posted June 05, 2007 09:46 PM            

BornUnderDioscuri, I only know that natal charts are different than a composite chart as far as how the aspects and such affect you. That's why I'm asking for some clarification.
I KNOW that this man is my total soul mate...it's like we met the day we were born--or before! Crazy I know. but that's how our hearts feel about each other.

On http://www.cafeastrology.com/Composite/moon_venus.html

it says:

When the composite Moon is in opposition to composite Venus:

*Social instincts are well seasoned. You can move in and out of various circles of friends and associates. There may be few people that make either of you that uncomfortable. At least they will never see you sweat. You often know the right ways to please each other. Making your partner feel special through gifts and extra attention is enjoyable. You will often choose to celebrate being together in big ways. Your friends can have invigorating energy and be very creative. Your shared possessions may take a bit of compromise to include what each of you needs. There is probably no hesitating in buying what makes you happy. When you give emotional support to each other voluntarily, a great sense of closeness is established.

And on the same site for a natal chart they say:

Moon square or opposition Venus
Because these people value harmony, they may find themselves giving in to others too easily, especially in the first half of life. Resentment is possible, as they feel that they are the ones who seem to do all the acquiescing. There can be a distinct tendency to become friends (and lovers) with people too readily, simply because there is a strong need for approval and a hunger for receiving affection. As such, these people may get involved with people who seem to really like them, and they don't consider whether they actually like them back! It's somewhat of a weakness, as these people are very charmed by the idea that someone seems to really like them and appreciate them. Generally, one of life's lessons for these people is to learn to discriminate more and to get in touch with what they truly want and need.

The functions of the Moon (which rules the emotions and feelings, amongst other things) and the functions of Venus (which rules social relationships, harmony, and partnership, amongst other things) are at cross-purposes. When these people attempt to feed the needs of one function, it is often at the expense of the other, until they find some sort of balance. This can play out in a variety of ways. For example, there can be conflicts in partnerships about parenting or whether or not to have a family. They can find themselves compromising their own emotional needs in order to find and keep love. Peace and harmony are important to these people--perhaps too much so, as they can easily be taken advantage of. Insecurity is something that these people need to deal with at some point in their lives.

Very sensual, people with Moon in hard aspect to Venus sometimes replace love with food or shopping! They are also usually quite sexually active and sometimes quite lustful. They are usually skilled in the arts. There is a distinct lazy streak. Most are able to work hard, but they truly appreciate luxuriating and enjoying as many pleasures as possible, and self-discipline simply isn't always at their disposal!