posted May 07, 2007 12:28 AM              

Perhaps this is your child, i'm not sure if he/she is male/female, but they're likely to be very beautiful. 25 Sep - think of Catherine Zeta-Jones.

The sun is in the 9th house, just coming out from the 8th - they are likely to have both traits, but mostly 9th house traits.

The child likes truth above all else and is very candid, very very candid - venus and mars in scorpio makes him very passionate as well.

Having sun, moon and ASC all in cardinal signs, he must really be driven, assertive, on the get go, wanting to be top, the winner, etc. However, he can be quite frustrated because the 3 signs are squared and in opposition.

He will be very driven in his career and will be drawn towards a profession where he feels he can beautify things (not necessarily physical beauty, but maybe also one profession where he can SEE the beauty).

He may have some problems with expressing himself through speech or creative outlet - you might want to help him in that.

Having Jupiter/Neptune/ Uranus in the first house makes him charismatic, dreamy, yet very erratic. He might like shocking people.

He has a cancer moon, which points to his mum's traits (being cancer).

posted May 07, 2007 12:54 AM              

Please be patient with him. This kid's a little warrior, but he may feel like he is misunderstood. Let him know that you love him and that it's okay to verbalize how he feels.

posted May 07, 2007 08:03 AM              

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Hiya NAM-- I noticed Saturn in the 3rd house placement in this little guy's chart. My brother and I both have this placement and when we were younger we found it rather difficult to communicate clearly (my brother didn't start talking until he was 4 and I couldn't annuciate words properly-- both of us took speech class in elementary school).
Please be patient with him. This kid's a little warrior, but he may feel like he is misunderstood. Let him know that you love him and that it's okay to verbalize how he feels

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Yes, he didn't really start anything until late , from crawling, walking, speaking....he took his time for everything.
And he did have the speech problems as well through 1st and 2nd grade he went to speech therapy class, he doens't have any problems now, he is 9 yrs old.

He does still feel like he is misunderstood, and I am talking on "everything" he likes to act like a baby and doesn't want to grow up.He is the youngest of my two and we just went through a really hard time with my ex which poison his mind somewhat and got him against me for a while, it is taking me a lot of patience and love to bring him around and not be the negative kid my ex turn him into.Because of this school also suffered a lot.But he is coming around.

Anything on being lazy ?????????
Anything on living life in his own little world ??????????????

posted May 07, 2007 08:07 AM              

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Perhaps this is your child, i'm not sure if he/she is male/female, but they're likely to be very beautiful. 25 Sep - think of Catherine Zeta-Jones.

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The sun is in the 9th house, just coming out from the 8th - they are likely to have both traits, but mostly 9th house traits.

The child likes truth above all else and is very candid, very very candid - venus and mars in scorpio makes him very passionate as well.

Having sun, moon and ASC all in cardinal signs, he must really be driven, assertive, on the get go, wanting to be top, the winner, etc. However, he can be quite frustrated because the 3 signs are squared and in opposition.

He will be very driven in his career and will be drawn towards a profession where he feels he can beautify things (not necessarily physical beauty, but maybe also one profession where he can SEE the beauty).

Having Jupiter/Neptune/ Uranus in the first house makes him charismatic, dreamy, yet very erratic. He might like shocking people.

He has a cancer moon, which points to his mum's traits (being cancer).

I think he'll be fine. He is very home-loving (Venus oppo IC) and will not stray far from you or the home - home is where his heart is.... for a long time

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I don't know about staying with me, I hope so, he seems to have a recentment with me and the divorce thing, he thinks I am the bad one because I decided to put a finish to it and his father would use him to make me stay in the relationship.It has been very hard.

posted May 07, 2007 09:39 AM              

Emotional eating happens when they're very sad, it's almost like they take comfort in food, you're right..

"Lazy" doing most work with least amount of effort.. that has been (somewhat) the hallmark of most venusians.. lol. And he has lots of trines.. save the few oppositions.

Moon opposition neptune can show escapist tendencies, trapped in their "own little world"..

i think he needs an explanation.. slowly, but not too fast.. he needs to understand what is happening, so he can be balanced and feel happy.

posted May 09, 2007 06:30 PM              

He does seem to let his brother control him,his brother is only 11 but likes to act like he is now the "father" of the family, which i try to stop but the young brother lets the older one take control of the house and fights my authority.
now, i am obviously in the end the one that controls everything but when I am feeling weak, or I am pre-occupied with work the older one controls the younger one.
Does this make sense?

Here is the older one:

posted May 10, 2007 05:22 PM              

TCJ
Saturn is touchign the 7th house so he will be going through some restructuring in his relationships with others. Besides the divorce, has he lost any loved ones, friends? Help him express it somehow. ASk how he feels about these endings. However short his answers will be - Libras comes off as cut and dry to me anyway but can be very deep.

Maybe give him a project to do around the house or let him decorate/paint, rearrange his room. Help you fix up your home or he can get set up with something in the community. The new moon will be hitting those spots on the 16th. Neptune is playing games with his 1st and 2nd house - desire slips through his fingers lately. He can grasp some of them though. find out what his interests are - pluto in sag (11th/12th house). He needs to get in touch with that - it could be overwhelming him to a standstill.

posted May 10, 2007 09:47 PM              

Who do you think is who? it's a 50/50 chance so it is not too hard LOL

posted May 10, 2007 10:00 PM              

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TCJ
Saturn is touchign the 7th house so he will be going through some restructuring in his relationships with others. Besides the divorce, has he lost any loved ones, friends? Help him express it somehow. ASk how he feels about these endings. However short his answers will be - Libras comes off as cut and dry to me anyway but can be very deep.

Maybe give him a project to do around the house or let him decorate/paint, rearrange his room. Help you fix up your home or he can get set up with something in the community. The new moon will be hitting those spots on the 16th. Neptune is playing games with his 1st and 2nd house - desire slips through his fingers lately. He can grasp some of them though. find out what his interests are - pluto in sag (11th/12th house). He needs to get in touch with that - it could be overwhelming him to a standstill.

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DJJ
The 11 year old - is holding his own desires a bit by being bossy. He fels it is his duty to be this protective with you all and keep everything "together". Pluto is pounding his 3/4 houses so he is going to be persistent in those areas as far as focus is concerned. Is he into sports or interested in it? That would be good for him to get involved in. he can learn a lot now, to his benefit - I mention that because of Uranus potential on his body as well as service (which he is clearly acting out at home).

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Yes, he loves sports and it is build for it too, he is extremely good at school, arts and sports.It just comes naturally for him but his down side is his mouth...he has very good answers that sometimes shuts me and I have to be careful with my answers to not fall in the "because I say so" and rather give him an answer explaining the "why" of things but it also backfires me other times because he uses that knowledge to his advantage.

ah kids!