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OzMeg222
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posted July 02, 2007 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the synastry between myself and a guy I had a brief fling with last year whilst still wanting the pisces. At the time I liked him, I'd always thought he was cute, nice, blah blah blah for a few years before.
I never gave him a chance at the time cos I was so caught up on the pisces. The pisces and I are definately over now and this guy has come back into my life all of a sudden.

I'm not sure of his birthtime, but last year the general consensus on this board was taurus rising so I made him that. So just ignore the outside houses, I'll just deal with the aspects for now!

Curious to learn more about synastry, I'm not going to decide if I want to see him or not based on it!

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OzMeg222
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posted July 06, 2007 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump!!!

Anyone? please, I have no idea how to do synastry.

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Love
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posted July 06, 2007 03:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oz ~

I glanced through your chart quickly and I'm no expert so I'll just tell you what I see. Hopefully others can come in and give you a more rounded interpretation:

You don't have any aspects between your Sun and Moon...but you don't have an exact birth time for this guy. If he was born at 9:PM for example, your Sun would be trining his Moon. It would be a wide orb, but still worth noting. I personally like to see Sun/Moon aspects, but maybe someone else here will have something else to say about that. I think Sun and Moon aspects are good for feeling an initial connection with someone, regardless of whether they are hard or soft aspects.

Assuming that you do click and choose to take it further:


I think the initial attraction could be both physical and emotional. There are elements in both of your charts of feeling drawn to the other one for emotional stability/experiences. Your Saturn/Moon conjunction also conjuncts his Venus which would likely soften it so maybe you would feel more comfortable expressing yourself to him...?

Your Lust conjuncts his NN and his Chiron so I would think that this would help to make the sexual ties a rather healing experience.

You also have your Ascendant, Valentine and Cupido conjuncting his Moon, Chiron, Lilith and POF. Again, this is a very emotionally opening conjunction in my view. You will both likely feel a sense of safety and comfort with one another on a feeling level. And, once again, it will most likely be a healing experience for both of you. I have found that where Lilith comes in is often something to do with more deep rooted issues that need healing.

I can see certain aspects (like his Saturn squaring your Sun, Mercury and Venus) that may be more challenging. He might become a little more critical as time passes...or once he feels comfortable. This can go both ways, but I would say it might be more on his part since his Sun squares your Pluto and therefore he might feel that you are ultimately the one in control of the relationship.

Your Venus/Pluto sextile and trine are good for creating intimacy and comfort with more depth.

You also have Valentine conjunct Amor and that's always a good one to have

Again, I'm really not an expert. I also believe that it's all just representative of the energy we have to work with so it's really what we choose to do with it.

~ Love


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OzMeg222
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posted July 06, 2007 05:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well we definately click, lol!

Thanks so much for that, I didn't look at any of the asteroids when I looked at the synastry.
I'd hate for us to get into anything without really being sure because my best friend is married to his best friend! Should things not work it wouldn't be pretty. I guess we're both resonable, mature adults though.

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OzMeg222
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posted July 06, 2007 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And here's the composite...
I know the houses are way off and the moon may be slightly off but here tis anyway!

I've never seen a composite like it, but then again I know nothing about composites!

Would love input on the composite, I'm intrigued by the jupiter/mercury/sun conjunction.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted July 06, 2007 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From reading the story you gave ( Im also a Cancer man) are you sure he wants you? because if I were in this situation where a girl I liked went and dated another guy before she gave me a chance then I would tell her no when she tried coming around. Maybe remain freinds, but lovers.. no. but he could be different and my Mars in Aries in the 7th which also explains alot..


Just my honest thought.


~Kevin

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"The course of true love never did run smooth" ~William Shakespeare


You call it Insecurity, I call it a Fragile Heart.

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OzMeg222
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posted July 07, 2007 12:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was a weird situation. He'd just a few months before come out of a 2 year relationship with a nutcase, so neither of us were really ready for anything. It was september when we had our thing.

I hadn't seen him at all since march and he was kinda seeing someone after that but isn't now. It appears the timing may be right, but I'm kinda scared.
And yeah I'm sure he wants me he's the one who approached me as more than friends (I'm too shy to ever do that!) but I know he's concerned about the pisces still.

Sucks, wish I could meet someone my own age I'm attracted to!!! Least the cancer seems older and wiser than me, lol.

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