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Mariangela
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posted May 07, 2007 09:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd love to give you an answer, but I'll let the pros look at this one

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

I "FEEL" therefor I am

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Alisa
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posted May 09, 2007 05:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I probably can help you with this question. Can you tell us birthdates of both?

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Mariangela
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posted May 09, 2007 08:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Alisa
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posted May 09, 2007 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His sun exactly equal your sun/contra-antiscia moon midpoint. That's why you so love him.
He loves you too. I do not know whether he would love you intensely as same as you or not since I do not know his exact moon.

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teaologist
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posted May 09, 2007 03:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My thought though is this... having Venus contacts doesn't always mean love. My friend and I have a Venus/Mars double whammy... and I still don't feel like rolling in the hay with him. So if Venus contacts don't guarantee love and tenderness... then why should having no Venus contacts automatically mean no love?

Case in point... my friend's Moon makes no contacts with her bf's planets... doesn't mean she feels nothing for him. Actually she feels quite the opposite. Lots of emotions there. Likely they'll get hitched and be quite happy. So I'd stay positive in spite of the interaspects. Good luck!

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I like what others said. I should also note that it really does depend on the individual's natal chart. My friend has a lot of Uranus influences (11th-house Moon in Pisces and 7th-house Ura, among others). She's emotionally self-sufficient, doesn't require a lot of nurturing, and has a mostly go-with-the-flow personality.

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darkdreamer
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posted May 09, 2007 04:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I`d also include houseplacements, especially personal planets in 1st, 4th, 5th, 7th and 8th house.
Then I`d look at solstice points (I`ve known someone with whom I shared only very few Venus-placements, but my Venus was exactly solstic-conjunct his Sun and I felt so strongly drawn to him), and parallels / contraparallels.
In my example, my Venus was also parallel his Sun.

Also, it might be interesting to see if you share mirrored natal aspects.
I`m usually drawn to people with Venus or Mars in aspect to Pluto, because my own Venus is square Pluto, and I react to that sort of energy, even if there is no Venus-Pluto-aspect.
But to stick to the truth, there usually is also a Venus-Pluto or Mars-Pluto aspect synastrically.

And then again, what is with the ruler of the 7th house; mine is MErcury, and aspects to my Mercury often feel like a mix of Mercury and Venus, probably because it`s what I am attracted to as showns by the descendant.

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PaidVacation
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posted May 09, 2007 11:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Mariangela,

it really does look as though he has no Venus contacts to you. I wouldn't overemphasize or deemphasize this - just understand how it affects your relationship.

Perhaps he isn't automatically affectionate towards you, but he will use his Venus in his relationship with you - he'll just operate on a more conscious level when he does. Plus, his Venus has connections in his own chart, so it'll interact with you indirectly. Since Venus is ruled by his Sun (ruler of Leo), he'll use it to relate whenever his Sun interacts with you. Or his Psyche, which is sextile his Venus, his Jupiter, and whenever using his 5th and 10th house (if the birth info doesn't change for these). And we know, the 5th house is where you have fun with your honey

His Eros
in your 3rd
Conjunct Jupiter (3)
Conjunct Mars (0)
Sq. Vx (1)
Trine Psyche (1)
...I'd say Eros is a good indicator of love and desire, and he clearly has strong connections to you in this area.


His Juno
in your 4th house
Conjunct Pluto (2)
Square AC (3)
Trine Moon (1)

...these are all strong connections - they're like superglue! With Juno, you can be sure he feels that you are an equal partner and he will remain loyal and respectful of you. Juno was Zeus' wife and she did everything she could to please Zeus (despite how manipulative and vengeful she could be). She seems like a grown up Venus to me.

His Sun, Mercury, Mars in your 3rd
...if you look to his DC on Gemini, your realize his ideal mate is someone with whom he can explore and analyze the world. Maybe not that romantic on the surface, but with his planets placed in your 3rd, you definitely provide an opportunity for this and more.

His Moon in your 12th
...He finds you mysterious and intriguing, also good for curious minds. For the Moon, being in another's 12th house is likely to be emotionally stirring, generative, and poignant.

His Venus in your 2nd
...you guys work well together and bring out each others talents.

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thearistocrat9
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posted May 10, 2007 12:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I really think it's different strokes for different folks in terms of love. If you think of love as something sexual and primal I would think venus-mars contacts would justify the urge. If you view love in terms of nurturing I would have to look at moon contacts.

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Belage
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posted May 10, 2007 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As transiting Pluto in the last degrees of Sagg is approaching an opposition to your Venus at 1 degree of Cancer, it usually signals obsessive love. Since in your case, your Venus falls in your 12th house, called the house of undoing, I would be doubly cautious. You said you have fallen deeply in love with this man. Fine. Just make a conscious effort to not lose yourself in this relationship.

Pluto is currently in your 6th house, which is the house of work and health. So, make sure to use the transformative power of Pluto in these areas. Don't neglect your health, and don't neglect everyday work.

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CoralFrequency
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posted May 10, 2007 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The things you described - affection, tenderness and care - seem more like Moon feelings. Your Moons are both in Gemini so I'm sure he does care about you in those ways. Venus is more about sexual love. He might not be very physically attracted.. but many things make for attraction outside of astrology - genes!(looks)/body language.. lol

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Dulce Luna
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posted May 10, 2007 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think when it comes down to real love, the moon is way more important than venus.

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Mariangela
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posted May 10, 2007 10:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! I'm overwhelmed by all the responses. Thank you all so much for your input. Yes, I am deeply in love with him. It snuck up on me and reamed me with such tremendous force I feel like I'm falling into a infinite void.

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Mariangela
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posted June 02, 2007 07:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope I'm doing this correctly but can anybody please give me their opinions about our aspects?

His Venus Sextile My Pluto
My Venus Trine His Pluto
His Venus Square My Chiron
My Venus Opposition His Neptune
Our Moons Mutually Oppose Our Neptunes
Our Mars Conjunct
My Venus Conjunct his Moon
Our Moons Conjunct in Gemini
His Saturn Opposition my Sun
My Saturn Conjunct his Sun
Our Saturns Sextile
His Pluto Sextile my Mars
My Jupiter Conjunct his Mars
My Sun Square his Mars
My Mercury Square his Mars
Our Mercuries Square each other but both in Earth Signs
His Moon Sextile my Mars
His Saturn Conjunct my Uranus
His Juno Conjunct my Pluto
My Chiron Conjunct his North Node
His Chiron Conjunct my Moon
His Venus Conjunct My Part of Fortune
My Moon semisquare his Sun/Moon Midpoint
My Moon Square his Venus/Pluto Midpoint
My Venus Square his Mars/Pluto Midpoint
My Neptune Conjunct his Ascendant
My Sun Square his Neptune

There are others, but these are the ones I've noticed so far. Please, can anybody offer opinions or advice?

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Vintry
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posted June 02, 2007 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vintry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, Mariangela!

I am studying astrology so I myself have way to many questions and always ask people here to answer them.. So maybe I don't know much and not good at this.. I will still try ;)

1) First of all, I've noticed you and your guy don't have mars/venus connection. However, there are two really nice sexual aspects: Venus trine Pluto - passionate and intense love, and Jupiter conjunct Mars - motivated desires and active relationship. So these aspects will add sexual and emotional excitement to relationship. Good!

2) The next best aspect you two have is Venus conjunct Moon, which means that you are sensitive and responsive to each other's emotions, desires and feelings.

3) I don't know about these two: Venus opp. Neptune and Moon opp. Neptune but I hear people say any Neptune contacts between charts usually lead to some misunderstandings, create illusions and make it difficult for two individuals to see each other as they really are (pink glasses effect).

4) Your Sun opposes his Saturn and his Sun conjuncts your Saturn. I think you tend to criticise each other, which can make you feel insecure and unappreciated for everything you do so aim for constructive criticism! Also this aspect is known to be karmic so the bond between you is strong.

5) Sun square Mars. You feel energized in his company so two of you need to do things together, be active. There's passion and excitement.
Mercury square Mars. Assertive, agitated and angry communications. Look for compromise to avoid that. You WILL have lively conversation for sure but be careful, it can turn into an argument. He is impatient and likes to dominate.

6) Moons conjunct - feelings are more pronounced between you two. Innate understanding of each other and emotional esnsitivity. You will feel very comfortable in each other's company and you have a similar manner of response to everyday situations.
Marses conjunct - this aspect is very stimulating and gives rise to passions between you too. Together you can utilize energies and accomplish any job. But be careful, avoid competing with each other and again, always look for compromise. Engage in any kind of physical activities together, you will truly enjoy it.

Ok, that's it! I'm leaving Chiron aspects out, don't know much about them.. They have healing effect? Guess not when they're in a negative aspect. Ok, hope someone else can analyse that.


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