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Topic: why this persons rubs me the the wrong way?
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Aquavic
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posted October 05, 2007 02:26 PM
 
Please explain!
I am working with this person. Lots of people think he is very sweet guy, but I just can not stand him. It drives me crazy his urge to partition every possible thing in a world. It goes opposite as well. He thinks I am unrealiable and too emotional. I am not though 
I can not avoid bumping into him no matter where I go or what i do. We work in the same department , on the same project.This is a person planet placements: PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Virgo 5°47'59 in house 8
Moon Leo 10°25'33 in house 7
Mercury Virgo 27°59'02 in house 8
Venus Libra 21°53'46 in house 9
Mars Leo 27°03'08 in house 8
Jupiter Scorpio 2°04'38 end of house 9
Saturn Taurus 22°35'26 in house 4
Uranus Libra 7°06'21 in house 9
Neptune Scorpio 28°13'25 in house 11
Pluto Virgo 26°24'57 in house 8
True Node Pisces 2°49'58 in house 2
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Capricorn 4°25'50
2nd House Aquarius 18°41'18
3rd House Aries 3°08'27
Imum Coeli Taurus 4°42'33
5th House Taurus 27°15'28
6th House Gemini 15°52'57
Descendant Cancer 4°25'50
8th House Leo 18°41'18
9th House Libra 3°08'27
Medium Coeli Scorpio 4°42'33
11th House Scorpio 27°15'28
12th House Sagittarius 15°52'57
My chart
PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Aquarius 21°36'24 in house 3
Moon Aries 22°14'17 in house 5
Mercury Capricorn 26°33'40 in house 2
Venus Aquarius 25°40'32 in house 3
Mars Aries 12°24'19 in house 5
Jupiter Scorpio 5°50'19 in house 12
Saturn Taurus 3°21'30 in house 6
Uranus Libra 8°25'35 in house 10
Neptune Sagittarius 0°46'20 in house 1
Pluto Virgo 26°55'13 in house 10
True Node Pisces 11°57'09 in house 4 HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Scorpio 20°08'08
2nd House Sagittarius 20°39'55
3rd House Aquarius 0°20'10
Imum Coeli Pisces 10°15'19
5th House Aries 10°49'29
6th House Taurus 3°02'23
Descendant Taurus 20°08'08
8th House Gemini 20°39'55
9th House Leo 0°20'10
Medium Coeli Virgo 10°15'19
11th House Libra 10°49'29
12th House Scorpio 3°02'23
Composite:
Composite Horoscope midpoint method PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 28°42'12 in house 12
Moon Gemini 16°19'55 in house 7
Mercury Scorpio 27°16'21 in house 12
Venus Sagittarius 23°47'09 in house 1
Mars Gemini 19°43'43 in house 7
Jupiter Scorpio 3°57'29 end of house 10
Saturn Taurus 12°58'28 in house 5
Uranus Libra 7°45'58 in house 10
Neptune Scorpio 29°29'52 in house 12
Pluto Virgo 26°40'05 in house 9
True Node Pisces 7°23'33 in house 3
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Sagittarius 12°16'59
2nd House Capricorn 19°40'37
3rd House Pisces 1°44'19
Imum Coeli Aries 7°28'56
5th House Taurus 4°02'29
6th House Taurus 24°27'40
Descendant Gemini 12°16'59
8th House Cancer 19°40'37
9th House Virgo 1°44'19
Medium Coeli Libra 7°28'56
11th House Scorpio 4°02'29
12th House Scorpio 24°27'40
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AcousticGod
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posted October 05, 2007 02:43 PM
His chart is much more focused on order. His Sun and Mercury are in Virgo, and they're trine his Capricorn Ascendant. That alone is enough to give an orderly disposition.IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted October 05, 2007 02:57 PM
Yes, I have nothing against "orderly". But his desire to partition e/ting?!.
In addition, his never-ending "?"s about my private life. well.. there is a reason why we call it "private", is not it?He even tried to give me the advices how should I behaive in a relationship, w/out even knowing what is happening in my life.  I guess, I am venting here (my mars and moon in aries) .
I did e/t to distance myself from this guy. I am discussing ONLY work related issues with him. but he always try to give me "life" advices in between work sessions. it is so annoying
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CoralFrequency
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posted October 05, 2007 03:14 PM
This should give you a hint Aries (your moon)
quote:
* LIKES Action
* Coming in first
* Challenges
* Championing Causes
* Spontaneity * DISLIKES Waiting Around
* Admitting Failure
* No opposition
* Tyranny
* Other peoples advice 
Capricorn (his Asc) quote:
* LIKES Reliability
* Professionalism
* Knowing what you discuss
* Firm Foundations
* Purpose * DISLIKES Wild Schemes
* Fantasies
* Go-nowhere jobs
* Ignominy
* Ridicule
They are in squared signs.
Aquarius (your Sun)
quote:
* LIKES Fighting for Causes
* Dreaming and Planning for the Future
* Thinking of the Past
* Good Companions
* Having Fun * DISLIKES Full of Air Promises
* Excessive Loneliness
* The Ordinary
* Imitations
* Idealistic
Virgo (his Sun) quote:
* LIKES Health foods
* Lists
* Hygiene
* Order
* Wholesomeness * DISLIKES Hazards to health
* Anything sordid
* Sloppy workers
* Squalor
* Being uncertain
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Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 03:14 PM
his venus and your moon are in close opposition maybe *post the birthdates* .. looking thru a list is like searching for a needle in a haystack
look at a synastry Grid .. that should provide some clues .. what are the aspects in the composite ??? ..
any particular transits going on in either chart ??? ** In addition, his never-ending "?"s about my private life. well.**
he is a mercury conjunct pluto chart .. potentialy .. he will delve .. investigate .. delve .. investigate ..
untill you've felt like you've been mind raped .. you will have no privacy left ..
mind that you don't give him all the info .. he could well use it against you ..
(i.e. bearing in mind that your not getting along well) also in the synastry .. his pluto conjoins your mercury (his merc at 27 degrees .. his asc at 4 degrees .. that's a huge orb to be labled a trine a.g. ) IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted October 05, 2007 03:28 PM
To happy Dragon,
here is composite chart.
http://groups.msn.com/LindalandPhotoShop/aquavic.msnw?action=ShowPhoto&PhotoID=2039 Thank you all
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Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 03:34 PM
from the above list ..his mars and your venus are at a fairly close square as well
his jupiter and your saturn are also at close square
( wonder if he feels that you are an obstacle to his ambitions )
your saturn and his venus look fairly square as well IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted October 05, 2007 03:51 PM
Well.. it seems like he does not have any issues with me it is just an opposite. (He does not know about my personal dislikes of him) I behave very professional in the office. BUT I do not trust him. He seems very sweet, but I always look at my back "Is the dagger there?". It is so funny, because I am not suspicious person. And I have reputation of very easy going person (in my office) but with him, it is different. I always feel under ¡§his thumb¡¨. He tries to analyze me. He even admitted it. And I hate it.
The problem is it seems like I am stuck working with him till April 2008. And I am afraid if he won¡¦t back away, I will blow out. And believe me my face will not be pretty when it happens ƒ¼
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Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 04:08 PM
re the composite chart pic ..transiting Chiron squares composite Saturn
transiting Uranus squares composite Moon and to some extent composite asc/desc
transiting Pluto squares composite Pluto ( will effect any composite chart between folk of your age group )
( note Pluto squares Venus in the composite and to some extent it squares Mars .. power struggles ?? )
transiting Lillith opposes composite Saturn ( will last about 10 days or so )
transiting Jupiter is opposing composite Moon Uranus is conjunct the MC in the composite .. closely opposed by Chiron at the IC ..
Moon and Mars are fairly close together in the composite .. i.e. conjunct about as much as i can see on that pic for now ..
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ok just saw your last post .. maybe when transiting Jupiter and transiting Lillith have moved on .. things will quieten down .. in the composite that is .. ** I always feel under ¡§his thumb¡¨. He tries to analyze me. He even admitted it. And I hate it. **
well off hand that could be the Pluto/Mercury in the synastry ..
he might try to analyze everything and everyone .. such is the nature of pluto conjunct merc in the natal ..
he could make a good detective or researcher .. or psychologist maybe ..
be just that it can feel rather invasive to other people .. i'll check those natal lists for potential transits ..
any chance of birthdates ??? .. or is that a no no ..
be just that it's soooo much easier to do a chart and let the computer do the work .. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2007 04:14 PM
quote:
(his merc at 27 degrees .. his asc at 4 degrees .. that's a huge orb to be labled a trine a.g. )
Whoops! Yeah, the trine between the Sun and Ascendant were the first things I noticed about his chart, and then I noticed his Mercury was also in Virgo. I think that's why it came out the wrong way. I don't remember looking at his Mercury's degrees. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 04:17 PM
btw: transiting Saturn .. is now conjunct his Sun IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted October 05, 2007 04:29 PM
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Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 04:32 PM
~ AG ~
re:
** Whoops! Yeah, the trine between the Sun and Ascendant were the first things I noticed about his chart, and then I noticed his Mercury was also in Virgo.**
fully understandable .. those degree thangs are not easy to spot in those lists .. i sometimes mistake them for houses .. be just the way they are written i guess .. i find lists very hard to figure .. but that's just me i guess ..but i do reckon the sun trine ascendant in his chart will be a big player in the scenario .. plus his mars in Leo :-)))
i.e. giving the advice business .. ..
cappy sun .. plus the mars in leo bit .. i rekon both are fully capable of giving advice ..
would be natural for him i think .. and given the merc pluto aspect .. he probably knows a lot as well ..
being a natural 'researcher' 'n all .. i think ( maybe wrong .. maybe right ) that synastry offers the best clues as to who rubs who the wrong way .. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 05, 2007 04:45 PM
~ Aquavic ~
** True Node Pisces 11°57'09 **
is that your South Node ?? .. if so it might offer a clue
i.e. pisces being opposite virgo
and transiting saturn aint too far off .. now at 5 degree virgo ..
so your pisces node won't be too far off opposing his natal sun ..
be some node info in here .. i.e. links ..
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/audiofls.html ~IP: Logged |
mars446
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posted October 05, 2007 10:13 PM
Although the planets are in different signs, but looking at both of ur charts- most of ur planets have the same element.I guess you might not stand a part of urself that ur not aware of? It's just a thought. IP: Logged |
etheric distortion
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posted October 07, 2007 01:38 AM
your saturn squares his jupiter..Perhaps he feels somewhat stifled (your saturn) in his attempts to expand (his jupiter) into your worldhis saturn is square your sun...Which may make you feel like he is trying to control(saturn) you (sun).... you said : " I feel like I'm always under his thumb" I personally would think these 2 aspects would explain a lot of the (perhaps a little bit mutual) repulsion you feel. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted October 07, 2007 09:57 AM
~ etheric distortion ~ 
** his saturn is square your sun **
well spotted .. could kick myself for having missed that one ..
reckon i'll just give 'lists' a miss from now on IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted October 08, 2007 09:38 AM
wow,
yes, my North Node is in Pieces and My SOUTH Node is in Virgo.
And he is Virgo!
and yes, you are right his Saturn squire my Sun. That's why I feel so restricted next to him.
Thank you all !!!
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