posted June 14, 2007 05:26 PM              

I'm new here and would like it if someone could help me out with a synastry chart.

I'm so confused right now and don't know what to do or think about it!

I'm a Scorpio (11/17/84) and i have strong feelings for an cancer (07/15/82). I don't know what it is about the 2 of us but i feel so relaxed and comfortable in his precense and i just know he has the same thing with me. For me this is the first time i've had such feelings toward a crab,or anyone else.

Now the confusing part, even though the attraction is very strong i'm very hesitant to make a move on him. Thats because i sometimes feel that my feelings towards him are more powerfull than his. Anyway we like to flirt with eachother but i definitely want more. Here's my secnd bummer: we work toghether! Even though it's a parttime job (about 10 hours a week) i think this really sucks. We also don't have alot of 'we time' either. This has been going on for a few weeks and i think it's time to take the next stap. Let him know how i feel or just walk away.... Although i don't know if i can... SEE: I'M CONFUSED HAHAAHHA

Oh and is was born in Paramaribo, Surinam en he in Amsterdam, Holland. My birthtime: 01.20 am, his: i have no idea.

Thanks in advance and i would appreciate anyone outlook in this manner.

With love,

posted June 15, 2007 12:08 AM            

But lets see,

Your suns being trine and your moons possibly being sextile (we don't have a time for the cancer) may explain why you feel so comfortable around him. The feeling is most likely mutual btw.

And with him being a cancer sun and you having your moon conjunct your ascendant (and in the first house), you probably find affinity with eachtother (the moon rules cancer).

But I know, its tough having a water sun/earth moon especially in the area of romance. Because earth mooners never like to be vulnerable, and you kinda have ta be in thia area. Plus, we always try to hide our watery egos (sun). Yeah....

posted June 15, 2007 05:16 AM              

Our suns are trine with an orb of four degrees. Theres just too much attraction.

My venus trine his mars
My moon sextile his sun
His venus in my seventh house
His mars in my fifth house
His mars squares my mars
Our venus are opposites but by sign not aspect

I flirt alot with him too. And he makes me feel great. Pretty sure he feels the same way about. And it seems like both of us are veery very withdrawn people. I have an earth moon (taurus). His moon is either in sagittarius ( which would be in my first house and conjunct my venus ) or in capricorn ( trine my moon ).

Anyways, i agree with dulce luna.
GO FOR IT!!
lol.

posted June 15, 2007 09:08 AM              

Another funny thing: one time we were talking after work and i told him i knew him from somewhere, looking in his eyes i had the feeling we have met before and he had the exact same feeling. Very weird but when i told my sister about him she said: Girl!! You guys used to play togheter all the time when you were little kids!! I felt so stupid for not knowing, he had a vague feeling though. Ok i'm blabbering again (i really feel extra extra happy lately ) so i'm gonna stop!
I would love to hear more about the aspects between us so if anyone could help, please!!

posted June 18, 2007 07:05 AM            

You asked why you're so interested in him. You have some significant asteroid aspects. Your North Node is conjunct his Valentine. NN is about your life path, lessons you need to learn and incorporate into your character. Valentine is about true love. So his Valentine conjunct your NN could make you feel like it's your destiny to deeply love him. Iqhunk is a poster here who is very knowledgeable about asteroids, and he touts the Valentine-NN conjunction as rare and very powerful.

Your NN also conjuncts his Chiron. Chiron is often referred to as the wounded healer. Maybe you feel like a love relationship with him would be healing for you. The aspects you're receiving to your NN are significant and could definitely explain why you're so drawn to him.

His NN opposes your Jupiter and trines your Karma. The Jupiter opposition could mean that he feels like he can very easily have a good, fun time with you. The Karma trine is another significant link, showing linked destinies.

Your Eros (strong sexual desire, desire to merge and deeply bond) opposes his Sun. His Eros trines your Psyche. That's a really good aspect, since Eros and Psyche were lovers. Having those two aspected is sometimes referred to as a soul mates link. At the least, it's gonna create some sexual buzz.

His Valentine opposes your Sun. (Don't be afraid of the opposition. My bf and I have this same aspect and we're very happy together.)

These aspects are all under a 2 degree orb. I'm seeing other nice, tight aspects too: Your Juno oppose his Vertex and trine his Valentine & Chiron. His Juno sextile your Valentine. (Juno is considered by most to be about commitment, some characterize it more as sexual attraction. Both sound good to me!) Your Karma trines his Amor.

Here's the chart for others who'd like to comment:

posted June 18, 2007 08:14 AM              

This is very interesting info... i would like to learn more about astroids and this only stimulates me more!!! Thank you thank you thank you

"So his Valentine conjunct your NN could make you feel like it's your destiny to deeply love him. Iqhunk is a poster here who is very knowledgeable about asteroids, and he touts the Valentine-NN conjunction as rare and very powerful."

This is exactly how i feel about him and that's kinda scary since i don't easily fall in love... at all!!

I would love to read more about this so IQHUNK, your interpretation would be very welcome!!

posted June 18, 2007 06:37 PM              

Iqunk also says that Draconics are important to analyse! I did minde and sounded wonderfull!

Go here:http://www.noendpress.com/pvachier/arabicparts/index.php

and then put in the 1st part: Aries in 0º0´.
Then,in the 3rd part,put your/your partner´s NN.
iN THE 2ND PART choose whatever planet you want to look for in the Draconics:SUn/Moon/Asc etc...
It gives a lot of work but by the way you and your guy have the sinastry,im thinking that you´ll have a very powerfull Draconics too
You can do your and your guy´s DRaconic Charts and then compare any interaspect between your Natals and Draconics itself.

posted June 19, 2007 11:51 AM              

ME HIM
sun: virgo-27º29 sun: aries-9º45
moon: cancer-10º1 moon: capricorn-25º48
mercury: libra-17º32 merc: pisces-28º22
venus: scorpio-6º19 venus: pisces-10º51
mars: saggitarius-3º33 mars: cancer-6º54
jupiter: scorpio-14º14 jupiter: cancer-18º3
saturn: virgo-22º15 saturn: cancer-3º15
uranus: libra-15º9 uranus: leo-18º0
neptune: scorpio-2º20 neptune: virgo-12º6
pluto: virgo-5º27 pluto: cancer-11º18
ascendant: cancer-8º24

BTW i also used the calculater to find arabic parts and the outcome was VERY VERY suprising!! I find it suprising cause i see that alot of the planets that come out are planets that dominate his natal chart. THOUGH i don't know if this has anything to do with aspects between the two of us. Here are few:

fortune: gemini-18º27
accomplishment: cancer-19º10
action/reasoning: libra-21º55
addiction: leo-3º35
astrology: virgo-3º32
beauty: libra-14º44
children: cancer-19º56
curiosity: taurus-28º24
danger,violence,debt: libra-1º12
desire, sex.attraction: libra-23º6
destruction: scorpio-11º58
energy, sex drive: cancer-5º4
fate(karma): virgo-0º41
love: libra.14º44
luck: taurus-1º42
marriage(woman1): cancer-21º52
marriage(woman2): capricorn-29º26
partners: scorpio-8º1
succes: libra-24º8

posted June 19, 2007 02:56 PM              

Well, interpret the aspects i dont know how cause im just yet a newbie at this.
But what you can do is look at the signs and respective degrees and compare each one with:

-partner´s natal planets;
-partners´s Draconic Planets;

So, for instance:

Your Drac SUn is 27ºVirgo;which is trining your partner´s Moon 25ºCap in 2º

To see what aspects it makes see these:

The maximum orb is up to 3ºdegrees normally.
So, when its opposition look:

Aries opposes Libra;
Pisces opposes Virgo
Aqua opposesLeo
Cap opposes Cancer
Sag opposes Gem
Scorp opposes Taurus

To look for conjunctions its easy, your Drac Moon is conjuncting his Drac Pluto.

To look for trines, a planet has to be in sign of the same element as the other planet in study:

Earth:TAURUS,virgo,Cap
Air: gEM,lIBRA,aQUA
Wter: CaNCER,Scorp,Pisces
Fire: Aries, Leo, Sag

For instance: your dRAC moon trines his drac venus by 1º ( which is very good)

Then make a list of all the aspects you found out and post them here.
Anyone can then interpret ( Iqunk is the one who always helps with lots of knoledge)

Look also these asteroids,cause they ´re also very important: use astro.com in the free horoscopes to find the placemenst on each of you.Then do the same you did for the Draconics:

Karma:3811
Valentine:447
Cupid:763
Union:1585
Amor:1221
Osiris:1923
Isis:42
Kaali:4227
Siva:1170
Eros:433
Psyche:16

posted June 19, 2007 11:01 PM              

Draconic aspects
mine-his

Conjunctions
saturn-osiris, lilith/3º in virgo
karma-juno/0º in virgo
truenode-kaali/0º in pisces
chiron-sun/1º in aries
cupido-cupido/0º in gemini (almost exact)
eros-union/2º in scorpio
amor-sun/1º in aries
ascendant-pluto/3º in cancer

Oppositions
ceres-lilith/1º
ceres-osiris/1º
cupido-gemini/2º
osiris-moon/3º

Trines
sun-moon/2º
moon-venus/1º
moon-vesta/0º
karma-karma/0º
truenode-siva/2º
valentine-pholus/3º
vertex-cupido/2º
lilith-cupido/1º
juno-truenode/0º
juno-part of fortune/1º
juno-amor/2º
pholus-pallas/3º
cupido-valentine, chiron/2º
siva-truenode, part of fortune/1º
siva-amor/0º
ascendant-venus/2º
ascendant-vesta/2º

Sextiles
sun-union/1º
sun-siva/0º
moon-isis/1º
valentine-saturn/0º (almost exact)
valentine-eros/3º
part of fortune-saturn2º
lilith-vertex/3º
pallas-vesta/3º
juno-ceres/0º
vesta-psyche/1º
cupido-sun/2º
isis-lilith/1º
siva-psyche/2º
eros-moon/1º
amor-cupido/1º
ascendant-isis/3º

posted June 21, 2007 08:57 AM              

dont know to interpret but i would find more important the Kali-true node(0º);asc-sun(1º);moon-sun(1º);asc-isis(3º);PF-saturn(2º9;moon-isis(1º);asc-venus(2º);siva-true node(1º);juno-true node(0º);

i remenber Iq saying that karma-karma might indicate potencial soulmate material,but it depends on other posible aspects (dont know which are).

posted July 02, 2007 09:44 AM              

CAN ANYONE WITH SOME SPARE TIME PLEASE GIVE HIS/HERS INTERPRETATION ABOUT OUR SYNASTRY CHART ESPECIALLY HOW HIS PLANETS MAKE ASPECTS TO MY HOUSES. I STILL FIND THIS TO BE VERY DIFFICULT AND I WOULD LOOOOOVEEEEEE IT IF SOMEONE COULD SHED SOME LIGHT ON THIS!