posted July 30, 2007 01:07 PM            

Pluto conjunct any of your personal planets can feel pretty obsessive.

"When the Sun in your chart forms an aspect to another person's Pluto:
No matter what, this relationship has a powerful impact on both of your lives. You find your partner utterly fascinating, intriguing, and even mesmerizing. You are drawn to the Pluto person in a way that can be hard to verbalize. After meeting him or her, you feel like a fish out of water if that person is not around! The fascination is mutual, in fact, although your partner tends to have the "upper hand", so to speak, when it comes to the ultimate fate of the relationship. Why? Because you feel intensely expressive and unique—special, if you will—as a direct result of the Pluto person's attention, and he or she may feel the need to control that expression as the relationship passes the initial stages (which is likely to have been characterized by intense mutual attraction). Your partner can sometimes feel threatened by your displays of independence, ego, pride, and autonomy. He or she has an extraordinary window into your soul, and can easily see both your strengths and vulnerabilities. What your partner does with this privileged perception is the question. He or she can certainly help you grow, but there can be a temptation to subtly undermine your confidence if your partner would rather keep you dependent."

More at: http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_pluto_aspects.html

"When the Moon in one chart forms an aspect to another person's Pluto: