posted October 06, 2007 02:49 AM
I've ONLY looked at the 2 dates for the marriage so far, and HAVE NOT, looked at the way each of your charts interacts with those days... And, also, I'm not a professional, and DO NOT, make a living handing out astrological advice.
But, since you asked, I would lean towards the october date..
Primarily, cuz the latter date, has the "heartbreak clash" pulling away from being exact ,therefore, it would theoretically be much weaker in effect than in the first date in which both planets are travelling towards exactness..
Also, from what I've read on the Magi website..the aspects to the Sun(and Earth/moon complex in the helio chart) are the most important in the chart of any event.
On both days,both the Sun, and the Earth/moon complex are barely aspected at all.
So, that MIGHT mean that the marriage (being represented by those 2 planets) might not be able to withstand any "outside" influence.
Again...I want to reiterate...I'm NOT a pro...I ONLY looked at the dates themselves( and NOT the corresponding synastry)
And on that information alone, I would conclude that NEITHER date is very ideal at all, and , if you've got the money, I would try to track down a certified Magi astrologer (via a websearch) and pay him/her to help you find better dates.
But...that's just my opinion, and I could be wrong