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posted May 30, 2007 09:03 AM            

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Do you all find that your need for intensity/passion/conflict gets you into a WHOLE helluva lot more trouble than it should?

I fight this battle constantly, and I don't know how or if I will ever overcome it.

Any suggestions???

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posted May 30, 2007 10:15 AM            

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Yup. It's like I hate it, but I can't help but draw it to myself.

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posted May 30, 2007 10:17 AM              

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I don't have a need for conflict. However, I can't live without passion.

I become bored with life and/or people if it's lacking.

I feel suffocated and stifled after a while.

I sometimes wish that I wasn't like this. I've been with and met some pretty great people that I've distanced myself from due to craving it.

I guess romantic relationships seem to suffer the most. If there isn't any emotion and passion being displayed, it comes off as cold indifference to me... which seems like only living and experiencing small bits of life and/or love.

I'm not going to remain satisfied without emotions... not feelings, but emotions.

I don't care what you're passionate about.. just be passionate about something! Have a little drive..... there's more to life than sitting in front of a television or computer.
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posted May 30, 2007 10:25 AM            

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I become bored with life and/or people if it's lacking.

I feel suffocated and stifled after a while.

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Yes!!! That is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. When things start to stagnate in my life, or if I begin to feel inertia, I'll throw a big friggin' wrench into it just to shake it up. I'm famous for resurrecting past relationships during these lifeless moments. And it always, ALWAYS gets me in trouble. Yet I continue to do it. Especially if the relationship had a love/hate, intensity, or passion to it. I can't keep away from it...even though I know it isn't good for me.

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posted May 30, 2007 11:11 AM            

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I have an 8th house Sun and Mars in Scorpio.

Does it cause me trouble? Not really, and generally if it does it only causes it to me, and not others.

I have a Gemini ascendant (plus mutable moon, Neptune, Venus, and Mercury), so my passions are often revolving. I'm on one thing for a little bit, and then another thing, then another thing, then back to the first thing, etc. I would think that this could appear as a lack of drive to some folks. It just depends on what the observer thinks. I am Cardinal, so there is always the air of initiation.

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posted May 30, 2007 01:57 PM              

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I think I needed to clarify the statement I made in my last post about distancing myself from others.

I didn't mean that it started conflicts...
I can only take them in less doses... as I'm sure that is all they can take of me.

C.Cap: I never go back after exes. Although I've seen some couples pull it off.

AG: I think Cardinals have a lot of drive. Y'all just need the fixed to keep it on track.

Edit:

"When things start to stagnate in my life, or if I begin to feel inertia, I'll throw a big friggin' wrench into it just to shake it up."

I've noticed an every couple of years theme of this in my life.

The only things that seem to come out unscathed are the ones that keep evolving.

When anything has become stagnant and all effort has been made with no improvement, it's tossed.

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posted May 31, 2007 01:41 AM              

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Yes it did cause me a lil bit a of trouble trying to get to know more about an Aquarian with Aries Moon/Aries Mars. I nearly tore his ego out when i got frustrated.
I don't think Aries likes the idea of being known inside out. With a Scorpio Moon, I wanted to know 'everything' about him....That was not a good idea...The dude didn't want to see me after that..., also, these days I stop myself from asking people their DOB's...it gets me a bit obsessed and biased.

Taurus in the 12th/Scorpio in the 6th/Cancer

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posted May 31, 2007 02:01 PM              

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well. not exactly what you said. But i have a fear of NOT feeling anything.

Its like if I am not feeling anything, i feel empty. at that moment anything would be better than tha vacuousness.

i wonder if tht's healthy. what am i scared of?

i feel like i have flat-lined if i am not feeling anything. which is how i feel now.

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posted May 31, 2007 04:32 PM            

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ILWL (((((((HUGS)))))))

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posted May 31, 2007 05:02 PM              

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thanks ((((T/G))))

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posted May 31, 2007 05:19 PM            

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8th house moon sextile pluto in scorpio
Pluto in Scorpio/10th house (top of the chart)

I do need passion but sans the conflict because I HATE drama. I know that's a bit of a stretch, and people are gonna tell me that you can't have passion without conflict/drama and yadayadayada, but that's just the way I am.

Hey, maybe I'm not a conflict-seeker because I'm a little more Neptunian?

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posted May 31, 2007 05:27 PM              

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I really dislike any kind of conflict...I'm very passive,but I do find myself to be extremely emotional.(Moon,Uranus,Lilith,and Vertex all in 5th/6th house Scorpio.)And Heaven forbid when there is a full moon in Scorpio(like last month)....I'm an emotional wreck!!I always have some kind of emotional drama goin on.I know people think "Lighten up",but it's just how I am.Maybe because it's my Moon(emotions) in Scorpio and it opposes my Taurus Sun.Not all the emotions are always negative,although I DO cry at the drop of a hat!It doesn't matter if I'm ecstatic,angry,or genuinely sad,I'll be the one crying. Do y'all find it hard to hide your emotions?Like however I feel is written all over my face.And if I'm real upset my voice gets shaky.Guess I'll never be an actress,huh??LOL!

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posted June 01, 2007 02:31 PM              

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MoonDreamer81,
You shouldn't hide your emotions. Show your emotions! If some people don't like it, they are wrong people.

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posted June 01, 2007 06:16 PM              

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I couldn't hide them if I tried!!I'm sure people think I'm a "Wet Blanket"!I love to sing though....maybe I can channel my emotions in that direction....

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posted June 01, 2007 06:20 PM            

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Sun/Moon opposition is a tough one.

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posted June 01, 2007 07:36 PM              

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For realz....

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posted June 01, 2007 08:24 PM              

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AGREED!! ~sigh~

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posted June 01, 2007 11:44 PM            

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Oh yes....today i started a fight with my bf over nothing! Actually over a previous hurt and over my paranoia that his upcoming Saturn in 7th transit is going to end our relationship. So i started a fight to see if its stable...didnt end well really. Sigh me (moon conj pluto in scoprio)

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posted June 02, 2007 03:28 PM              

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Haha. I hate the feeling of 'stagnation' and the mundane. Makes me restless and stifled. I have been known to randomly create drama and arguments from thin air, particularly the last few days with my boyfriend. Poor guy. I think he's on to my tactics though... Once and awhile I get so restless in longterm relationships, makes me want to be single or want some drama...Especially lately...anyone else feeling like this???

scorp sun& saturn& pluto

sagg venus& mercury& uranus& neptune

capp mars& jupiter

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posted June 04, 2007 03:27 PM            

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Most of my life I've felt Plutonian, but lately it's getting stronger, and hard to control. I feel like I am going through some sort of rough complete 180 degree change with my life(there I go again with degrees)that is out of my control. All I can do is just let it be. I just hope it turns out for the better. My Pluto makeup is...

Sun conjunction Pluto

Mars square Pluto

Moon square Pluto

Pluto square Ascendant(a mere 11 mins arc)

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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

I "FEEL" therefor I am

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posted June 04, 2007 04:49 PM              

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I have a strange affinity for aqua and scorps.... I think scorp like fire signs need to burn off energy... All my scorp encounters start with a battle of wills and turn into something deep and leads to a place of complete trust...

.... mind you, I dont mind harsh honest brutal words, no problem in recieving or dishing out (maybe thts the reason I always get along great with them)... but scorps are very HARSH and DESTRUCTIVE when they are opposed..

as if they are "shooting to KILL not to play"...

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posted June 04, 2007 05:26 PM            

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of course we are.

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posted June 05, 2007 01:29 AM            

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I have Scorpio rising, with Mercury and Uranus conjunct in Scorpio, and a few asteroids there. I have Pluto square my Venus and sextile my Sun & Moon (so conjunct my Sun/Moon midpoint). Pluto's also my only singleton.

But I have Pluto in the 12th, and its placement is huge in the way I experience my Scorpio influence. It's mostly internal. I don't have a need for external conflict. I prefer harmony in my relationships. Although I almost always prefer to directly and clearly deal with conflicts, I never purposely start fights. I do, however, need to feel like I'm growing and living honestly. I can't stand to feel stagnant or restricted or disingenuous. But the way this plays out in my relationships is that I need lots of freedom and minimum routine. I don't need a partner to provide my growth, I just need someone who accepts and supports my own inner growth. It's a very personal, private process for me.

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posted June 05, 2007 01:58 AM              

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Well I'm a Taurus sun with Scorpio moon conjunct Uranus. So I have the sun/moon opposition, a moon/Uranus conjunction and a sun/Uranus opposition. Lovely. Actually it's not all that bad, I actually think I'm very stable! But yes I do have a lot of passion emotionally, and I find it irritating/annoying when others don't exhibit the same kind of drive. Actually that is one of the first things that attracted me to my bf... the drive (Aries rising and Aries moon) as opposed to my ex's seeming inertia (which he still has - honestly it's as though there are way too many earth placements in his chart, because he really is such a plodder, bless him. ). I think my Uranus aspects also add the need for excitement to my already passionate Scorpio moon! Wow can you imagine what it's like to be me!

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posted June 05, 2007 11:13 AM              

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Yes, I am in trouble right now. I'm probably going to get myself into more trouble. In fact, it's on my agenda for this weekend.

Sun opp Pluto
Moon sq Pluto
Pluto sq ASC/conj IC
Saturn in Scorpio (conj Pluto)

I think my 12th house Moon, 4th house Pluto, and Saturn aspects indicate a lot of emotional suppression... but the feelings are there and they are always seething, regardless of how hard I try to keep them in check. -_- Me want passion.

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