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neptune5
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posted June 17, 2007 11:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello, someone deleted this thread, and i'm upset, because it wasn't even givin' a chance. What a shame.

okay, all i want to know is what aspects and signs should one look for in a composite chart that indicates physical abuse in a relationship?

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

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posted June 29, 2007 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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neptune5
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posted June 29, 2007 09:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i was actually going to ask if a relationship that has very possesive qualities, (for example 2nd cusp scorpio with sun, venus, mercury, & neptune in the 2nd house) could possessivness turn into physical abuse (usually on the man's part), because you feel that you need to posses that person?

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posted June 29, 2007 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont know about composite but in synastry it seems that Mars opposing Pluto is right up there with the hard aspects.

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posted June 29, 2007 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One thing about (physical) abuse in a relationship.
It has to first show up in the natal chart.
(that you would be physically abused)
And then in inner-aspects.

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neptune5
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posted June 29, 2007 01:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what aspects would show it? moon and mars? just give me something to look for?

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neptune5
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posted June 29, 2007 01:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okay i'll just post my chart,

see anything?

(i do have lots of squares to my moon)

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

"The beauty that addresses itself to the eyes is only the spell of the moment; the eye of the body is not always that of the soul."
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lalalinda
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posted June 29, 2007 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only one who is going to get hurt
is the person who under-estimate's you
you have a wonderfully protective Jupiter.

some links you might be interested in.

criminal impulses
http://marlenesniche.tripod.com/metaphysics/id41.html

some synastry aspects
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html

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posted June 29, 2007 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any squares to Mars (in synastry or composite) can indicate physical abuse, if one of the persons is that way inclined - In synastry this refers to the Mars person.. In composite it could be either or both..

Any negative aspects to Pluto can indicate emotional or psychological abuse, again, if one or both of the persons is that way inclined..

Otherwise, there are many other ways Mars and Pluto can play out that are not abusive. It depends on the individuals.

Someone who was abused for instance is more likely to abuse another.

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Jazzebel
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posted June 29, 2007 09:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars, ruler of your 8th house, opposites your Sun, ruler of your 12th. There could have been an abuse in the family (4th-10th house axis affected), by a male relative, which was/is kept in secret (12 house). Your afflicted Moon, ruler of your 11th house, means constant frustration with making your wishes come true, there's always something to keep you an arm away from feeling fulfilled or happy. Your parents were at odds with each other when you were born. Older men turn you on, sexually, rather then boys your own age.

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neptune5
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posted June 30, 2007 10:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
very true jazzebel, except for the part when you said that i was abused in my family, i wasn't really. my parents were at odds, as they've always been. I do like older men, as well as men from a variety of ethnicities (venus conjunct juno conjunct BML conjunct P.fort in sagittarius)

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