posted September 06, 2007 03:18 AM            

I am here in my city. I got interview 2 calls from two software houses on 4th September 2007 from a city some 800 kms. I told them I would come after a few days. I got one call on the phone at 3:33pm and other after midnight ie 5th Sept.

Now, the problems are:

1) On 3rd September around 12 pm I talked to someone in a software house in UAE and he said asked me to send CV. Which I did by 2pm.

2) My parents are looking for a girl for me to marry, according to our culture. The relatives of the girl always want to meet the guy personally to make final decision.

Even if I forego the marraige matter, my question would be, Should I wait for the company in dubai or join the software house in my country?

14th July 1967
7:30 am
20E04
32N07

Horoscope

Sun 21 Cancer 06
Moon 15 Libra 24
Mercury 13 cancer 53 retrograde
Venus 3 Virgo 53
Mars 27 Libra 22
Jupiter 9 Leo 57
Saturn 12 Aries 21
Uranus 21 Virgo 29
Neptune 21 Scorpio 44
Pluto 18 Virgo 29

10th 7 Taurus
11 th 14 Gemini
12th 15 cancer
Ascendant 12 Leo 36
2nd 8 virgo
3rd 10 Libra

I am very confused, Please help.

Besides, my sister who is a capricorn, is really antagonising me. How to handle her?

posted September 06, 2007 08:37 AM              

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I talked to someone in a software house in UAE and he said asked me to send CV.

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Good luck with this brother. If this comes through, take it up - career growth matters, and you know it.

posted September 06, 2007 09:09 AM            

But can you help me in clearing this matter up?

posted September 06, 2007 09:08 PM            

You're feeling cautious right now, but now is a time when--however reticent you feel--you need to make a bold move and choose exactly what you want and what is right. Some decisions should not be made astrologically (for example, whether to end a relationship)...but astrology can tell you the right WAY to make your own decision now. You need to decide what you most want right now (and do not waste energy on your sister's "antagonism"--it's not really about you, but about what's going on under the surface in her life), and take the steps to make it happen, even if it feels really hard.

Although you can be very private, you're probably charming with good communication skills. It may be that if you take the job abroad, the company will arrange and pay for adequate visits home to see your family and to meet the parents of your future wife. Don't let that, or any obstacle, stand in your way now. Your chart does not reveal your deepest desire, but it does suggest that now is the time to aggressively pursue it.

Also--you are going through a Uranus opposition Uranus. Lots of American astrologers call this time your "midlife crisis." You could be feeling constrained and closed in by the things you've become accustomed to. If that's the case, you need to identify the ways you feel trapped. It's a chance to break free from those. For you, the opposition is between your second and eighth houses, and pivots around a sense of debt and inheritance versus your sense of independence (including financial independence) and self-worth. Other people in your life--particularly family--become a focal point for this intense energy. For you, it may be that when you marry, your connection with your new wife and her family will represent an important new beginning. It might be an unusual and surprising marriage situation.

posted September 07, 2007 04:38 AM            

Thank you for a deep reading

"and do not waste energy on your sister's "antagonism"--it's not really about you, but about what's going on under the surface in her life"

How you know about that? She has a lot of problems!

"you're probably charming with good communication skills"

Well thank you for the above comment. I look around 27 years

I was born in Libya.

I have financial problems so I cannot go to Dubai on my own. Karachi I can
That is the biggest trouble of my life. My father, step mum are on one side and my real mum and brother on the other. I can help them all through money And I have no support whatever! My elder brother is in Dubai and he has not arranged for my travel as yet. My father has property etc but he expect that someone from his boys help him.

My real mum and sick brother are in Karachi. I want to go out of country so that I can earn to help my father here and my mum and brother in Karachi.