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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, I would like to talk about attractions between these signs and experiences, I've only been in a Pisces/Libra(of the service signs) relationship and would say it was pretty romantic and steamy, the only thing is the emotional part, they are tough to understand out of the bedroom. But still one of my better ones to remember...Whats your experience?

Leo/Pisces
Pisces/Libra
Capricorn/Leo
Gemini/Capricorn
Aries/Scorpio
Virgo/Aries
Scorpio/Gemini
Libra/Taurus
Taurus/Sag
Sag/Cancer
Cancer/Aqua
Aqua/Virgo


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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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jupitersgirl
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posted May 08, 2007 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you alright Jupitersgirl? I figured love is something people enjoy talking about, and noticed a few of these kinds of pairing on here...

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posted May 08, 2007 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I've noticed it's more Sag girl/ Cancer man attraction, and it's usually the Cancer man that falls for the exciting and firey Sag woman. At least thats what I've seen.

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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posted May 08, 2007 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 08, 2007 04:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've only experienced Sag/Taurus and it didn't work very well.

I find myself attracted to some Cancers, but I don't see them as relationship material.. I'm not good for them, lol.

I like fire with fire personally

(mind you, the Leo I'm seeing has Venus in Cancer, come to think of it.. oops.. must be my venus in scorpio that likes that.)

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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know I've never experienced a Taurus relationship before, been attracted to a few, but it's usuallly not mutual. Sag men are very attractive, mabe it's the Libra and Cancer combo in me that I find them so desirable.

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posted May 08, 2007 04:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well Im a Cancer & Im crazy about an Aquarius. I dont know if he's crazy about me but he just wont leave me alone.
The attraction is strong. Its like we have a whole conversation with our eyes. And we understand each other without a single word be spoken.
Problem comes in though when the Aquarius starts to fall into the Cancer and love all that attentionand loving affection that they are being showered with. Then the crazy Aqua pulls back. Afraid of losing themselves in all that love.

My Aqua actually told me that women just want to get inside of mens' minds and scramble their thoughts.

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posted May 08, 2007 04:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aqua/can and aqua/virgo

Personally, for me, there was a nice friendship there, but the sparks were really lacking. I go more for fire or the other earth signs. For some reason virgo men don't do anyting for me physically that way, but cappies and taurus men do - I wonder why that is...

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posted May 08, 2007 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries here.. ^_^ And my bf is Scorpio.. I always liked this sign.. maybe it's coz of my 8th house stellium.. thought that astrologically I'm not as intense as a pure Scorpio, I find their intensity very attractive.. they might have a hard shell, but deep inside they are very caring and sensible.. ^_^
With Virgo, I find it a bit hard to relate with, even if my ascendant is Virgo.. >_<; I find their finesse and intelligence nice, but their criticism is a hell for me lol..

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posted May 08, 2007 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had great relations with sag men in the past.....it's pretty awesome! Yeah they can be blunt, and I can be touchy and moody but its all good. My boyfriend has a sag stellium but with Sun and moon in water.


As for Aquarians, I've only known one guy in real life. But I noticed that alot of my celebrity crushes are Aquarians. They're swoon worthy!


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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Aqua/Cancer one is also interesting but different, one is real intellectual while the other is more on an emotional plane...all the Aqua men I've met expect high mental capacity along with endless conversation, talking is good but not when someone wants to talk your ear off your head. One Aqua guy I dated long time ago, I almost felt like I was taking an examine around him just to be his girlfriend

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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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Dulce Luna
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posted May 08, 2007 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me...completely emotional?? Nawwww. I have a mercurial moon and venus; I'm on the intellectual plane as well as the emotional one.

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posted May 08, 2007 06:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Been with Taurus (Sag here), but it was only for a little while, never fully bloomed. It was great while it lasted, I remember he was the only guy who ever held my hand (even in public) and it felt so natural. He really made me feel girly, without doing much of anything. He did have his Moon, Mercury, and Venus in Aries, so we still vibed well. I think as long as you have other supporting connections it can work. Otherwise, it's just like "huh?" No idea how to deal with Taurus or Cancer energy alone.

In fact, one Taurus comes to mind who was def. interested in me, but I found him too inert...not really a bad thing, just not my thing. He didn't have enough energy to keep up with me, though I could tell it was a nice change of pace for him. I also find that they are maddeningly subtle! Pisces, too, or maybe it's the ones with Gemini Moons (or both!) This ends up with me feeling and possibly looking like a big goof.

I think maybe also that being either the 6 or the 8 in the 6/8 service/mystery pattern makes a difference. If a sign is 6 ahead of you, does that mean you feel an urge to help them? Or does it mean the opposite?

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libraschoice7
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posted May 08, 2007 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it goes something like...(see below)and yes the urge is there to help them, but I've seen some that are stronger than others in certain areas.

Air service to Earth(Libra/Taurus, Aqua/Virgo, Gemini/Cap)

Earth service to Fire(Cap/Leo, Taurus/Sag, Virgo/Aries)

Water service to Air(Cancer/Aqua, Scorpio/Gemini, Pisces/Libra)

Fire service to Water(Aries/Scorpio, Leo/Pisces, Sag/Cancer)

Sometimes the 'services' are better than others! LOL!

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Moon in Cancer
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Venus in Virgo
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posted May 08, 2007 07:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what do you mean by fire servicing water?

I'm a leo and have been with a pisces
was pretty good while it lasted - romance was good - honesty on his part was not -
we had great rapport but being attracted to him frightened me - he had a way of reaching things I had buried -

not sure if that's what you're looking for but if you're more specific, maybe I can help

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posted May 08, 2007 08:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gotcha thanks. I definitely feel more of an urge to help my Cancer friends than the Tauruses I know.

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posted May 08, 2007 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Sag and I have close to no experience with Cancers. Besides one Cancer friend, a guy, who I knew for about 4 years but have since lost touch with, that sun sign has been completely absent from my inner circle. My boyfriend for most of college had his Venus in Cancer though, and I certainly enjoyed being of service to his love nature . And I seem to have developed a bit of a girl crush on Eva Green, a Cancer who was in the last Bond movie.

Taurus, on the other hand, is a sign I seem to seek out. I've always had Taurus buddies both male and female. I get along best with ones who have a lot of fire in their chart too. I definitely clash more with those who don't have that influence, but I still like them a lot.

I'm in a long-term relationsip with a Taurus. I think what helps our compatibility is both my Venus and Mars are in earth signs, while both his Venus and Mars are in fire signs. Even so, there are still times when his Taurus traits can baffle me and I'm sure my Sag traits can confuse and irritate him at times. Overall though, I adore the ways he's different from me.

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posted May 09, 2007 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Capricorn.

I've had limited encounters with a couple of these.

I had a one night stand with a Leo who picked me up. She seemed sweet. I think she had some Cancer influence.

I had an online fling with a Gemini (my rising sign). The rapport was great (even psychic) online, but when we met in person it kind of fell flat.

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posted May 09, 2007 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus Man / Sag Woman-

For me it was a terrible relationship. He tried to possess me, control me and when that didn't work he then started to demean me. He addressed me in a condescending manner, challenging everything I said, even when I was right and I have more job experience / education that he'll ever have.

Again, he realized putting me down wouldn't work, so then he became belligerent and abusive (this was all within the first 2 months of living together- he was a peach before that time). He would physically push me around and get in my face to intimidate me.

He knew that I have a very soft spot for animals and children. He lied about having a daughter that passed away years before we met. I felt sorry for him. He used animals against me, specifically my own cats, he tried all the time to push me to get rid of them, claiming he was allergic.

He thought he was sophisticated, but he tried to hard and just looked like a bafoon. Then I discovered his even darker side, he had the lowest self-esteem ever and even loathed himself. He started using steroids, disappearing for days and then I discovered he was into abberant sexual practices.

No worries though.. my Saggie sense had already sounded off and I had distanced myself physically from him. Emotionally, well that never existed between the two of us. Early on I felt sorry for him, thought I loved him, but realized it was pity. He had me on an emotional roller coaster, but like any ride, one gets sick of it after a while.

Long story short- That Taurus man needed someone to possess, control and KEEP.

This Saggie woman wants the freedom to choose to stay and enjoy that stay.

He couldn't understand that in order for me to truly love someone I need to be best friends with them. I need to laugh and play. Not shown off like some trophy only to be put away at will.

Cancer man / Sag woman

They are sweet, moody, weird, quirky, but I don't find a love connection with them. I haven't had a sexual encounter with one but I dated two. One was just a sweet Southern Cancer boy that loved his Mama. I could see that my basic personality would make him crazy. The second one had a Sag moon, seemed fun, but when he drank he got stupid.He was tied to him mom (she was also a Sag) and even called her while on a couple of dates with me. Ewww... weird.

I am not sure how those signs felt about me. I know that the Taurus wanted me back after I moved out. He said he never believed I would leave, I told him I never believed I would stay.

BTW... to sum it up perfectly between the Sag / Taurus thing. He knew that after we fought I would want to work it out. He would often tease me about it, because he delighted in ignoring me for at least 2-3 days after a fight. I told him to laugh it up now, but to be aware when I no longer try to work it out, because when I hit that stage, it's over.

Then... the next fight happened. He thought I would cancel my plans to go out with the girls so we could talk about it. Unknown to me, he had gone to the store, picked up steak, salad and even a desert. He thought I would be home around 6pm....


I came home around 12:30am. I no longer cared to talk about things nor did I care about the fights. A few mornings later I left for work and never came home. I had already rented a house and didn't look back.

Guess he didn't pay attention to that part about Saggies walking out when enough is enough.

Ahhh... I love being with a Leo... it is so different and about a million trillion times better... and FUN!!!!

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posted May 09, 2007 04:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow sorry to hear your love life has been so tumultuous. You deserve much better. I'm glad your Leo is working out; I've decided that Leos would actually be my best match (I update my ideal synastric connections frequently lol).

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I'm a sag female and I could NEVER see myself dating a Taurus male.....they just seem completely different....its hard for me even to manage a conversations, I personally just do not find a connection at all......cancers are different though....there must be something in my chart that makes me a sucker,lol....my good friend is a cancer and my god are relationship has been turbulent to say the least.....but me and him get along great

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I was briefly married to a Gemini.

I was in a seven year (and engaged) relationship with another Gemini.

It seems like almost every man that approaches me is a Gemini. I'm still trying to figure out what's going on there.

I meet a lot of Geminis. I enjoy their quick wit and sense of humor. They understand my humor as well. I like mentally sparring with them.

However, I don't really understand the theory that they are scared of relationships. They always were the first one to initiate and were really anxious for commitment. Where as I was the opposite.

I have decided that they are better as strictly friends. Disclaimer: I'm not stereo typing, but after experience, I'm pretty sure it's better for us both.

However, my Capricorn friend is a 3rd house sun and mercury.

I believe that Aries are easy to get along with. I enjoy their energy and go get it attitude. It's pretty effortless with them also.

I sort of feel bad for them when they express their grievances. It always seems like there is someone there to try and slap them back down. Personally, I can tolerate their tell it like it is and risk being misunderstood and/or making others angry as opposed to how some people manipulate or use passive/aggressive behavior.

Sometimes they do jump to soon... but who doesn't at times.

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posted May 09, 2007 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PaidVacation,

LOL...I look at my past lovelife as an adventure, not for the weak of heart Actually, I should thank that Taurus, for if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't have moved to Arizona. If I hadn't made that move, I would have missed out on the true love of my life, Bear the Leo.

Being with the Taurus was like watching a train wreck. I couldn't help but watch and experience it, all the while I was planning my exit (or escape).

I do feel for anyone that gets involved with him because he is toxic and definitely not indicative of all Taurus men. Being a sociopath is not tied to just one sign.

My life is blessed these days and I credit that to being with someone that loves me completely and who I love completely.

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