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posted May 07, 2007 06:17 AM            

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I've been wondering for a while. Would a capricorn talk and act nicely, just to be nice? Or should I take his behavior and words seriously?

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posted May 07, 2007 12:46 PM              

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Wait what? You mean would a Cap act like a Libra/Leo and be charming just for the sake of being nice, and well, gaining appreciation (and sometimes in an effort to coax something out of you)? Sure look at their Mercury (communication, Mars (how we go about getting what we want), and Venus (relationship style). That's the redeeming thing about Caps - their other 9 planets

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posted May 07, 2007 01:13 PM            

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If I say sag mercury,aqua venus, and taurus mars what would you say?

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posted May 07, 2007 01:28 PM              

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hey jupitersgirl,

can you be more specific at all? what is he saying/doing?

from those placements i would think he'd be pretty genuine.

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posted May 07, 2007 01:41 PM            

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We hadn't seen each other since September 2006(We live in different countries). Then on january we met, he came here for a job interview kind of thing, and he invited me to that city. We spent 3 days together. It was very nice. I won't go into detail but everything was perfect. On the day of our departure, while we were saying goodbye he gave me a big long hug and told me that he was very happy to see me and he also told me that he had to see me again (Because we really had a good time, it was like magical). He was very hopeful that he'd get the job and if he started working there he would be in my country for 1-2 years. He didn't get the job, it was a big loss for him. After he returned home we've sent some text messages to each other, I asked him what happened about the job and so on. He answered me but I felt that he was very disappointed that he missed that opportunity. Anyway after that there's just a period of long silence.Now I'm wondering if he really meant those words he said when we were leaving...

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posted May 07, 2007 07:57 PM              

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I don't think he was faking it. Those signs are very honest and wouldn't think to save someone's feelings, much less lie to do so. I'm sure he's really disappointed and really just can't do anything about it. Maybe he feels like long-distance relationships, friendships even, are too unsatisfying. Or, maybe he is busy and can't respond yet...

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posted May 07, 2007 09:22 PM            

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I think he was being genuine as well. He's likely quiet because he's depressed about the situation.

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posted May 08, 2007 01:48 AM              

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I believe he's honest. I would think he's not into having a long-distance relationship since it is very hard to maintain and risky. Ya'll are in different countries so what's the point of pursuing anything.

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posted May 08, 2007 02:53 AM            

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I hope that when he has the chance to come here again, he'll contact me.

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posted May 08, 2007 04:56 AM            

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I agree with Sweet Cappy. And I also think it's best for you to move on. Your Cap is being realistic. I'm sure under different circumstances you would be together.

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posted May 08, 2007 05:15 AM            

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You're right, my point is not to have a long distance relationship with him. He lost that job opportunity, but it's very likely that he'll get a job here sooner or later. I just want to keep the contact until he comes here again. That's why I asked if he really meant the things he said. Right now I'm confused, but I also understand how disappointed and depressed he is. I think I just need to be patient...

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posted May 09, 2007 12:03 AM            

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Hey jupitersgirl, I agree with what everyone else has said regarding his sincerity. I just wanted to add my sympathy over how frustrating this situation must be for you both. I think it's rare and beautiful to find someone else who you really feel a strong connection with, and I think it's so sad when practical obstacles prevent 2 people from enjoying and developing that connection. Damn real world! I hope things work out for the best and I know your Venus in Cap recognizes a good thing when you find it and gives patience to get through obstacles.

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posted May 09, 2007 01:17 AM            

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This kind of disappointment seem par for the course for a Capricorn. Of course, you guys got along splendidly, and, of course, he didn't get the job. A lot of things like that seem to happen to Caps, or maybe to everyone...who knows?...maybe it's the Sag in me talking.

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posted May 09, 2007 11:53 AM            

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I'll be patient and wait. I have very postive feelings about this. I feel a lot better with your helps. Thank you everyone. I'll share the good news with you

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posted August 26, 2007 08:29 AM            

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Yes, it was about the job.

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posted August 26, 2007 10:35 AM              

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Okay this is just my experience but Cap (Sun, Venus, or Mars) can be harsh. If you do something wrong they make you feel incompetent and just stupid! I cannot win with a capricorn anything! But they seem so nice and proper...they are indeed but watch out. These are my two friends and my boss who are Cap's.

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posted August 26, 2007 10:46 AM            

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Yes Ericka, I've seen the harshness myself , but once they let you get close to them they can be so warm and nice.

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posted August 26, 2007 12:01 PM            

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I have no idea, Capricorns make no sense whatsoever to me. I'm a Virgo and never met one who didn't confuse me yet.

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posted August 26, 2007 12:10 PM              

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I think it`s worth being patient with a Cappy though it`s not easy. Mine is the best i could ever find.

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posted August 27, 2007 06:06 AM            

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It's really worth it.

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posted August 27, 2007 06:20 AM            

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Hi, I'm very saturnian with sun, mercury and venus in capricorn (in the 7th, but still..) and saturn in the 1st. It's true,we can be extremely harsh and strike out with no apparent reason. But it's all a defensive mechanism because of insecurity. When we trust someone we are the most loyal and warm people imaginable. Also, capricorn's words are always serious...that's the trouble, we are tooooo serious, lightening up once in a while would certainly help. Having said that I have to admit that as a cappy I only get on with very few capricorns. Cant stand my boss who happens to have the same sun/moon sign combination....such a micro manager....but that might be because jupiter is even stronger in my chart than saturn....too much capricorn in others seems to restrict jupiter....but anyway, yes, I would definitely trust a capricorns word!

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posted August 27, 2007 06:25 AM            

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"When we trust someone we are the most loyal and warm people imaginable. "

Annaf does that mean that once a capricorn leaves his defensive and introverted attitude with you, he trusts you?

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posted August 27, 2007 08:49 AM            

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JUpitergirl, unfortunately I cant speak for the entire capricorn population...but for me that's a loud a definite YES!!! The tough exteriour is only protection, you only get to see the softer capricorn personality traits, when 'You're in' and I trust you. (Forget to mention, that I also have sun opposite saturnand mercury opp saturn...so even more capricorn/saturn energy....sigh!)

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posted August 27, 2007 09:01 AM            

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Little addition, I also wanted to mention that the old cliche about career being a focal point in a cappys life IS VERY true! With my jupiter in pisces in my 10th and conjunct MC and aspecting pretty much every planet and angle in my chart, idealism is very important, Yes. And that idealism is emphasised by my mars in Saggi. BUT despite all the idealism and wanting to help and all, what I always really needed was a great career. I only 'found' myself, when I finally had the right job (where my idealism had a hook but which also had the right 'status' (yeah, I know it's pathetic). Only when I found this career I love, my vision was clear for other things i.e. love. And with cappy men this career focus is probably much more pronounced. So I would think with this guy you;ve been referring to, it must have been a MAJOR blow for him not getting the job he really wnated. If he had an interest in you during that visit, it might just be that the job priorities have taken over again. Doesnt mean he doesnt have an interest in you, but he's probably currently channelling all his energies elsewhere meaning his job search.

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posted August 27, 2007 11:03 AM              

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=)I do think very few people would say such a thing and not mean it... At least for me, it would be unimaginable, and I've got 6 planets in capricorn so maybe it's a good thing for you=)

Anyways... Good luck!!! I wish you the best

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