posted September 16, 2007 09:58 PM              

maybe some of you like to deal with synastry-charts - and would like to add some thoughts/impressions on the one below? Maybe some of you have experienced similar combinations?

In real life, the major theme of this (mentally) intense relationship are <b>power games</b>. Other factors are:

- longing & detachment
- mental closeness, but also mind games (sometimes evil)
- passion that borders to aggression and competition
- attraction & rejection
- enthusiasm & control
- a seemingly "fated" fascination for each other.

One person tends to act aloof, cold, strict, controlling and behaves like the "dominant" one. The other person tends to feel well desired - but also victimized, controlled, kept on arms' length and played a fool by the other.

I wonder whether you can figure out, who is who in this relationship?

Some of the more compelling conjunctions seem to be:
- U's Vertex conjunct P's NN
- U's Sun & Mercury conjunct P's Lilith
- U's Venus conjunct P's Pluto

I find the cusps of the 1st/7th and 4th/10th houses/axis intruigingly combined, like: P's MC conjunct U's ASC.

And: What do you think of the respective house placements of the planets?

This relationship is <b>draining, mentally and emotionally</b>. And I wonder which factors could contribute to that - and whether there is <b>any hope for improvement?</b>

posted September 16, 2007 10:35 PM              

I suppose any relationship has the potential for improvement, if both people are very intent on making things better... but the synastry does not look good a long-term thing, especially not a stable one based on equality of the partners. A lot of potential for deception, maybe even infidelity.