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capnsag
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posted September 17, 2007 12:11 AM
 
So there is a Sag that I met online; tons of emails, planned a trip, he came out (he's in Texas, I'm in CA)...but he had met someone from his hometown just before. He told me, I was confused/hurt, pulled out my own Sag moon and told him to go for the girl back 'home' and 'our' trip was canceled and sent him back...We stopped contact for about a month, but after dating I found none as clever, funny, and stable (he has a Taurus moon) than he. I emailed him. He writes back. About once every day or every other day. I don't know if he's still seeing her, although it sounded like it in context to a story he told me, but hasn't directly told me if he is or isn't. I think I could be getting feelings for him. I need some insight. Is he just being Sag friendly and writing to me? Do I have a chance with this guy or did I blow it back when I 'sent him on his way' and made up his mind for him who to pursue? How do I 'lure' him, to borrow a phrase from another thread? ????
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BlueTopaz124
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posted September 17, 2007 01:01 AM
He probably likes you too, and your emails, which is why he emails you back. The only way you're going to know if he's seeing someone is to ask him. Just be a friend to him and see where it goes. If nothing else, at least you gained a friend.IP: Logged |
capnsag
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posted September 17, 2007 11:50 AM
Thanks, BlueTopaz. It just seems that Sag's are so friendly to everyone, it doesn't mean much for him to write to me. He's very communicative. When we were 'involved' we would write back and forth more than once a day, AND Im and phone every night!
I just want something more than friendship with him now, in spite of the distance!Any insights to Sag men that would give me an idea? What really attracts Sag men? IP: Logged |
SattvicMoon
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posted September 17, 2007 01:07 PM
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What really attracts Sag men
Sag man with an Aries Moon and a Virgo ASC here...... What attracts me is being natural, and someone who can "communicate" well with my soul. Communication doesn;t mean merely taking or writing, but conveying the thoughts on an emotional level. I like the girl who is independent (in life) and warm (in relation). ------------------
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capnsag
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posted September 17, 2007 02:09 PM
Wow, SattvicMoon, that would be a difficult at this point, since he's involved with someone else. I guess I have to be sincere in my friendship, but really not expect anything else. I can see in a relationship, that emotional discussion and honesty would be appropriate, and I find it incredibly attractive as well. It's pretty rare, these days. Thanks for the input!IP: Logged |
SattvicMoon
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posted September 17, 2007 02:30 PM
My sweetheart has a Leo Sun with a Libran Moon and a Sagittarian ASC. So, perhaps we are complimentary - and it is all circumstantial.------------------
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bodysnatcher
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posted September 20, 2007 03:28 PM
hi capnsag, Sag man moon in Capricorn and Asc in Taurus... as for my two cents i like females who show interest in me personally so he probably writes to you because he knows you are interested in him and Sag guys like to have attention from females at all times even if it is just casual, so keep writing him and see what the chemistry is between the two of you if you do eventually meet up one day and i think that would be the only way to find out for sure.Best of luck to you, i'm still trying to figure out the Aries females and why i'm so attracted to them physically and their personality. Saggitarius's are awesome!! IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
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posted September 25, 2007 11:12 AM
CapnSag...I don't know what to say...except maybe you should be his friend. Sometimes people want to have a backup...and that could be what you are to him. Or in the case of sags...they like thinking in the present...so that's what he's concentrating on.
I also dealt with a sag...double sag to be correct. And yeah he did say all these nice things and came back to my life (read my past posts if you want the full story), and then all of a sudden he gets distant in Aug...and then I notice he's with some other girl on facebook...he wasn't even going to tell me. In that situation I decided I was done. So you just decide what you want from him...if its too much on you then you shouldn't still talk to him...but if you know for a fact that you can deal with him then I say by all means deal with him. But overall I have a feeling that if things don't work out with this girl he'll come back to you. So do you want to be the 2nd option? Best of luck to you...and if you have any questions on what I did...I'll answer them...afterall my situation was exactly like yours IP: Logged |
capnsag
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posted September 25, 2007 08:29 PM
Thanks, bodysnatcher and Grlyglr20! I really love emailing with him and wouldn't want to give it up. I think I have enough Aquarius that I can enjoy it and be friends, even though I know I'd want more, if he did. I think he was trying to make a decision, and was confused when he came out, and wanted to take our bike trip, and after I heard all of the sudden there was 'competition', I'm the one that nixed the trip...if that means anything! But we never discussed being exclusive, well, because we hadn't even met yet! Internet seems to have it's own rules.  How I wish I had been bold enough and sure enought to say, 'We're going on our trip and we're going to have a great time! Forget about her, I'm the one for yoU!' I've dated guys on my Venus, and have been completely infatuated, but the Moon/Mercury are the aspects I seem to need to feel a real connection with and feel nourished by. And that's what I have with this Sag! I guess he'll just be a friend that I'll always be a little bit in love with... IP: Logged |
sVirgo
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posted September 25, 2007 08:51 PM
Here is my input for Sagi's.I also have friendship similar way, I can see him at work, but can not talk in front of other people. So I write him daily, and he responds my emails one or other day or sometimes in a week or so. But he reads everyday, that I am sure because I can see his reactions at work sometimes hidden in his smile. But where friendship is going, no idea, we don't go out. He always has excuse that he is busy, and offcourse he is holding a responsible position. He is the one who started for me and it took him 1 year to make me start speaking with him. Now it is almost 3 years. I am also getting frustrated now and can not write my feelings anymore. Though he will call me at work from other phone and would give excuses that don't be mad at me, I wish I had a life like you. However, I have no idea what he is doing. He likes attention, but then what I too want attention. So many times, I wanted to write here, and receive wise advise. IP: Logged | |
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