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Aquafaery
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posted September 06, 2007 09:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else have this happen to them?

Throughout my life, my best friends and lovers have usually been Aries and Capricorn. I love them... But it's odd, because neither of those signs are in any of my planets. Why is this?

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Sun in Aquarius,
Moon, Ascendant in Leo
Venus in Pisces
Mars, Jupiter, Saturn in Virgo.
Married to Capricorn.

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babeefoxx
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posted September 06, 2007 09:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My old best friends (we went through each other like napkins sad to say) were all Aries. I feel like I get another Aries friend each year and we can't stand each other afterward!We butt heads waaay too much, It sucks!
Fortunately, I kept one of my Aries friends (solar and lunar Aries) by my side. My very distant side.

I also have many Scorpio and Virgo friends.
Insane! I love Virgos!

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AcousticGod
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posted September 06, 2007 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mostly Taurean friends, but no placements there in my own chart.

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MoonDreamer81
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posted September 07, 2007 12:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES YES YES YES YES.........I have nothing in Virgo(My intercepted 4th house which runs from Leo 28* through Libra 1*),and the guy I thought was my SM had a stellium in Virgo(Sun,Moon,& a few others...don't remember...).I still feel a very strong connection to him,although my romantic inclinations toward him have completely disappeared.Also,I'm in a Yahoo astrology group,& the moderator there said that since I have a 12th house stellium(Sun,Merc,Mars,Venus,Chiron),it makes me very "Piscean" in nature since Pisces is the natural 12th house.They said it was no wonder I would draw someone w/ a Virgo stellium,since Virgo is opp Pisces.I hadn't though about it like that,but it DOES make sense.You know what they always say....that we draw towards ourselves what we need and lack.

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ASC:Gemini
M:Scorpio
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mars446
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posted September 07, 2007 01:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah man.....it so happens to me.

I'm mainly earthy, water vs. fire, water comes in second barely. I only have 1 airy planet- jupiter in aqua singleton.

People I've been attracted to so far- Airy mercs. Why? b/c mercury is the dominant planet in my chart. Got 3 planets in Virgo, and 6th house stellium. And the more airy they are, for some odd reason, the more physically attractive they are to me. As if they got something very exotic about them.

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posted September 08, 2007 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus De Milo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am strongly attracted to Pisces men, but Pisces is intercepted in my chart, I have no planets there, but my South Node is in Pisces.

I'm trying to stay away from Pisces men. They are exhausting.

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GeminiLover75
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posted September 08, 2007 07:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, Moondreamer81! My ex (five year relationship) is a Virgo stellium and I also have no Virgo in my chart. We still remain good friends and it is now a 7 year friendship. I also have no Capricorn but I seem to relate to Capricorn-influenced people - I know a crazy amount of people with Capricorn moon.

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posted September 08, 2007 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Node     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Every sign is present in every chart.
    you might not experience it as a planet or angle or even an asteroid [and that is rare] but you might- as a house cusp. If an axis is intercepted or 'disappears' in a chart because it lacks the expression of a house cusp it can lead to a magnetic pull towards that sign [s]
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cat71
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posted September 08, 2007 08:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting point Node - My relationships or attractions have been to Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpios and (mostly) Aries and I have Little going on in each of these areas.
I have Pisces MC; Capricorn Vertex; Scorpio DC (well okay on that one I guess ) and Aries Chiron

Food for thought...hmmm

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posted March 08, 2016 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am very attracted to Aries kind of people and I only have Midheaven in Aries. However, my natal chart is fire dominant, so maybe that's why.

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posted March 08, 2016 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Electro DGX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find myself attracted to Libras. You can talk to them forever and they'll listen. I don't have any Libra placements though and it cusps my twelfth house.

I do have an Aqua stellium though, that's probably why lol

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posted March 30, 2016 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well Maybe you have Saturn placed in one of your angles?
Still you have quite a bit of Virgo in you and that fares quite well with Capricorn.

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bonsai
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posted April 01, 2016 09:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AcousticGod:
I have mostly Taurean friends, but no placements there in my own chart.

Same here and I don't have a single planet in Taurus. I've realised that many people who I called my best friends at some point in my life have been Taureans (one whom I was friends with for about 12 years), but sooner or later I had a falling out with them because they proved to be amoral one way or another. Not saying being amoral is a Taurean trait, just saying this is what these people were like.

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posted January 29, 2017 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dreamscomeslow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find that a lot of my best girl friends are Fire or Air dominant... because I am mostly Earth & Water... I think we naturally seek out what we think we lack in ourselves. Not only am I seeking out these Fire/Air people, they are also seeking out Earth/Water. What's funny is since I am Taurus, I usually find myself interested in Capricorn/Pisces men or something else in the same element but my lasting female friendships of 20 plus years are with Aquarius and Sagittarius so maybe I should try dating one of those? Friendship astrology vs Romantic astrology...

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posted January 30, 2017 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No rhyme or reason for mine.

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posted January 31, 2017 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or maybe there is, but no preference.

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9thScorpio
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posted May 10, 2017 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 9thScorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Majority of my girl firends are Lionesses with earth moons (one girls is Pisces Moon) and they all have Libra Ascendants.

When it comes down to attraction, I love Aries Suns/Moons/Venuses.

But my personal fave is mixture of fire and earth. There is something quite magical about people with earth Moons and fire Venuses. At least in my book.

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posted May 12, 2017 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two good friends of mine have been Aquarians. I have no planets in that sign. They were both born on the same day (different times, places) and both have Sun conjunct Venus in early Aquarius forming a grand trine with my Mars/Gem & Uranus/Libra. Both have Mercury in Cap conjunct my Moon. Easy talking, easy understanding with them.

And then there are times when you should look in the declinations to find the story. One of my Aquarian friends is good example of this, because her Moon is parallel my Uranus at 1 south. Great aspect for friendship or intimate relationships. We met and became friends instantly.

The declinations can also show you parallel aspects between your Sun/planet in say Aries and their Sun/planet in Virgo. Both those signs align with the portion of the Sun's path from 0-11.5 north.

Planetary parallels between your chart and someone else's can be made by a number of planets across many different signs. These parallels are fusion aspects like conjunctions.

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posted May 12, 2017 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for apollo6284     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For some reason, I attract friends with Scorpio planets and/or influences into my life or they just appear themselves...
The people who I've immediately liked on first sight were mostly Scorpio/Plutonian moons, then there was this one Scorp sun, and then a few Scorp mars. We talk about deep topics and have never fought. The only slightly annoying thing is that, true to the Scorp nature, many of these friends keep to themselves and rarely expose any information, so it's mainly just me spilling my guts to them haha!

As for crushes, they also tend to be Scorps, but with some Pisces/Sagittarius influences...

I have no absolutely no clue why though. Maybe it's because of my intercepted signs/houses? Scorpio and Taurus, 1st/7th house

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posted May 12, 2017 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think there could be other things at play?

My good friend has his Moon/Mercury and Mars in my 11th house. He is Aqua Sun.

I have my Moon in his 7th and my Venus/Saturn in his 11th.

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posted May 13, 2017 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think there could be other things at play?

My good friend has his Moon/Mercury and Mars in my 11th house. He is Aqua Sun.

I have my Moon in his 7th and my Venus/Saturn in his 11th.


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posted June 02, 2017 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraGirl92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first love was a Leo and that's on my 12th house but no planets just chiron. I dated him 8 years ago to and lastd almost a year but to this day he does have a special place in my heart. Currently i am engaged to a cancer man such a sweet kind caring man that cancerian is lol *sigh*

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posted June 23, 2017 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mars446:
Yeah man.....it so happens to me.

I'm mainly earthy, water vs. fire, water comes in second barely. I only have 1 airy planet- jupiter in aqua singleton.

People I've been attracted to so far- Airy mercs. Why? b/c mercury is the dominant planet in my chart. Got 3 planets in Virgo, and 6th house stellium. And the more airy they are, for some odd reason, the more physically attractive they are to me. As if they got something very exotic about them.


Relate to this also. No planets in air in my chart. I am always attracted to air sign women. I am mostly water in my chart.

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9thScorpio
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posted July 19, 2017 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 9thScorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nothing in Aries, Taurus, Gemini or Leo but some of my favorite people are born under those signs.

My father is Leo Sun with Aries Moon and Ascendant.
Friend no 1. is Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon and Gemini Ascendant.
Friend no 2. is Leo Sun with Capricorn Moon and Libra Ascendant.
Friend no 3. is Leo Sun with Pisces Moon and Libra Ascendant.
My first love was Aries Sun and Moon and Virgo Ascendant.
My boyfriend is Gemini Sun with Sagittarius Moon and Libra Ascendant.

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Sun in Virgo
Moon in Scorpio
Venus in Scorpio
Jupiter in Scorpio
Pluto in Scorpio
MC in Scorpio
NN in Scorpio
ASC in Capricorn

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posted July 25, 2017 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Might be something to it.

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