posted August 27, 2007 09:30 PM            

     While BamaGirl often takes a practical, down-to-earth, simple approach to life, BamaGuy is more inclined to take a modern, progressive or unconventional approach. This inclines the two of you to often differ on political and social issues as well as have different tastes in art, music, and aesthetics. BamaGuy is more aware of modern trends, and stays more in tune with changing styles and current events, while BamaGirl stubbornly holds on to the classics. This difference in your approach to life is not likely to create serious problems, but it does tend to be annoying at times. You are both stubborn (BamaGirl is particularly stubborn!), and this can aggravate any problems between you.

BamaGuy's Moon in Leo and BamaGirl's Moon in Gemini:

     BamaGuy is usually sunny and upbeat, and has a fun-loving, child-like side that BamaGirl brings to the fore. BamaGirl is humorous, witty, and rather detached emotionally, able to see the funny or ironic side in any situation, and often unable to resist joking even at the most inappropriate times. BamaGirl doesn't take life (or sometimes other peoples' feelings) too seriously. This can be offensive to BamaGuy, for BamaGuy has a strong sense of pride, a need to be appreciated, and, yes, taken seriously at least sometimes!

     For the most part, however, you get along and complement one another quite well. One difference between you is that BamaGuy is emotionally steadier and more constant, while BamaGirl's interests and feelings fluctuate and change quite frequently.

BamaGuy's Sun Square BamaGirl's Sun:

     Your relationship is dynamic and energizing. You challenge each other to grow and develop, but unfortunately the process tends to be abrasive and frustrating. The differences in your personalities that are described at the beginning of Chapter 1 deserve careful reading and attention because if not understood and handled properly, they can lead to mutual frustration.

BamaGirl's Sun Square BamaGuy's Uranus:

     When the two of you get together, you make a lot of noise, and there is lots of excitement. There is a strong element of unpredictability and spontaneity as well and you enjoy improvising new ideas and playing together. Because there is a loose, spontaneous quality to your relationship, you find that very often you can not depend on each other and it is difficult for the two of you to focus on mundane, tedious, or onerous tasks together. This is a good relationship for exploring new possibilities and interests and for spurring each other to become more spontaneous, independent, and creative, but a difficult relationship if dependability and commitment to each other is a high priority.

BamaGirl's Sun Trine BamaGuy's Venus:

     Yours is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for you both appreciate and like one another. You also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.

BamaGirl's Sun Trine BamaGuy's Mars:

     Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals.

BamaGirl's Sun Trine BamaGuy's Saturn:

     If the two of you depend on each other to accomplish practical tasks and be responsible, mature, and dependable to each other (such as in a business relationship or employer-employee relationship), then you will find that this aspect of your relationship is excellent. You can trust each other to get the job done and focus on the essential tasks. You have good attention to detail and your are able to focus on the most important issues when you work together. There is a strong sense of mutual commitment and dedication to each other.

BamaGuy's Moon Conjunct BamaGirl's Uranus:

     Your feelings towards each other change quickly. You are prone to have outbursts of laughter and gaiety and be quite zany together but at other times you get on each other's nerves. This relationship can be fun and inspiring, and interesting, especially if your relationship is not too close, but if you depend on each other or form a contract or commitment to each other, be flexible and be ready for unexpected changes in your plans, sometimes for better and sometimes for worse.

BamaGuy's Moon Square BamaGirl's Neptune:

     You spark each other's imagination, and this relationship could produce positive results if you join together in some artistic endeavor or other very imaginative venture. You may enjoy get-togethers and casual times together as well. However, in business affairs or other practical matters, you often fail to see each other and the matter at hand in a realistic light. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.

BamaGirl's Moon Square BamaGuy's Mercury:

     BamaGuy needs to guard against the tendency to be critical, unsympathetic, and overly analytical of BamaGirl's feelings, personal tastes, and habits. BamaGuy may feel that BamaGirl is overly sensitive to criticism, and refuse to acknowledge responsibility for the problem as well. Petty annoyances, minor disagreements, and bickering can be avoided only if you both learn to listen sympathetically and to communicate clearly with each other.

BamaGirl's Moon Square BamaGuy's Pluto:

     This relationship, especially if it is of reasonably long duration, will change both of you more profoundly than either of you would suspect at first.  You share much of your personal past history and you reveal much to each other that you normally do not share with others.  You may regret your candor at times, and there are qualities in each other that annoy you intensely, qualities that you do not want to acknowledge are also part of yourself!

BamaGuy's Mercury Opposition BamaGirl's Pluto:

     Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is resolved or until death - whichever comes first!

BamaGirl's Mercury Square BamaGuy's Mars:

     The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.

BamaGuy's Mercury Trine BamaGirl's Neptune:

     You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or mystical quality - art, music, fiction, theatre, or religion. You kindle each other's imagination and ideals. You work together well in the arts and in humanitarian areas. You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often understand each other without need for words.

BamaGirl's Mercury Trine BamaGuy's Jupiter:

     Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting friendship, you will develop similar political, social, and philosophical views. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony. If you have a business relationship, you will do well in areas that involve long-distance communication, such as advertising, publishing, etc.

BamaGuy's Venus Opposition BamaGirl's Mars:

     You have a warm, affectionate relationship but there are strong elements of rivalry and competition between you also. BamaGirl tends to be the more active or assertive one in your relationship, and may be more dominating or possessive about the friendship than BamaGuy would like. BamaGuy tends to allow BamaGirl to lead, and gives in to BamaGirl rather easily. You should enjoy a good, honest fight, or tennis match, or other strong expression of your emotions on occasion; otherwise, tension and actual dislike may develop between you.

BamaGirl's Venus Opposition BamaGuy's Jupiter:

     The two of you spark each other's sense of humor and good will. You usually put each other into a good mood, and you can count on lots of laughter, fun, and socializing to develop from this relationship. You feel open and uninhibited with each other, and a great appreciation for each other grows out of your happy times together. Because you bring out one another's expansiveness and optimism, you are inclined to encourage each other to spend freely and perhaps unwisely.

BamaGuy's Mars Opposition BamaGirl's Mars:

     You enjoy challenging each other and competing against each other. You could easily become rivals or foes, as you tend to oppose one another and to spark one another's fighting instincts. There is an aggressive quality between you which can give your interactions an energetic and lively, but rather combative tone.

BamaGirl's Mars Opposition BamaGuy's Saturn:

posted August 28, 2007 01:10 AM              

She
Nov 16,1972 2:24 AM West Allis, WI

He
Mar 12, 1961 4PM Pewaukee, WI