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posted May 17, 2007 08:09 AM            

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You know that person who is just a stick in the mud, or the person who develops a problem with you for no particular reason or back-stabs, or passes judgment much too quickly.. or is highly envious for one reason or another..

Post your chart and theirs! Just curious, what aspects I'd find..

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posted May 18, 2007 12:32 AM            

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I work with a few such people...as they say, keep friends close, enemies, even closer. I won't post their info because I only know their sun signs, which would be a huge discredit to natives of each sign that I know and

Sucks when they act like that though.

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posted May 18, 2007 02:33 AM            

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Hi Blue,
It does suck.. To be honest I wouldn't pick up on it as much, but I think Mars being in my sign is making me really take notice of things that would normally only annoy me slightly..

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posted May 18, 2007 11:53 AM            

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My boyfriend is an extreme parade ruiner.

Like big time, it makes me so angry! And he's a Sag but he's so negative and serious, grrrr. It's annoying.

He's got a tight Mercury/Saturn conjunction that conjuncts my Mercury/Saturn midpoint exactly.

I can't think of anything else at the moment. His Moon is opposite my Moon. His Mars is conjunct my Sun/Pluto conjunction. But I don't think those are directly related.

His Venus/Saturn midpoint is conjunct my AC. (THAT could be it). His Moon/Saturn midpoint is square my IC and conjunct my natal Neptune (1st house)

He's a big time dream killer. Just squashes em. Like bugs. He loves to just spray his negativity and douse "reality" all over people. Maybe it's the Sag/Aqua combination..and the need to constantly *correct* people and set they stright.

He calls himself "showing people the truth" because "no one else but him understands" and it's his "job" to make people see what he "sees is the obvious truth". Add that to a Mars/Pluto conjunct in Scorpio and you've got a whole lot of preaching and parade bashing

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posted May 18, 2007 10:49 PM            

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Coral,

I can definitely relate...am a Sag sun (heavy on the Sag in my chart, throw in Aqua Moon and Libra Venus)...and you have a person who is friendly, focuses on others and cares about people...trying to get to know people without all the cattiness and poisoned dart throwing is really difficult. I don't take it, but don't see the point in 'befriending', if you want to call it that...coworkers or so-called friends who will attack and seem to be on eternal negative or me-mode. I don't attack back, just move around them and go on with my day,my usual breezy-friendliness is dimmed around such people and directed toward people I enjoy being around.

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posted May 18, 2007 11:40 PM            

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lol Alanabelle, thanks for that.. he sounds great!
Actually, I'm dating a Sag as well but he isn't a very serious person. Most of the time, he's pretty funny and laid back.

I've also noticed Moon opposite Moon.. One of the people I've had this with, was putting a dampener on pretty much anything I said.

I had a feeling someone would mention Mercury/Saturn because I've had this a couple of times.. I'm always Mercury. They go a bit Nazi on you.

BlueTopaz that's pretty much what I'm like. If I don't feel a connection and they act this way, I tend to distance myself..
But these days I have all this grrrreow-ness about me lol I wish Venus was back in Aries.. That was a much nicer transit.

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posted May 19, 2007 12:40 AM            

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Eh, don't worry about jerks. They suck donkey balls. And wouldn't you be a bit grouchy if you spent all day sucking donkey balls? I know I'd be.

I've noticed that most stick in the mud types have their Mars in Jackass and their Venus in Told-Ya-So. Nasty combo, I don't care for those people a bit.

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posted May 19, 2007 11:11 PM            

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her chart

mine

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posted May 20, 2007 05:01 AM            

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He calls himself "showing people the truth" because "no one else but him understands" and it's his "job" to make people see what he "sees is the obvious truth".

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hmm, sounds like our beloved LL Sag, MCM

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