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posted September 07, 2007 03:34 PM            

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Can Mars in Leo make a man Self centered???

I have a friend that I have been hanging out with, he can be considerate but yet so self-centerd and I am not sure if he see's it. So I was just wondering is it the Mars in Leo that has him like this..Here is the top part of his chart..What do you think I am a lil stumped..

Sun-Virgo
Moon-Cancer
Mer-Libra
Venus-Libra
Mars-Leo

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posted September 07, 2007 04:52 PM            

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It could be. I know a guy with mars in leo and aries rising and he is very self-centered and egocentric.

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posted September 07, 2007 04:53 PM              

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MM, I have Mars in Leo and here's what astro says about that...it doesn't SAY self-centered, but I suppose it could lean that way...

You have a great deal of pride, and you enjoy doing things on your own initiative. An appeal to your sense of fairness brings out the best in you, and you will do anything to maintain these qualities.

At times you may act arrogant and domineering toward others. You can't always be first, but you have such a need to be a leader that it may be difficult for you to accept anyone else in this role.

LOL...of course, personally I'VE never acted this way...an anomaly in my chart, I guess!

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posted September 07, 2007 05:14 PM            

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Let me give an example...

Me: Hey babe its me give me a call when you get a chance..

Him: (responds with a text the next day) I am soo sorry that I did not call you back yesterday but xyz came to town and we hung out yada,yada. came in at five this morning resting right now. But I wanna make it up to you if you please let me..

Me: ok,I will collect studying for midterms right now wanna see u later ok.

The next day he texts me
Him: Don't know what happen to you yesterday.

Wait he was resting he never text back from that point on. I think he thought I was suppose to call him when I thought he was done resting..Uh no..

He has done this a few times and now I am like wait a minute, actually it is starting to turn me off..

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posted September 07, 2007 05:39 PM              

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Hmmm. I thought maybe you meant self-centered as in unable to finish a sentence without using "I" 50 times. You meant he has no consideration for anyone but himself. I'm sorry, and have no useful information astrologically, but I do have sympathy for anyone being treated like that.

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posted September 07, 2007 05:48 PM            

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posted September 07, 2007 05:49 PM            

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Thanks CrabbyK: I do believe its that Mars in Leo and the house it resides in might have something to do with it. Don't worry I can definetly handle him, I was just wondering and I wanted to make sure it was him being self-centered and me not being paitent due to my Mars in Aries, but I know its him..Mars in Leo=arrogant, Yeah she will call me back bc she wants to see me that much..Hmmmm shame on him...:-)

Oh so Jane you say its the Cancer moon thing huhn? Your guy is a Virgo too. Well with that Cancer moon they are soooo damn sensetive all you have to do is get it straight with them and maybe they will adjust. But they are so damn sensitive better watch how you say it. Mines have his moon in the 1st house so he is eeeexxxxxtrrrra with his sensetivity..Wow what a mixture..

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posted September 07, 2007 06:19 PM              

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maybe "he is just not that into you". No matter the sign of his Mars, a guy who's interested would have found a way to get you. I can understand him missing the first date, but the second time around too?....its not a good sign.

by the way, he has all his planets in the same sign as me, except for the Moon

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posted September 10, 2007 09:50 AM            

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Well if this was a guy that I just met I would say your prolly right..BUT since this is a guy that has been in my life for 20 something years a high school friend and we are in our late 30's. He has chased me since high school and honestly I know that he cares for me deeply no man hangs around a woman as long as he has and not care for her and he's not some simple guy. He has alot going on for himself alot. What I realize is that he is insecure and prefers if I kind take the lead, I think he needs some reassurance from me I think because of his past experiences and other things. WE have moon conjunct Saturn in our synastry and that causes alot of misunderstandings I think with this friendship/relationship communication is key for us to totally understand each other. I can't take for granted that he understands and vice versa. He has told me that he loves me and I have not told him that yet, well thats bc I don't at this time, but I do care for him I am just not inlove with him. He's even mention marriage and babies..So we will see, communication is key..

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posted September 13, 2007 07:48 PM              

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"He has told me that he loves me and I have not told him that yet, well thats bc I don't at this time, but I do care for him I am just not inlove with him. He's even mention marriage and babies."

I have Moon in Cancer (1st) and Mars in Leo like him. IT would crush me emotionally if I told you I loved you and you didn't feel the same. I would then distance/withdraw myself emotionally from you in subtle ways and I think he's doing the same. I would do the same things he's doing to you now (missing dates). My actions would run cold, then warm, hot, cold again. I would definitely need reassurance regularly and to know how much you care. I need to know if you at least love me, even though not in love. Otherwise, I would have doubts and consider finding someone who could love me OR stay with you and be miserable emotionally & hope you fall in love with me. Its not called "Self-Centered" or "Arrogant", I'm far from arrogant, but I am selfish when my moodiness kicks in. I would have expected you to call me since you said you wanted to see me later. He's not being self-centered, he's in self-protection mode (in his shell) and you shouldn't blame him. It is soo hard having a 1st house Cancer moon, it sucks and its hard to always control the very intense emotions & moods. When we love, we love deep, deeper than the majority of people (a Scorpio could understand what I'm talking about). If you really want him in your future, be patient with him, be loving & romantic, show your sensitive side, open your heart to him and be aggressive. You need to talk to him, a real heart to heart, and try to understand if he needs some space to get his emotions in check.

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posted September 14, 2007 12:30 AM            

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There are three men in my family with a Leo mars and they are not self-centered at all. They are: Virgo/Pisces moon, Virgo/Libra moon/Leo Asc and Cancer/Taurus moon/Leo Asc.

I know them all in depth - not self-centered in my opinion.. Usually they're the opposite.

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posted September 14, 2007 03:17 AM            

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Mama Mia, from the example you have given, I can tell for sure that it's the mars in leo causing this.

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posted September 14, 2007 09:50 AM            

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SweetCappie: I hear you I have seen him and we have talked, I have been showing him that I care for him and he has reciprocated back, its just is what it is right now I don't love him, I still love my Aqua and I know that, that love is eternal, but I also know that I am tired of waiting on him to get his self together. The Virgo posses alot of the traits in a man I want and I do like him not just as my man/husband but as my friend we are FRIENDS and I absolutely love that, I guess that has to do with my moon,merc,venus and rising all in Aqua. I know that he is soooooooo sensetive and well I deal with him with kid gloves. I am Pisces and he has that Cancer moon so we click. I have more history with him then any guy I know, he means something to me so again we will see..

Oh Jupiters girl, yes I figured out that it was his Mars in Leo..He's arrogant been knowing him so long...

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posted September 14, 2007 02:48 PM              

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I know a man who has Mars in Leo and he is very Egocentric.

MM

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