posted August 31, 2007 01:13 PM              

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First off...I fall for a guy that lives in another state.After talking for 8 months,we "break up" if you can call it that, because he's getting engaged.THEN...only 2 days after that I meet a totally awesome guy who lives in MY TOWN!!! Things are going great until....he goes on a trip back to where he grew up in Southern California,and decides he is going to move back there in the next few months!!WHY can't I just fall in love with a guy that lives in my town & won't leave me?!?I always end up abandoned & it's driving me nuts!! Aaarrrgghh........

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posted August 31, 2007 01:46 PM              

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Oh MD I'm with you babe. {{{HUGS}}}
I have 7th house cusp at the end of Scorpio but the house is dominated by Sag and I have the same prob. It's always men at a distance. *sigh*
So infuriating isn't it?

I've also had a barren 7 1/2 years and am trying to work out which transit has caused that - it's gotta be one of the slow movers - there's been no relationship since my Saturn Return - a few kisses but nothing to write home about - I just keep hanging in there...
Can you move maybe?

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posted August 31, 2007 02:40 PM              

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Don't I wish!!If I had the money...I'd SO be in Cali right now!!!I think Saturn moves every 7 yrs...funny 'cause I left my ex 2 months before our 7 yr. anniversary.

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posted August 31, 2007 02:55 PM            

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I've got that DC. I don't mind it. I've been pretty happy in some longer distance situations. I don't like always having to entertain.

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posted August 31, 2007 03:10 PM              

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Oh I'm more than willing to do the long-distance thing with the right guy.Problem is convincing HIM of that.Especially this one...he's got a Cap. DC(Can you say "Practical" & "Grounded"??) & Gemini Sun that refuses to settle down in one place & craves variety.

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posted August 31, 2007 03:13 PM              

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AG - long distance I can handle, I tend to move around a bit myself, it's the non-existent part that gets me down

MD - money - such a b***h!

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posted August 31, 2007 10:40 PM              

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Hmmm...just thought of something...this is supposed to be a big travel year for me.Both the Sun & Moon are in the 9th in my Solar Return.(Taurus & Gemini respectively)Now I'm even more confused!(if that's possible!!)
*sigh*

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posted September 01, 2007 04:22 AM            

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Hey!!

I have saggie sun and I have the exact same problem. The men I fall for are normally international. My last guy is now studying abroad in mexico(which I like but means are relationship ended.)

It can be so annoying sometimes loving all things international.

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posted September 02, 2007 05:35 AM            

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I have a similar problem. I have Venus in Sag conjunct Neptune. I feel like I'm always yearning from a distance.

It's happened to me too that when I am local with someone, they start traveling or move! It sucks

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posted September 02, 2007 06:34 PM              

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YES....EXACTLY,Venus De Milo....my Natal Neptune is wide conjunct my Desc. in Sag.It's so frustrating!!Just when I think I have found a man I can see myself settling down with,he decides to move to the opposite side of the country!! I'm hoping that maybe he's just homesick for the place he grew up & visiting made him miss it more...that once he's back here,he'll stick around.Of course I don't want him unhappy...I'm just think maybe he'll hang around here for a while and our relationship will deepen so much that by the time he IS serious about moving,he'll just have to take me with him.(there go those Neptune in the 7th fantasies.... *sigh*).Oh well...I looked ahead at my solar return for next year(May '08) & my Sun will be conj my DC that yr....so it'll will be a "marriage' year hopefully.Just gotta wait it out...

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posted September 02, 2007 11:33 PM            

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I also have Neptune on my DC.

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posted September 03, 2007 05:45 AM            

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Aaawww, hope it works out for you Moondreamer! Sun conjunct your DC sounds promising, romantically. What other aspects is your Sun making?

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posted September 04, 2007 08:42 AM              

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Hello MoonDreamer,

If your DC is Sagittarius, then look, where your Jupiter is.. Your partner could be from other country, not the state.
So, by this year Solar Return, you are going to travel to abroad. There you can find your partner.
Sun close to DC in Solar, doesn't mean marriage (means more, that you will meet somebody), for that you should have Venus or Moon in conjunction with DC.

Wish you good luck,
Natasha

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posted September 04, 2007 10:38 AM              

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When you're from Alabama,California IS another country!!LMAO As for my Jupiter...it's at 0* Libra..."officially" in House 4,but conjunct my 5th House cusp(1* Libra).

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