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Diandra23
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posted May 19, 2007 04:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im in this right moment quite mad about my bf. Iīve just finished talking to him on the phone and i really need to speak up cause i know here on LL would undertsand,specially women

Well,hereīs the thing: I consider myself very romantic and full of dreams ( and in an excessive way many times..).
He told me i wasnīt romantic,even a bit cause i didnīt wrote poems to him or say bealtiful words all the time..

This may seem rather childish , that im talking about something so "little" but to me...just means a lot.
Iīve never been in love before and heīs the only one that i really felt in love with.
Im quite inexperiences about showing Love but found out that im capable to do things that before i wouldn consider myself doing.
It just makes me so sad and feeling lonely and misunderstood,that the only person that i REALLY want to VALUE me and KNOW/FEELS how heīs important to me..those moments i just consider myself the loneliest person in the world you know..

Im always talking here how i love him,how i know he loves me and itīs all true.

I just thought that the right person was supposed to know and feel the other how it is and not be always criticizing for this or that.

What is "being romantic"? Is it just sending flowers in the middle of the day?Writting poems and leave them in the bed so that the other awakes and sees it?YES,itīs romantic.
But surelly not the only ways..
Since i met him,i never looked back..never regreted about anything.I was against my parents,my family,iīve ranged agaisnt all kind of parent authorities just to be with him.Iīve stopped going to shops,go to discos,go so many times to the cinema..I did it with all my love and joy,with no regrets...in order to have a little money to go and be with him on the weekends.
I thought that this was romantic,and more..my way of showing him what itīs important to me.

I dont want to feel so sad as i am right now,cause itīs not just for this phone call.
Iīve realised that he still doesnīt got it..he LOVES me but doesnīt KNOW me as I REALLY AM.

What do you consider as a romantic gesture torward your love one? Say whatever you want,including your deepest dreams about those film moments you always tought youīll die of joy if happened to you

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Diandra23
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posted May 19, 2007 04:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hereīs a poem of the great Fernando Pessoa,which shows exactly what i feel right now:

"I feel sorry and donīt answer.
But i dont have the blame
That within me i dont correspond
To the other you once loved in me.

Each one of us is a lot of others.
For me, i am what i think me of me,
For others---each one of them feels
What it judges,and thatīs a huge mistake.

Oh,let me be quiet.
Dont dream what i might be or think me other.
If i dont want to find myself,
Would i want that other find me?"

- itīs much more beautiful on my language cause like this is translated by me :P so, it can be somewhat erratic the message.

I really love the way he saw life

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jupitersgirl
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posted May 19, 2007 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"He told me i wasnīt romantic,even a bit cause i didnīt wrote poems to him or say bealtiful words all the time."

When I read your post,I saw that everyone has their own ways of being romantic. For me romanticism is something more spontaneous. It can be a beautiful word, a look in the eyes, a warm hug, cuddling up together, a small gesture...It's more like feeling to me, it doesn't have to be put in definite actions.For example if I wrote a poem to be romantic, I would be fake. Romanticism is something that's inside. Everyone has their own ways of expressing it.

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Diandra23
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posted May 19, 2007 05:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Exactly

You know why im mad: " ..it would be fake" - cause just cause he said it,now i woulnt consider spontaneous/meaningfull go running to write a poem or say a beautiful line on that moment just to show him im romantic! Bah..men..they just dont understand what a woman needs to hear sometimes...

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