posted June 30, 2007 09:33 PM              

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I am trying to figure out why my sagg boyfriend has been acting so extraordinarily suspicious. He is suspicious and paranoid to begin with, (I'm guessing his virgo moon is responsible,) but lately to the point of insanity. I cannot do the right thing, cannot say the right thing, without him putting a suspicious take on whatever I say. He makes the most absurd accusations of me cheating or lying, and recently told him that he possibly needs more than someone who is straight as an arrow faithful, maybe someone who goes even beyond just that. It has been happening so frequently, that I broke it off... It was exhausting having to prove myself every day when I have never in two years given him a single reason. I cannot figure out what is responsible for his behavior.. But I do know at this point I love him, but when someone puts such strains on me, I would rather be alone. I feel selfish asking for help, but I'm at such a loss right now.. Thank you.
Here are his placements:

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posted July 01, 2007 11:44 AM              

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Love never ends. Those people we have ever loved, we will always love.

Relationships, even loving relationships, are about space. They encompass two people and the space between them. That space can increase or decrease, but the love remains. Even when the relationship appears stretched to its limits, even when we think it is broken, the love remains. We the offspring of the God/dess of Love do not know how to stop loving, for love is the essence of our being, the glue that holds life together.

So don't try to stop loving him, just go on with your life.

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You are a blessing and you are blessed.
Rev. Alice
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posted July 01, 2007 02:57 PM            

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Well, he has his Moon in the 1st house.
These people tend to want constant reassurance.

But if he was being so suspicious and making you feel bad,
and repeatedly refused to believe you,
then the truat and communication is not there,
and you did the right thing by leaving.

He has issues to work out,
and he needs to see that his suspicion
is a self-fulfilling prophesy.
This is just the lesson he needs.

Just my 2 cents.

Hope you feel better soon.

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posted July 01, 2007 07:01 PM              

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I never knew that moon in the first would cause that... Definitely very true about him. But it became too much after awhile... And I still don't think he undrstands what he has done wrong, and he doesn't see anything wrong with accusing me all the time!!

Thank you so much for the support... This has been extremely hard, and every little bit helps so incredibly much. Definitely the most difficult decision I have ever made.

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posted July 01, 2007 09:04 PM              

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weird as i am ,im saggy sun virgo moon too

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posted July 01, 2007 09:04 PM              

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weird as i am ,im saggy sun virgo moon too

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posted July 02, 2007 01:04 AM              

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Saggy sun and virgo moon my ex was pretty eccentric himself. I love eccentric people.. I guess bec I'm kinda a strange one myself! He was also aqua rising, I think it contributed to that.

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posted July 02, 2007 07:32 PM            

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could be guilt because he cheated or wants to...That's common.

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