posted July 06, 2007 03:26 AM
Oz ~I glanced through your chart quickly and I'm no expert so I'll just tell you what I see. Hopefully others can come in and give you a more rounded interpretation:
You don't have any aspects between your Sun and Moon...but you don't have an exact birth time for this guy. If he was born at 9:PM for example, your Sun would be trining his Moon. It would be a wide orb, but still worth noting. I personally like to see Sun/Moon aspects, but maybe someone else here will have something else to say about that. I think Sun and Moon aspects are good for feeling an initial connection with someone, regardless of whether they are hard or soft aspects.
Assuming that you do click and choose to take it further:
I think the initial attraction could be both physical and emotional. There are elements in both of your charts of feeling drawn to the other one for emotional stability/experiences. Your Saturn/Moon conjunction also conjuncts his Venus which would likely soften it so maybe you would feel more comfortable expressing yourself to him...?
Your Lust conjuncts his NN and his Chiron so I would think that this would help to make the sexual ties a rather healing experience.
You also have your Ascendant, Valentine and Cupido conjuncting his Moon, Chiron, Lilith and POF. Again, this is a very emotionally opening conjunction in my view. You will both likely feel a sense of safety and comfort with one another on a feeling level. And, once again, it will most likely be a healing experience for both of you. I have found that where Lilith comes in is often something to do with more deep rooted issues that need healing.
I can see certain aspects (like his Saturn squaring your Sun, Mercury and Venus) that may be more challenging. He might become a little more critical as time passes...or once he feels comfortable. This can go both ways, but I would say it might be more on his part since his Sun squares your Pluto and therefore he might feel that you are ultimately the one in control of the relationship.
Your Venus/Pluto sextile and trine are good for creating intimacy and comfort with more depth.
You also have Valentine conjunct Amor and that's always a good one to have
Again, I'm really not an expert. I also believe that it's all just representative of the energy we have to work with so it's really what we choose to do with it.
~ Love