posted August 09, 2007 02:57 PM            

Please would an experienced person look at our details and see if there is an explanation for this feeling of almost obsession I have for this guy. Its really bizarre, i thought I'd feel like this at 18, not 20 years or so later lol

me 19 april 1966 doncaster uk 10.45pm
him 13 sept 1970 clermont ferrand france 1pm

From what ive looked at it seems like we have a fairly good set up together, but as I know little about it all Id appreciate more experienced input.

I was playing with the declinations also following the magi stuff, and it looks real good according to them. A couple of romance super links a couple more super links, a magical linkage and a linkage of trust...

Can it REALLY be as good as it seems??

Help me please!!!

posted August 11, 2007 03:14 AM            

Yes it feels quite wonderful, unfortunately from past experience I know that theres usually a big bad wolf waiting in the wings to bite my head off and chew my heart out lol. Still I'm enjoying it at the moment. Ive known him for only just about a month, we met online, and have met in reallife twice now, once being his trip over after work. We chat for hours at a time in between. I would SO love it to be as good as it seems but I'm a cynical b***h at heart.

Anyway here goes with the charts;

me Sex F
Doncaster 1 United Kingdom 04/19/1966 22:45

Planet Longitude house Declination
A Sun aries 29°21’41" 5 11°14’58" N
B Moon aries 18°20’40" 5 4°16’43" N
C Mercury aries 2° 0’31" 4 1°28’59" S
D Venus pisces 13°29’59" 3 6°41’48" S
E Mars taurus 1°31’24" 5 11°43’13" N
F Jupiter gemini 27°10’36" 8 23°20’35" N
G Saturn pisces 24°36’34" 4 3°55’30" S
O Uranus virgo 15°58’25"# 9 6°16’26" N
I Neptune scorpio 21°23’41"# 12 16°22’17" S
J Pluto virgo 16° 9’23"# 9 19°10’ 8" N
K Mean Node taurus 26°52’49" 7 19°27’54" N
L True Node taurus 25°26’12" 7 19° 7’34" N
N Chiron pisces 24°13’13" 4 1°20’39" N
#a Juno aries 24° 4’17" 5 5° 3’49" N
#b 433 Eros gem 26°35’ 4" 8 21°40’19" N
#c 16 Psyche gem 24°41’24" 7 21°20’22" N

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mars 2.10
Sun Sextile Jupiter 2.12
Mercury Square Jupiter 4.50
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 7.25
Venus Opposition Uranus 2.27
Venus Trine Neptune 7.53
Venus Opposition Pluto 2.40
Jupiter Square Saturn 2.34
Saturn Opposition Uranus 8.39
Saturn Trine Neptune 3.13
Saturn Opposition Pluto 8.26
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 0.12

Him
born on Su., 13 Sept. 1970 Time 12:10 pm
in Clermont Ferrand, F, 3e05, 45n47

Planet Longitude house Declination
Sun virgo 20°14’49" 10 3°51’53" N
Moon aquarius 21°59’ 5" 3 15° 7’20" S
Mercury virgo 18°51’21"# 10 1°25’39" N
Venus scorpio 5°41’40" 12 16°50’33" S
Mars virgo 6°31’12" 9 10°11’53" N
Jupiter scorpio 4°39’42" 12° 8’59" S
Saturn taurus 22°33’10") 6 16° 4’33" N
Uranus libra 7°58’47" 10 2°33’18" S
Neptune scorpio 28°26’14" 1 18°11’55" S
Pluto virgo 26°57’28" 10 15°18’15" N
M Node pisces 1°45’36" 3 10°51’ 5" S
Tr Node pisces 2°47’34"D 3 10°28’52" S
Chiron aries 8°53’35"# 4 5°57’ 7" N
Juno taurus 23°50’ 2" 6 7°25’14" N
Eros capricorn 4° 5’13" 2 22°30’39" S
Psyche gemini 14°54’57" 7 19° 9’31" N

Sun Conjunction Mercury 1.24
Sun Trine Saturn 2.18
Sun Conjunction Pluto 6.44
Moon Square Saturn 0.34
Mercury Trine Saturn 3.42
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 8.08
Venus Sextile Mars 0.50
Venus Conjunction Jupiter 1.02
Mars Sextile Jupiter 1.52
Saturn Opposition Neptune 5.54
Saturn Trine Pluto 4.26
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.28

I would really love to know what you all think, based on the charts... is there anything I should be watching for ie infidelity/jealousy etc? or is there really a chance that it might be as good as it feels?

Thank you SO SO much
Etoile

posted August 12, 2007 11:07 AM            

I don't see any "big bad wolf" aspects in your intercharts.....
Your Saturn opp his Sun and Pluto could be interesting, but how synastry plays out really depends on the emotional maturity and commitment of the two people involved.

Ready for some of my favorite astro quotes??

From Steven Forrest: http://www.stevenforrest.com/lovehandles.html

To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are
two immutable premises:

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people.

From Marcia Sacks: http://www.mountainastrologer.com/sacks1000.html

Just as there is variety but no perfection in horoscopes, there can be love and companionship but no happily-ever-after in relationships. However, even folks with very difficult horoscopes can have healthy, successful relationships if they can accept that relationships require work. I think of it like gardening: You need seeds, soil, nourishment, water, and maintenance to grow something of beauty.

Remember that relationships are not a cure for depression. Other people cannot obliterate your feelings of loss, lack, and limitation. If you feed yourself positivity through affirmation and imagery, if you pat yourself on the back and nurture yourself, you will begin to attract more positive, supportive people in your life.

From Bill Herbst: http://www.billherbst.com/

Human beings are not signs of the zodiac, and astrology neither reveals nor determines the quality of our consciousness. The expresson of our charts is largely a function of our maturity, rather than the other way around. Our species is chock full of human beings who are mired in seemingly permanent adolescence, no matter what their age or elevation in culture. In terms of spiritual development, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. Nonetheless, the water exists. We choose.

From Liz Greene ~

I am always left with the feeling that if you only approach the issue of relationship in a technical way, by just comparing two charts or drawing up a composite chart, or any of the other range of techniques that we have, then some very fundamental, very important points get lost. To me, the thing that gets lost is the fact that every relationship contains an element of mystery that ultimately can't be defined, can't be explained. The essence of human interchange is like the essence of the person, and the essence of the person is not in the horoscope. I don't think we will ever find it in the horoscope. Bear in mind the fact that the chart you have in front of you could easily be that of a chicken, or of the opera society, for there is nothing in the chart that demonstates that it's human. But something works thru it which is uniquely the individual soul or individuality of the person. I believe this applies also to interchange between two people. The acknowledgement of some kind of mystery, some god at work, I believe is terribly important, because without that, all your techniques leave you, in the end, with unanswered questions.

Enjoy your blooming relationship, star -- and follow your
Be aware of possible red flags, but try to avoid worrying about the Big Bad Wolf -- the mind *can* manifest what is continually held in thought ("Image-Ordain-Manifest*).....

Zala

posted August 12, 2007 03:37 PM            

I am still very much an astro beginner, so i'll read up on psyche eros midpoints and see what i can find out...so far all I have on psyche and eros in our charts is:

My jupiter contra his eros
my pluto parallel his psyche (at 19,10 and 19,9 respectively)
My Eros conta his eros
my psyche contra his psyche

His eros is opposite my eros and my psyche
his psyche conj my psyche

... ok ive done the calculations

eros/eros midpoint libra 0,20
his eros my psyche midpoint virgo 29,23
my eros his psyche midpoint gemini 20,45
psyche/psyche midpoint gemini 19,47

my eros/psyche midpoint gemini 25,38
his eros/psyche midpoint virgo 24,30

so..... now i have to see whats what.

posted August 12, 2007 04:27 PM            

Interesting!!

posted August 12, 2007 05:34 PM            

Our ascendants are both scorpio at 24,24 me and 26,32 him.

My saturn chiron conj is in my 4th house and his eros/psyche midpoint is in his 10th house.

Does this lean to my qualities healing something in him? This is so fascinating learning about the actual interpretations... thanks so much for taking the time to help a noob!

posted August 14, 2007 02:31 PM            

Any thoughts?

Sorry if youre busy...