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Topic: Terrified by astrologer
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 05:22 PM
So, this person analysed my chart and said im pretty much doomed in all my relationships because i have mars opp. venus...said that might have some short stuff when planets transit but i ll never be happy w someone... i ll always suffer separations and distance also said that (since the person i like has the moon in my 7th house) the Lunar seventh house placement in a partners chart is never welcome since it tells of an affectionate response that varies like the Moon. Now i m feeling crushed...do you agree with these interpretations? IP: Logged |
cat71 unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 05:28 PM
Hey no expert here but I don't think it's responsible to tell someone stuff like - that's like a pyschic or tarot reader telling you you're gonna die next week - for god's sake what's wrong with these people???And that bit about your moon - what the h*ll does that mean anyway?! Get a second opinion babe IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1120 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 05:31 PM
that's no astrologer real astrologers don't talk like that. dismiss it.You're Moon falling in a partner's 7th is a positive placement. Your Venus/Mars opposition does not prevent falling in love or being in a good partnership. That opposition has a certain energy that responds to a similar aspects in others. Hey different strokes IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 05:37 PM
thank you Cat and Lalalinda,,, phew... that persons words really worried me.- i have mercury in pisces -i guess he-or she? means that the moon in 7th is moody and varies as fast as the moon s transits...so no lasting feelings... thank you for lifting my heart :X IP: Logged |
cat71 unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 05:41 PM
You're welcome - did the reading come with a money back guarantee (bet it didn't!) Besides Linda always said - no matter what the placements etc love can overcome all odds IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 05:43 PM
I am no astrologer but that sounds fishy to me LOL Are you sure that person used those words? usually if there is something negative they will say something like "you may have trouble with this situation but it is your choice to overcome this problem" Nobody is ever doomed! I hope anyway LOLyeah, get a second opinion. IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 05:52 PM
no he didnt say doomed but i felt doomed from the way i pictured in my mind the response i got ... [no money back just someone from a message board!]here s how he expressed it : Mars opposite Venus in a natal chart indicates difficulties in matters of love throughout ones entire life, under favorable transits and directions love affairs occur, but when the transit is past and the direction over the same old story of separation and distance between the native and the object of his or her, since this aspect works with both sexes, affections returns The Moon conjunct Mars opposite Venus enhances the opposition exponentially so it's a pretty gruesome state of affairs love wise that's for sure. Mercury is in the seventh house (mine) a placement that is said to bring marriage, so eventually something might show up. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 05:56 PM
ok, that doesn't sound as bad as you make it out to be LOL Sorry, I am laughing with you not at you...relax.I am sure someone here will show you the positie or how you can turn this into a positive outcome.IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 06:07 PM
yeah maybe i was negatively impressed by the word 'gruesome' and that ' that s for sure' and the 'same old story of separation'...story of my life lol thank you NAMIP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 06:27 PM
hi ^_^ Alia, Venus/Mars opposition can mean conflicts within yourself between your Venus (loving nature) and your Mars (anger, passion, action). but as long as you find a way to balance both of the energies, the conflict can be solved. ^_^ Now let's look at it psychologically: if you have an inner conflict, then it might sometimes makes relationships difficult as well. But you can find a way to solve by solving this personal conflict of energies. ^_^And about the the other person's Moon being at your 7th house.. I also have this aspect, and personally I love it. ^_^ Having a Pisces DC, I can be quite a Pisces when it comes to relationships, and it is compatible with my bf's Pisces Moon. I just love his gentle, caring and sensible Moon (astrologically speaking or not ^_^ ), as these traits are what I'd like in the other person in a relationship (DC is how you are and what you seek in relationships). IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 06:40 PM
I have Venus loosely conjunct Mars opposite my Moon -- *DOUBLE-GRUESOME!!!* I wouldn't fret about it one bit if I were you Alia ~ remember: From Steven Forrest: http://www.stevenforrest.com/lovehandles.html To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are two immutable premises: There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or immaturity cannot turn it sour. There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 07:08 PM
That's awsome Zala ^^^^IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 07:24 PM
it is really awesome..thank u all for brighten my dark view (sun conj saturn in 8th in birthchart...im pessimistic!) and now actually with clearer mind, i m like hey wait a second..whats he talkin about...his moon is in my 1st house, not the 7th ...and my moon is in his 8th house... lol IP: Logged |
NeptuneLove unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 07:28 PM
Yes you meant he has Moon in the 7th house of his natal chart Yeah, i`ve also heard these guys are quite undecided and they will have a moody wife IP: Logged |
aqua inferno unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 07:35 PM
Do not pay this person any attention. I don't even consider mars opp venus a terrible aspect.
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NeptuneLove unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 07:43 PM
I`ve also recently heard a smart one saying that if you have Venus square or opposition Pluto your fiance can die ! My mom has Venus opposition Pluto and my dad is alive so far IP: Logged |
aqua inferno unregistered
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posted August 31, 2007 08:04 PM
It really annoys me when I read aspect descriptions where an astrologer explains what's wrong with me and my life - but offers no suggestion on avoiding or dealing with certain problems.I think astrologers should offer a solution to problems that a person might face ( and many of the good ones do! ). But if they're gonna point out a problem and send you packing, what exactly does that achieve? IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 31, 2007 11:42 PM
quote: So, this person analysed my chart and said im pretty much doomed in all my relationships because i have mars opp. venus...said that might have some short stuff when planets transit but i ll never be happy w someone..
What an A$$!!! I cannot stand oh my i cannot emphasize enough how much i cannot stand people who do that. Dont listen to that one bit!!!! Its a hard aspect but hard aspects within your own chart are there for your personal growth. He has noooo knowledge, or the right, to say you will never be happy with anyone. Especially mars/venus opposition...its not even a square damn it. But thats not the point. There are hard aspects that do make certain things hard for us. But its meant for us to adapt and overcome them. Some harder than others (i personally thing outer planets challenges are way harder because they are usually subconcious - maybe cuz i have many outer planet hardships). But seriously, please dont get upset. You wont believe how many numerous times id get soooo upset over readings and get depressed. Even now i still do...u know pessimism and all. But seriously this is so wrong of him. I disagree with his interpretations...violently...lol dont fret Zala - I LOVE that quote. I know I always say that when you put it up, but i honestly do! quote: that's no astrologer real astrologers don't talk like that. dismiss it.
Thank you Lala! Way agree! Actually I dont think moon in 7th house doesnt have lasting feelings. I think their emotions would be more focused on partnerships and it would be kind of an instinctual comfort zone for them. Being in a couple would somehow feel more right than being alone, kinda take back to the old comfort zone. I dont know maybe i read too mcuh of that Hades moon book lol. Freudians lol. Yea i agree wat is said isnt that fatalistic. Its just something that needs to be worked on and overcome. Remember everything is in your own hands... When i first joined this forum my bf and I were going through a ton of fights and almost inevitable break up. And someone looked at our chart and said "i cant believe u guys are still together u have terrible aspects u wont last more than a month"...and i got so upset...well u know wat its been 10 months since that day and we are still together...still figting, still arguing...but still together...so take it all with a grain of salt ------------------ Sun-Gemini Moon-Scorpio ASC-Libra IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 477 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2007 05:10 PM
funny update: dude from the astro board added : your taurus man is most likely to have an harem ,so you ll be just one of the ones around him... since his sun ,venus,palla,vesta, jupiter are all in his 3rd house and yr venus is caught up in there. today when i checked again the moderator had removed his post... lol... i guess he went too far this time !? anyways this taurus man is very selective and picky ,he always had long relations and spends most of his time workin in his studio at home so no much of an harem scenario... but i wonder if a stellium in 3rd in taurus inclines to multiple relationships goin on at the same time? IP: Logged |