posted October 14, 2007 06:07 AM              

From cafe astrology:

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She can face conflicts in life due to a projection of character that doesn't match what is on the inside. Misrepresentation of the self is frequent. She must strive to understand how others perceive her and work on presenting a more accurate persona to the world, or she will rub people the wrong way or feel unrecognized and misunderstood.

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posted October 14, 2007 05:53 PM            

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But I actually do feel that compensating for Sag with my Gem AC is inadequate and unfulfilling.

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Yeah, same here re: my Cap Asc/ Cancer sun kind of because Cap kind of represses emotional expression and is paternal while the cancer is maternal and wears emotions on sleeves. So when I only portray Cap, I feel unsatisfied with the world and everyone as a result. But then when I loose control emotionally during something tragic and the emotional cancer sun shows itself, I feel like a moron afterwards and become Cap again. I mean, I am pretty moody but definitely NOT that emotionally expressive to the point that I cry at the drop of a hat....even when I want to.

Goshhh, when will this unbalance end?!!!!

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I was wondering if any of you have great marriages/partnerships or is married to someone prominent or wealthy. (7th house sun)

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posted October 15, 2007 07:16 PM              

I do notice when my boundaries are crossed, and I have no guilt about making money which was a huge problem when I was younger.

Now I attract tons of people and make money off them with no qualms. Anything I do with people makes me happy and produces, however I have to remember everyday that I am the consumer and I am not there to serve others.

At one point in my life I rewrote myself-rewriting my life plan and cutting everyone I knew out in order to start over.

I've had to do this several times at the end of relationships.

I do not become rich through romantic relationships but then again I don't do well in them as well as friendships. That is because the 7th is ruled by Gemini. I'm not lighthearted by nature so I need to have positive energy all the time.

I did attract wealthy partners at first now I attract those with more friends than money.

As for my mother she had a very tough time of it, and needed to work through many issues with money as she did not benefit in her marriage except through her children.

Which was tough because I left for years.
She did benefit through her parents and friends, and I the same as I will inherit.

My "life" partners do produce wealth for me but they were not necessarily romantic partners. They usually wanted to feel good about themselves.

I feel too much pressure for now to be in a romantic relationship full-time.

I do attract those who want to change me and at one time I changed my hair colour several times. I am much happier when I write my own destiny but it's a struggle. Poeple around me seem to be so down on themselves.

What I tell my mother is what I tell myself is to surround yourself with happy people no matter what, it's critical to be secure about your own identity.

Her sun is in Scorpio opposite her Gemini Ascendant, my Sun is Taurus opposite Sag Ascendant so we are involved in the same things but we fight too.

I do not believe having Sun opposite Ascendant is the same as having many planets in the 7th, it's not partner oriented. It's more losing yourself in a role, what others expect.