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Green Fairy
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posted September 12, 2007 08:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm curious, how does a Scorpio hunt.. ehmm approaches his "victims"? (hehe)

And what would one do to make you understand he/she is interested in you?
Out of experience.

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BlueTopaz124
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posted September 12, 2007 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my Scorpio experience, you will never know their true motive. They will always have a personal interaction, i.e., talk to you briefly in passing, an email or phone call. They are a water sign, after all and the connection is what it's all about to them...so, they are very tenacious (in the same way as Taurus), they will keep up the connection with you if they are interested. Probably ask you out for coffee or a drink. Scorps, in my experience will let you know they are interested. It will be subtle, but YOU WILL KNOW. I'm just saying...

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posted September 13, 2007 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first serious boyfriend was a Scorpio (Scorpio Moon too). We met in high school, so I don't know if he pursues women in the same way now that he's 27. I hope not, that would be kind of sad to have not changed since 9th grade. We were both very shy about giving any sort of indication that we were interested in the other in a way other than as friends. I didn't realize he "liked me, liked me" until one day, after nearly 6 months of being friends, he threw a jealous temper tantrum b/c he thought I had a boyfriend. Before that, the only sign he gave that he was interested in me is that he'd always sit near me in class when it came time for us to choose new assigned seats. But it was hard to tell what about our interaction meant he was interested & what meant we were good friends, b/c we did truly like one another as friends too. Knowing the truth now about his feelings, I can see how obvious it was that he was interested, but at the time, I found it very difficult to read him. Sorry, this probably didn't help much.

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posted September 13, 2007 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Involved with a Scorpio girl here.

She had a simple and quite a straightforward way of saying what she wanted.

"*Pinch the butt cheek* You're mine now."

Lol! Though her quote maybe taken out of context, its not far off from the truth. As much as anyone really doesn't like the idea of being refered to as "their's," one does have to make a "slight" exception with a Scorpio. I personally prefer not to; It kinda keeps things interesting Lol!

What can I say about Scorpios... As many have already said, if they like you, you'll know it... eventually. I kinda call it the Dracula effect; They give you those eyes, you don't submit, then they try harder with seduction, by now the cracks should be starting to appear on your walls and of they aren't there yet... Kudos! You're one tough cookie Lol! So it just comes down to the ultimate hit; They sink their fangs into you and now... Its over Lol! You have been converted . All I can say at this point is do hold on to what's left of your soul. Lol!

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posted September 13, 2007 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jane ~ as always, you're highly-larious.

Green Fairy ~ Yep. If a Scorpio likes you, you'll know.

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posted September 13, 2007 04:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I remember mum (Aqua) telling me how she used to play hard-to-get with dad (Sco) and he would get ****** off and act like he didn't care.
Also it was like he was everywhere, never missed a chance to be close to her.

And LOL to Xodian's post

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Lucia23
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posted September 13, 2007 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't get it. On the one hand, everyone is saying, "If a Scorpio likes you, you will KNOW."

On the other hand, Jane said that she was friends with her smitten Scorp for 6 months, and she DIDN'T know!!!!

Could someone please clear up this discrepancy? The Scorp who has me all in knots sends out very mixed signals.

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Scorpio Chick
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posted September 13, 2007 01:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I do to stalk my prey?

I think about them alot. Usually, when I think about a person I'm interested in, they pick up on the sensation that I want them. If they can't then they're not on my wavelenght.

They will know, because they will feel my attraction, it's never because I am flirty or flighty, because that's not what I do. I just seethe the sensuality of what it would be like for us to be together, and usually that works, lol.

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posted September 13, 2007 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't get it. On the one hand, everyone is saying, "If a Scorpio likes you, you will KNOW."
On the other hand, Jane said that she was friends with her smitten Scorp for 6 months, and she DIDN'T know!!!!

Well it depends upon other aspects in a person's chart as well. I am thinking in Jane's case, the Scorpio she mentioned might have a prodominant water element presence.

With the Scorpio I am with though, the dominating elements in her chart are air and earth. Self-Confident AND Imaginative Lol! It really sets my Fire dominatied chart ablazing Lol!

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posted September 13, 2007 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love -

Lucia - Maybe I'm just really, really unperceptive? I think a big part of it was our age. We met at 14, so there was all that adolescent angst & idiocy. Moreover, we were both the type who preferred to have the upper hand, in the sense that we both needed to be really secure about how the other felt before revealing our own true feelings. So we were both hiding from one another, while quietly surveilling another master at going incognito emotionally.
He didn't give any obvious signs that he was into me...he didn't ask for my number, didn't make any comments about my appearance, didn't check me out in an obvious way...& I really liked that about him. I've always been turned off when guys come on too strong, but at the same time, without those blatant signals it was hard to know if he cared for me as more than a friend. But he was very sweet with me & we always gravitated to one another when we were in the same room (or on the same bus...ah, young love. )
I think his Scorpio Moon made him even more self-protective & harder to read than the average Scorpio.
What sort of mixed signals does your Scorpio send out? Speaking from my own experience, the clearest sign he gave about his feelings was he'd always put me first...even if his friends were around, I was the one who he would give his attention to.

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Lucia23
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posted September 14, 2007 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jane, you sound like you could be describing me and my Scorpio. Only he is thirty. And I'm a little older. (Oh dear.)

How did the two of you eventually get together?

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Dulce Luna
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posted September 14, 2007 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, interesting thread. I don't think I would've ever known that my guy was into me if my friend didn't blab that I was into him first (long story). I guess now that I look back on it, there were signs but it sooo was not in that "dark plutonian" way. Well he is hypnotic in his own way (can't believe I'm saying this...practically spilling my guts here). For one, I think got bashful in those situations, like I noticed even then that there were times he wouldn't keep eye-contact with me for very long when he had conversation with me and that very thing p1ssed me off for the longest time. But now I know the reason for that. I guess that was the pisces moon showing.

But then, he had this way of making himself known to me in a goofy kid-like sort of way (definitely the sag in his chart). Like one time I guess he was at the mall at the same time as me and he saw me walking out of a store but I didn't see him and so as I'm walking I hear loud running footsteps behind me and I'm thinking to myself "ugh, children." but no, it was him running from behind me, and then right past me, and gets on the escalator (tryin' to look all suave while on the escalator too...latino men ). Looking back in hindsight, with the way everything is positioned in the mall, he obviously did get on the escalator because he thought I was getting on the escalator. But my hyper sensitive Cancerian ego didn't get the hint and was just like "why did he run right past me without saying hi? Ughhh". I didn't get on the escalator and just went to H & M to continue shopping (stupid me ). We did talk later that day but oddly we never brought up the incident, actually I still haven't brought it up. Maybe its just that water thing....things left unsaid and stuff.

Sorry guys if this sounds stupid or doesn't make sense right now...we were obviously young(er) when we met and we were both very bashful (atleast with eachother) and its late right now so maybe I'll better explain myself some other time.

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posted September 14, 2007 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lucia - Well, his jealous interrogation into my personal life made it obvious to even the densest parts of myself that he wanted me bad. So I asked him for his number. Things escalated quickly from that point. We started spending a lot of time together outside of school. He asked me to be his girlfriend after a couple of weeks, by saying, & I quote, "You're my girlfriend, right?" And then we were together happily for a year & a half.

Dulce - lol @ the escalator story.
I'm sorry to hear that your friend spilled the beans! The fear of that happening is one of the things that motivated me to make my move on my Scorpio. One friend of mine had guessed that I liked him & I told her she was right but asked her not to tell anyone. She didn't, but the fear that she would did push me along to develop things at not such a glacial pace.

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Lucia23
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posted September 14, 2007 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think this is one way Scorpios are like us Leos. When a Scorpio man is interested, but not TOO interested, he'll make some blatent move. The one Scorp I've been with before was that way--smoldering eyes, swooping in to escort me home, a kiss, asking me on a date. But there wasn't a real love connection there, or any buildup. When there's genuine, deep, intense, scary attraction, maybe love, we fixed signs are terrified of being wounded by rejection...so we are more careful, more subtle and more shy.

I've been just-friends with two Scorp men,and both of them hid their interest in the women they really fell in love with at first, until they felt safe. One of them was really confident and went from one beautiful woman to the next each month, easily making the first move, but when he fell in love with his current wife, he was interested for two years (and through five or six other girlfriends!), and he never let her know. Finally, SHE figured it out and made the move, like in Jane's story. HE would have spent his whole life with loving her but not ever hooking up with her rather than risk rejection.

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Dulce Luna
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posted September 14, 2007 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm sorry to hear that your friend spilled the beans! The fear of that happening is one of the things that motivated me to make my move on my Scorpio. One friend of mine had guessed that I liked him & I told her she was right but asked her not to tell anyone. She didn't, but the fear that she would did push me along to develop things at not such a glacial pace.

Thanks Jane, and it wasn't like she spilled the beans to ANYBODY, she spilled the beans to his taurus brother. But I guess I blew up my own spot anyways because what happened was that my friend was hanging out with the scorp guy's taurus brother on a date sort of thing (those two were f-buddies at the time, it has alot to do with how I met Scorp). SO anyways, they went to go see the first SAW movie and afterwards it goes like this

Taurus brother: "What's up w/ your girl?".
Sag friend: "Which one?"
Taurus brother: "The one you're always with" (we were mad tight at the time)
Sag friend: "Oh, you mean [insert my name here]"
Taurus: "Yeah, she's always staring at my brother"
Sag friend: Ohhhh, that because she likes...oops, wait nevermind"
Taurus: Perdoneme?
Sag friend: Nope, nothing...don't worry about it. (she says very quickly)

And because his stubborn taurean a__ never lets go of things, he REALLY persisted until she finally just came out with it. Then he rubs his hands together and is like "Ohhhhhh, I'll help her out" he says pretty cryptically...probably because his brother liked me back.

So the next monday morning at school I ask

"How'd your date with [Taurus] go?"

Her: "Oh, it went well...we went to go see SAW, we took a walk downtown...and I might've accidentally told him your secret..."

Me:*spits out drink* Which secret?

Her:*in a small voice* the one that involves his brother

Me: &%#@%&$#! (well, I wasn't that horrible to her, but I was freaking out)

He does say that I don't have to worry and no one else will find out but somehow I think his gemini mercury couldn't resist telling someone because by the end of the week....everyone knew.

In all fairness, I think I had already blown up my spot because I didn't realize I stared at the scorp so much....it was probably unconsciously done and I was kicking myself over it. But I guess I'm with him now so it all worked out for the best?

And I do have an incident similar to your Jane, where my friend decided to bring these two guys on an outing with us downtown. I guess she told the scorp for some reason and he knew about it and thought it was a double date. Because when we meet up with scorp later in the afternoon, he was pouting....in the most adowrable way though. My sag friend was like "What's up with you today" and he's like "Idk, I feel kind of rejected". I did get the hint...partially. Because then I assumed he had a crush on my friend (she's tall,model-like, everyone falls for her) and I was green with envy like you wouldn't believe. So yeah, that goes to show I'm always in denial.

Well, that was long.

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posted September 15, 2007 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"For one, I think got bashful in those situations, like I noticed even then that there were times he wouldn't keep eye-contact with me for very long when he had conversation with me and that very thing p1ssed me off for the longest time. "

hey that was the exact way my scorp ex behaved with me!!

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posted September 15, 2007 05:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
there were some Scorpio guys that were attracted/in love with me, most of them were very quick to to say I love you or show their affection or be vulnerable, no problems with that, the problems usually started when I fell for them too and it gave them a false reason to believe everything was ok now and from now on they were going to have their way everywhere well, they met their match, so it lasted as long as one of us still believed things would change for the better...I know Scorpio guys are not for me but 1 or 2 are always around lol

p.s. I would not say that when in love, Scorps differ from any other sign, my ex Scorps usually showed their feelings quite soon but before that I had been good friends with them, and they acted like they did not care only when insecure or angry

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posted September 15, 2007 10:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when im interested in a guy and i tend to know INSTANTLY (my body is really receptive so if i meet him i tend to get really nervous and anxious and it's almost likes my skin gets this electical charge! LOL) i become very shy and reserved, and i become really self-conscious oh and a lot of this is in thanks to my cancer rising lol. this is what happens initially, after a little bit of time passes and i get more comfotable with the person i come on much stronger... i normally avoid eyecontact (this is generally, even with ppl whom im friends with and such) but i glace at them every so often with a look of intensity and passion that usually stops them from looking at me as much LOL. I'm not entirely sure but that im pretty sure that most guys i've been interested in have known, the attraction i think has usual been mutual. I'm still young however, im almost 19, and ive only liked about 5 guys - if that - but guys when theyre young can be so timid and jsut plain stupid lol.. so im pretty sure they knew just didn't know how to handle . Hm, the guy I like now though claims he had an idea but wasn't sure - i think he still doesn't believe me :| could be nerves though, who knows.

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posted September 16, 2007 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dulce - Yes, you're right, it did all work out for the best since it helped the two of you get together. But still, I hope the drink you spit up was scalding coffee & it hit her right in her secrets-telling face. That's my Sco asc & Mercury talking. I'm so not a typical Sag when it comes to privacy.
Your guy's reaction to the "double date" was so sweet. I can tell that he has a Pisces Moon. I love that placement.

Lucia - Oh, you're a Leo! I have a Leo Moon & MC. I think a Leo woman can bring out a Scorpio man's (hell, any man's) insecurity, b/c of the way Leo women are often in the spotlight. Scorpios like a strong one-to-one connection, & if he sees you relating confidently and playfully with many other people, he may not think he's special to you, that the connection the two of you share isn't unique. I know that's something my Scorpio mentioned & it was a bit of an issue throughout our relationship.

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posted September 16, 2007 11:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my experience...they usually pounce on me.

And no I am not kidding.

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posted September 16, 2007 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dulce - Yes, you're right, it did all work out for the best since it helped the two of you get together. But still, I hope the drink you spit up was scalding coffee & it hit her right in her secrets-telling face. That's my Sco asc & Mercury talking. I'm so not a typical Sag when it comes to privacy.

Honestly, knowing her it really was an accident. She has ALOT of foot-in-mouth moments.

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Your guy's reaction to the "double date" was so sweet. I can tell that he has a Pisces Moon. I love that placement.

Pfft, I didn't think so @ the time. I thought that 1) he was being an @ss for pouting eventhoughIwouldprobablydothesameif thesituationwasreversed and that 2) it was over my friend...and not me.

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posted September 16, 2007 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jane, how would I go about letting a Scorpio sun/Pisces moon know that he's very special to me?

Dulce--Jeez, Saggie friends. They are sooo good-hearted, but man are they indiscreet. I'm glad that one worked out in your favor.

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posted September 17, 2007 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, it worked out in my favor alright....about 2 years later.

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Lucia - A bj usually does the trick. Seriously though, I don't want to present myself as a Scorpio male expert. The relationship didn't end well (due to a stupid mistake I made). But getting that disclaimer out of the way... At that time in my life, being open emotionally was absolutely not my forte, but I was pretty good at making love fun & I directed all of that energy at him. Ultimately, I think it comes down to making your feelings known...if he is special to you, treat him in a way that reflects that. Highlight the areas of your interaction where your bond is unique, aspects of yourself that he knows you don't share with others. You've just got to be honest. I know that's probably the last thing you want to hear...as a Leo, you may be so accustomed to guys chasing you that not being pursued actually feels like a rejection. It's not, though. He may just need some reassurance that you're interested too before he begins his full pursuit.
Maybe Dulce has some advice to offer since her guy has the same Sun/Moon combo as yours. I was dealing with a Double Scorp

Dulce - 2 years? Oh my! And I thought my Cappy Venus made me take things slow.

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posted September 18, 2007 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let ther b light, I am soooo sorry I missed this.

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"For one, I think got bashful in those situations, like I noticed even then that there were times he wouldn't keep eye-contact with me for very long when he had conversation with me and that very thing p1ssed me off for the longest time. "
hey that was the exact way my scorp ex behaved with me!!

hey that was the exact way my scorp ex behaved with me!!


Really? No sah! I thought I was the only one! Because they always talk of some "Scorpio stare" when one likes you and I never got that....he just never looked at me long enough...even when we were having a conversation. The way he did it was one of the strangest things ever. What was your ex's moon placement or Asc?

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Dulce - 2 years? Oh my! And I thought my Cappy Venus made me take things slow.

Oh wait, did I say two years...I meant one year and some months. Because I did meet him when saturn hit my descendant and 7th house sun so yeah...it was a year later. But yeah, I blame the slowness on our shy moons (virgo and pisces)...eck. I did nd up telling him a week after my friend blabbed it to his brother before he found out first since I was in a very tricky situation (everyone else knew). So we ended up making plans together but then my mother found out I was going out with *gasp* a guy (she's Mozambican and Catholic...dating is a foreign concept for her). So she totally sabotaged the whole thing by telling me I couldn't go out that day becaus eI have to help set up for the guests coming (Thanksgiving was around the corner). I told him my mother wouldn't let me otu and he thought I was blowing him off and then things got screwed up from there....we didn't speak for a while, then we were sort of in contact again a month later but through a middle man (my sag friend). Until finally in September of the next year when he told my friend to say "hi" to me for the billionth time, I asked if I could speak to him directly and things FINALLY progressed from there; we started talking again and then he asked me out.

Lucia, you could tell him so if wanted to but you gotta back it up with actions to reassure them too otherwise they'll feel like you double-crossed them or are just playing games. These guys (especially with that moon) NEED reassurance. That's a lesson I learned and won't forget.

Well, that's all for now...I gotta go.

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