09:48 AM
Oh, mercuryconjunctmars. You sound just like him! On both accounts, the marriage thing and having kids. I don't understand, and its sad to me. And also not to mention, we have dated over a yr&half and he hasnt introduced me to his fam! Here's his chart:sun sagg moon virgo mercury sagg venus libra mars gemini jupiter aries saturn leo uranus scorpio neptune sagg pluto libra north node scorpio ascendant aqua midheaven sagg
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MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 10:00 AM
Seveneightorange-I also have Scorpio Moon in the 5th along w/ Pluto(though not conjunct).Juno is there as well conj Pluto...don't know what that means!!Unlike you though,I DO feel a need for a partnership!!And my 7th house is 18 deg Sag,pretty close to Capricorn.My love interest's 7th is 23 deg Cap. ------------------ S:Taurus ASC:Gemini M:Scorpio IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 10:20 AM
I think what he's scared of is the responsibilities and obligations associated with marriage ... and not marriage itself. However, things do change when things happen. Maybe he's just telling that to you so you don't get your hopes up first.. maybe if you could assure him that things will remain somewhat the same... and not change too drastically after marriage.. and that he still gets the same freedom... IP: Logged |
Nightjar unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 10:44 AM
Some people just don't want to make their love contractual. As simple as that. Doesn't mean that they don't want to stay together with the same person for as long as they live. And doesn't mean that they're immature or scared.I personally find it quite ludicrous that for some people love is only real if they have a signed piece of paper to confirm it. IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 11:37 AM
Perhaps for some people the contractual agreement itself is a huge step of commitment that they desire... personally i would want it signed.. eventually. I need that full commitment (even if it's only an idea & there's possibility of divorce) to feel satisfied. IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 12:18 PM
His Saturn opposes his Ascendent. My 7th House is ruled by Saturn. Possibly where it comes from?------------------ MCM - Forum 'Boob' :) 4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K marsconjunctmercury@yahoo.co.uk neutralcruiser@hotmail.co.uk http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8122.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8132.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8120.MOV http://www.islandpcservices.co.uk/dan/misc/drivingrange/100_8127.MOV IP: Logged |
soconfused unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 08:39 PM
I feel I will never get married - I'm a leo Not because I don't want to but it's just a feeling I've had for a very long time. IP: Logged |
triplecancer Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2007 08:40 PM
So everyone with Cancer rising (Capricorn on descendant) will have difficulties getting married? Does that mean I won´t get married? That doesn´t make sense to me, since cancer is associated with family, home and maternity and capricorn is associated with commitment. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2007 09:22 PM
Maybe it's his virgo moon? Not saying that I'll never get married myself, but as a virgo mooner I can understand why some people choose to stay unmarried (independence,fear of losing the indentity,the hermit syndrome,etc.) IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted May 07, 2007 09:41 PM
Oh great....my love has a Virgo Moon AND Cancer rising/Capricorn Descendant!I've got my work cut out for me!!But we have discussed the future and he says he wants to settle down and have one of those "Soulmate" type marriages...where the people adore each other always.------------------ S:Taurus ASC:Gemini M:Scorpio IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 08, 2007 10:13 AM
quote: Oh great....my love has a Virgo Moon AND Cancer rising/Capricorn Descendant!I've got my work cut out for me!!But we have discussed the future and he says he wants to settle down and have one of those "Soulmate" type marriages...where the people adore each other always.
Don't worry, everyone's different. I'm just saying that this particular case it could be the Virgo moon. What I said was that I have a virgo moon too and while I'm not sure that I'll never get married but I can understand why people choose not to....that is all.
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scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 08, 2007 02:49 PM
I never thought about the virgo moon being the cause,thats interesting. I always thought that might help deter the strong sagg independence and make someone more down to earth, lol. All of you guys that think life is happier without marriage or kids, could I see your charts? I want to try to find some similarities, and find the connection why...So that I can stay away from your type....lol! Thanks guys, francescaIP: Logged |
miss_muffet unregistered
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posted May 08, 2007 03:53 PM
It's better to be Happily Unmarried than Sadly Married... Good luck. M IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 08, 2007 06:12 PM
quote: I never thought about the virgo moon being the cause,thats interesting. I always thought that might help deter the strong sagg independence and make someone more down to earth, lol
Yes, it does make a person more down to earth, but if anything a virgo moon increases independence. Virgo moon is not a companionship moon, it is a hermatic one.
But of course, other influences can over-ride this. Like i said, I'm not sure that's I'll never get married, I may very well do so in the future, but I can empathize with people's decisions not to get married. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 35 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 08, 2007 06:49 PM
I do think some people are never meant to get married (me included). I think it sounds like your guy is one of them if he doesn't want responsibility and does want freedom. (Plus, doubling the Sag/Aqua? Unlikely.) If you can deal with a formally uncommited relationship in the long term, it might work?IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted May 08, 2007 09:10 PM
I have a virgo moon too but I'm sure I want marriage. I don't see any other way. I think for once my sun is strong to override that.IP: Logged |
amisha121877 unregistered
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posted May 09, 2007 12:27 PM
i'm not sure if certain people are just never meant 2 get marriedi don't think i'll ever get married - it wasn't one of my "goals" in life, so i didn't practice but surprises can be nice sun sag 5th house/ moon aries 9th house / leo ascendant and all that other jazz that are becoming insignificant to me IP: Logged |
seveneieghtorange unregistered
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posted May 09, 2007 02:17 PM
I dont necessarily not WANT a partnership for life. whenever I slip into my fantasy world, it would be nice to be with that one man who I trust solely and we love each other more than anything in the world. But reality comes in and nowadays you just cant seem to trust anyone.IP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 11, 2007 02:50 PM
I have a Capricorn girlfriend who told me for years that she wasn't concerned about getting married and if she ever did think about it, it would certainly not be before she was 35. I was in a 7 year relationship at the time and I absolutely wanted to get married and in fact I completely assumed that I would marry my then-boyfriend. Within a year I was living alone and very single in another city and she was engaged after a 6 month courtship. Now we're both around 31 years old and I'm still unmarried (although I am currently with a great bf). She and her husband work together and they just had their first child in January. So you see, often what you want or think you need versus what you get doesn't always materialize or work out the way you plan. I suppose it's true in the grand scheme of things that there are indeed certain people who are never meant to marry. Maybe I'm one of them?!? But I really don't think it's as simple as where your descendant falls or what it is you believe you need. If there's one thing that's been drilled into me by the universe, it's that what we need for our personal evolution will come to us. Maybe it's up to us to recognize it but ultimately it might not be what you were expecting. Did that make sense? I'm still drinking my first coffee of the day. ~ Love IP: Logged |