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Topic: Uranus in 4th house
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Kay Libra
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posted July 06, 2007 10:43 AM
 
Hi I have natal Uranus in the 4th house. And I definitely had some unsettling conditions in my childhood. Now I can say that peace and stability means alot to me. The problem is a person who I have feelings for Mars/Uranus conjuntion falls in my 4th house. And so far it has been one hell of a ride!! It reminds me of when I was growing up and all the madness that surrounded me. The feeling definitely reminds me of home, something that I was used to but no longer want in my life. So how do I tell this person, that it's not working between us. ThanksIP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted July 06, 2007 11:47 AM
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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted July 06, 2007 01:11 PM
Kay I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in the 4th house so I know how you feel. Im still living at home and want to break free from all my family ties as soon as I can get out on my own.. It really does make people like us somewhat insecure and distrustful of the outside world I think.. anyways you should just tell the person the truth..that you had a bad childhood and that they only remind you of it. Explain to them.. they should understand. Im also thinking about entering a relationship with a person where are Uranus will be in the 4th and we have a Mars oppostion Uranus. anyways.. I noticed you are from NY where abouts? ~Kevin ------------------
"The course of true love never did run smooth" ~William Shakespeare
You call it Insecurity, I call it a Fragile Heart.
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neptune5
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posted July 06, 2007 01:21 PM
i have uranus in the 4th house as well as sun, venus, & mercury. Uranus in the 4th is a hard position to deal with.IP: Logged |
Kay Libra
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posted July 06, 2007 01:53 PM
Lalalinda- thanks  .Seeing Stars -- I've always wanted to move from my hometown. It's so friggin boring and opportunities are slim to none. Currently, Saturn is transiting my 1st house and I've really been thinking about "growing up" meaning living my own life and concentrating on me. The person I'm speaking of we have a child together. So in 1 way I want to stay for my child's sake and then in another way...it's like ugh! It's not that I don't love him, but it's just too hard. We have Mars conjunct Uranus. I live in upstate NY. Nep- Yes it's hard :-( IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted July 06, 2007 11:03 PM
I understand how you feel .. perhaps maybe there is a deeper understanding to your relationship with him.. I dont think I can figure out exactly.. I have theories.. Yea I need to get out of my town to.. I need something more exciting and exuberant.. somewhere I can grow.. I have messed up but Im ready to be free and get out .. cut the chains and be on my way..on my journey.. do you feel this way? I dont know if people would consider my area Upstate or Central NY I went to college in Potsdam if you know where thats from.. and I live near Oswego and Syracuse. ~Kevin
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"The course of true love never did run smooth" ~William Shakespeare
You call it Insecurity, I call it a Fragile Heart.
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posted July 06, 2007 11:29 PM
Seeing Stars 7.21, I also have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in 4th house, probably unnecessary to say, but I've also had problems at home and have moved quite a bit during my life. I now finally live alone in my own apartment, and after these years I actually enjoy visiting my mom, so all the hope is not lost if your home environment feels difficult. I'm still quite restless, and it is possible that I'm doomed to move a lot also in the future.IP: Logged |
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posted July 06, 2007 11:33 PM
Yea I want my own apartment so bad.. but I need money first  .... I have a powerful need to be on my own and sever family ties.. and be independent.IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted July 06, 2007 11:37 PM
why have you moved alot? and why do you forsee yourself moving even more?IP: Logged |
let ther b light
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posted July 09, 2007 03:18 AM
hey everyone
i dont have uranus(or any other planet) in my 4th house, natal chart. but i do have uranus transitting my 4th house right now. i've always been attatched to family but of late i've had this urge to go abroad and study...be on my own...dont know if i'll do it....but i really want to...need abreak very desperately....IP: Logged |
amisha121877
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posted July 09, 2007 10:23 AM
hey all - i have uranus at the tail end of my 3rd house - conjuncting the IC and I also have venus and neptune in the 4th house. with uranus the closest to the IC- unconventional has been and will continue to be the theme of my whole home life. I'm not going to go on and on about it - let's just say that it has been both a nightmare and an adventure - have moved A LOT (the usual span of time is a year), have been separated and reunited with family and all that stuff.Kay Libra - have you two thought of living in two separate residences but still being together? IP: Logged |
Kay Libra
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posted July 10, 2007 09:16 AM
Kev - OK so whats your theory on our relationship? Do I need give a little astrological background? Or will you wing it :-)? The way you talk sounds like you just ended a Saturn return. Don't be so hard on yourself. Listen to me...a person with Moon opposite Saturn. Yes, even we sometimes can be optimistic, I just wish it happened more often. I want to cut the chains to and FAST! HA! I have a very close-knit family and only 6 have managed to escape out of about 30 I guess. They had the courage me I'm still nervous. Oswego is upstate compared to me. I live in the state capitol.let ther b light -- If you feel that way than you should do it. I think it's a big part of growing up and being independent. Hey we could always move back...:-( :-). Amisha--we actually have been living in 2 separate residences for 2 years now...HA. He's moved to PA and wants us to move out there with him, once he's settled. IP: Logged |
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