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awatson4
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posted June 25, 2007 08:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I first saw this person their was an instant well noticing...it took second for me to feel the connection, but once we were in each others presence more, the feelings for me became very intense, like I knew her. The thing is that I don't know exactly what this other person thinks of me...how they feel. It kind of a sticky situation because it's a employer-employee thing...so I want to make sure everything is mutual and that she feels as intensely as I do.

aspects:
T-Square-
her sun oppose my eros
her sun square my pluto
her psyche square my eros
her psyche conjunt my pluto

her eros square my sun and north node
her eros square my vertex

her venus sextile my pluto
her venus trine my mars
her venus oppse my pluto
her venus and mercury conjunct my descendant
venus trine venus
her mars trine my sun

Anyway, that's a lot of aspects but idk there's many...of course...but really it's an odd, but intense attraction


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awatson4
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posted June 25, 2007 08:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh yea

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wilsontc
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posted June 25, 2007 02:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awatson,

You said:

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kind of a sticky situation because it's a employer-employee thing

The question you have to ask yourself is is it worth your job to get involved. Because if you have direct employer-employee relationships with someone else then there is a HUGE conflict of interest going on. And while you and/or she may not care, if someone decides to leak it to the press (or to the boss of you both) and it blows up in both your faces so that EVERYONE knows...is it worth the risk? I suggest if you want to even ATTEMPT this make sure someone transfers out to a different department so no one is a "direct report" to the other.

Practically,

Tim

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awatson4
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posted June 25, 2007 03:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yea, I know it's a rough situation, but I won't be working their anyway for long that is if I want to pursue it.
I was just wondering if someone could look at the aspects and tell me what they think the relationship is or would be about...is it just physical or is it more.

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posted June 25, 2007 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't say it's *just physical. You have a Moon/Moon opposition. Her Sun trines your Moon.. Those aspects show potential for a serious relationship.

It is also sexual, because your Venus and Mars are trine her own Venus and your Pluto is sextile her Venus. You're more likely to initiate, since you are both Mars and Pluto in this. Her Pluto, doesn't aspect your Venus, neither does her Mars.. neither does her Sun - so she probably won't make a first move in any way. But, her Mars is very supportive of your Sun (trine) - so you feel as though she backs your ego up in some way.. Sort of like 'she's right behind you' if you need an ego boost.

The communication between you wouldn't be amazing, but you agree on principle.. Your Mercury signs are very different, but you do have positive Jupiter aspects.. Her Jupiter conjunct your Moon.. and your Jupiter trine her Mercury. Even though conversations don't always flow smoothly, you will usually sort it out in the end, because you have the help of Jupiter.

You are 19 and she is almost 24. I don't know whether - you being a Pisces.. and young.. and her being a fire sign - whether you'll get burnt in this.. Pisceans are pretty dreamy.. I think that, if this is to work as a relationship, you'd have to keep your feet on the ground and see it for what it is.. If you glorify her into something she isn't, you'll undoubtedly get disappointed. I'm also not sure whether she'd be comfortable with your age.. It depends a lot on both of your maturity levels. My Pisces friend went out with someone much older (not just 24 lol) when she was 19 and it worked fine for her.. so it could work.

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awatson4
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posted June 26, 2007 06:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well i figured most of the feelings were one sided....she's a leo so she probably just likes the attention

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