posted November 05, 2007 01:27 AM              

I'm wondering because I think I've always had the tendency but it was mostly underlying until recently, like maybe the last year or so.

posted November 05, 2007 01:35 AM              

Stress Triggers by Sign
Keep your composure with these tips for avoiding anxiety
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by Simone Butler

With the rapid pace of modern life, stress is a given. Unless you've reached nirvana and left the cares of the world behind, you're bound to get tense from time to time. Some things are universal stressors: ill health, financial problems, and traffic jams when you're already late. However, what bothers a Gemini (everyone else is so slow!) is quite different from what gets to a Virgo who's trying to fix everything, or a Cancer who's struggling to feel safe. What stresses you out the most, and what can you do about it?

Aries (March 21 - April 19)
You count on your dynamic Ram energy to get you through the day, and feel vulnerable when it runs out. Especially when you're down or ill, you feel overwhelmed and stress about all the tasks you can't accomplish. You're used to playing Superman or Superwoman, and forget to take time off and be a lazy slug. Be religious about setting aside at least one full day a week to play or do nothing. Life will continue without you!

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
More than anything else, Taurus, you want to be seen as competent. That's why you take your time to do things right. When a difficult task looms, you fear you won't have enough time to do it properly and might mess it up. As a peacemaker, you also stress when you've hurt someone's feelings or can't resolve a dispute. Fall back on your infallible instincts and trust that your true worth and honesty will ultimately prevail.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
You don't suffer fools gladly, Gemini. When the car in front of you pulls a bone-headed move in traffic, your stress-o-meter hits the roof. And, little things get to you -- like words being mispronounced or misspelled. You're apt to blow a gasket dealing with slow or stubborn people, where you feel like you're talking to a wall. You need regular activities that calm your overactive mind, like yoga or throwing pots in a ceramics class.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Not feeling safe is a sure ticket to stress for you. The Crab puts up a front that makes you seem tougher than you really are; as a result, others don't realize how deeply you're affected by criticism, angry outbursts or being ignored. You often swallow your feelings -- it's vital to let people know what you need instead of retreating into your shell and nursing a stress-related ulcer. Breathe into your belly: your true security lies there.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Any situation where you're not in control and don't know what to do is your stress trigger, Leo. A computer breakdown can send you from zero to freak-out in no time flat. Not being able to find something you've lost could also fry your circuits. Even falling in love can fill you with raging hormones and vulnerabilities that turn your kingly or queenly self into an insecure child. Let go and accept what is: you'll be much happier.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
You think too much, Virgo -- which accounts for your greatest stress. Just the thought of attempting something new and unfamiliar can tie you in knots, but once you're actually doing it, you're fine. Making lists will help. You also stress when someone you love is struggling or in pain. Rather than trying to fix things for others, utilize your powerful visualization skills to imagine a positive outcome -- then trust that all is well.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Not being treated fairly is hugely stressful for you, Libra. You'll spend hours weighing the pros and cons of confronting someone and make yourself sick. Rather than seething in silence or overreacting defensively, respond calmly in the moment. Keep it short and sweet -- no long-winded speeches or accusations. You'll get better results once people know where you stand. An uncluttered environment will also keep you serene.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Others don't realize how sensitive you are, Scorpio, because you hide it well. Yours is a quiet strength -- so loud yelling and noise in general can quickly stress you out. You also feel tense and nervous when you don't get enough privacy. Deadlines are another source of stress for you: you'd rather take your time than rush to finish things. Be sure people know your needs and boundaries so you can negotiate what works for all.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
You're all about movement, Sagittarius, so sitting in traffic is your personal hell. You're also not big on formal events or business meetings where you have to act properly and "behave." Any situation that reins you in, like a partner pressuring you for a commitment or a boss demanding you punch a time clock, can trigger stress. Make sure you get enough time outdoors to feed your restless spirit so you won't feel so constrained.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
You demand a lot from yourself, Capricorn. And, you feel pressured when you fail to live up to your high expectations. You can end up going over the "what ifs" or "if onlys" of life 'til you're all lathered up, asking questions that can't be answered or longing for what you can't have. The remedy is to live in the moment, the only place where joy can be found. And, be sure there's plenty of time to relax in your hectic day.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Though "live and let live" is your motto, Aquarius, you really like to have your way. You get frustrated when you can't justify doing what you want without a good reason. Nor can you abide people who try to bend your will to theirs. Already high-strung, you become stressed by the pressures of time, and often feel there's not enough of it. Yet ironically, by slowing down you'll actually get more done and feel more relaxed.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
You're a very private person, Pisces, so public speaking or other situations in which you feel exposed can be stressful. Subtlety is your strong suit; you feel unnerved by loud music and crass people. And, you get nervous or even sick because you don't know how to shield yourself from invasions. Adopt the attitude "This too shall pass," and be sure you're getting plenty of time alone to process your emotions and clear your slate.

posted November 05, 2007 01:38 AM              

http://www.astrostarcharts.com/lunarstresscycles.html

The LUNAR Stress Cycle
and Your Emotions
by Laurance Pearsongreer

An older name for the Earth's pristine satellite is LUNA: The moon goddess of prehistoric LEGEND.

The goddess has been a strong influence in the mythos of all antiquarian cultures springing up in the fertile soil of our planet. Such cultures unanimously recognized The PROFOUND EMOTIONAL EFFECT that phases of the moon exert upon human beings , just as it affects sprouting beans, menstruation, and the ocean's tides, etc., lunar phases routinely AFFECT the MANIC-DEPRESSIVE SWINGS of the MENTALLY UNSTABLE.

Such Stress, Induced by the moon, has been called LUNACY.

Such stresses affect us all.

Each of us is born under some lunar stress period.

Look to your Horoscope. The position of your birth moon relative to your birth sun (when traveleing counter-clock-wise around the birth chart) can show you the number of degrees ahead or behind the sun that the moon was in your Horoscope. that position will fall within one of the traditional moon phases:

SUN/MOON CONJUNCT= 0° APART NEW MOON PHASE

(THE MOON IS MOVING AHEAD OF THE SUN COUNTER-CLOCK-WISE )

SUN/MOON SEMI-SQUARE= 45° APART CRESCENT MOON PHASE

SUN/MOON SQUARE= 90° APART FIRST QUARTER MOON PHASE

SUN/MOON SQUARE+SEMI-SQUARE= 135° GIBBOUS MOON PHASE

SUN/ MOON IN OPPOSITION= 180° FULL MOON PHASE

(THE MOON IS STILL MOVING COUNTER-CLOCK-WISE BUT IS COMING UP FROM BEHIND THE SUN NOW )

SUN/MOON 135° APART= DISSEMINATING MOON PHASE

SUN/MOON 90° APART= LAST QUARTER MOON PHASE

SUN/MOON 45° APART= BALSAMIC MOON PHASE

AND THEN A RETURN TO THE 0° NEW MOON PHASE, AND THE CYCLE STARTS ALL OVER AGAIN.

THE PART OF FORTUNE ON YOUR CHART INDICATES THE CHARACTER TRAITS THAT SHOULD BE EMPHASIZED BY YOU DURING THE LUNAR STRESS PHASE THAT YOU WERE BORN UNDER.

EMPHASIZING THESE POSITIVE TRAITS WILL RELIEVE YOU OF THAT LUNAR STRESS. Unfortunately, many people work on what they incorrectly assume to be their productive character areas.

These MOON PHASES ELICIT these REACTIONS from the PEOPLE BORN UNDER THAT PARTICULAR MOON PHASE:

NEW MOON PHASE: Impulsive activity with no thought of consequences.

CRESCENT PHASE: Internal struggle due to the repeating of events and the re-meeting of old enemies from previous lifetimes and/or this lifetime which must be resolved. They are given assistance from old friends from previous lifetimes and/or this lifetime.

FIRST QUARTER PHASE: Are outwardly blocked by people and events in order to push them onto the correct pathway.

GIBBOUS PHASE: Desire to study and analyze because of a need to find a pathway which will develop soul growth.

FULL MOON PHASE: Difficulties in relationships with others. Must learn to think before they speak.

DISSEMINATING PHASE: Sharing with others what they have found to be meaningful. LAST QUARTER PHASE: Internal crisis regarding their identity caused by constant difficulties in their life. This promotes a reorientation of out-moded thinking.

BALSAMIC PHASE: Learning to share their personal resources with others in order to be of benefit others.

THE MOON ORBITS THE EARTH EVERY 27.3 DAYS, THUS IT CREATES ALL OF IT'S ASPECTS TO THE SUN FROM NEW MOON TO FULL TO NEW MOON ( A CYCLE OF 360 DEGREES ) IN 27.3 DAYS

360° ¸ 27.3 DAYS = 13.19° PER DAY SINCE YOUR STRESS- MOON ( the moment of your birth ), OCCURRED AT__________degrees after__ or before__THE NEW MOON,--THE PEAK INFLUENCE OF THE STRESS- MOON WILL BE FELT BY YOU AT APPROXIMATELY__________DAYS PAST THE NEW MOON EACH MONTH.

Astrology article by:
Laurance Pearsongreer
Larpearson@aol.com
Writing Paranormal/Speculative/Histories and Mystical/Science Fiction
Such as: Through the NECROMANTEUM: Project FAR-REACH and Soul Traveler
Homepage: http://get-me.to/soultraveler
Article reprinted with permission by author.

posted November 05, 2007 01:46 AM              

Avoiding Family Stress by Sign
How to navigate summer get-togethers
By Stephanie Dempsey
Provided by Tarot.com

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Get the Best Times Now Family get-togethers can be anything but tranquil. If you're worried that some nagging relative will ruin your good time, develop some coping strategies now. Being prepared is half the battle. Different signs have different hot buttons, so check out the following tips on avoiding your own particular stressors.

Aries (March 21 to April 19)
For such an accomplished sign, your family sure can be critical! That's because, despite all of your achievements, you still manage to avoid drudge work. Some of your relatives may think that until you assume boring responsibilities, you'll never get ahead. Of course, your experience has been much different -- you've always had the greatest success with daring ventures. The next time a relative starts nagging you about buckling down, channel your frustration into a vigorous physical activity, like jogging, swimming or tennis. Exercise is the ultimate stress-buster for you Rams.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
"Why can't you be more flexible?" despairing relatives always ask when it comes to choosing a restaurant, movie or any other group activity. The answer is simple -- you have very definite tastes. You're not about to spend your hard-earned money on a meal you won't eat or film you can't bear. The pressure to compromise can wear heavily on you, because it feels like you're pretending to be someone you're not when going along with the crowd. The best way to avoid the stress of conforming is to self-pamper. Every time you defer to your family's choice, reward yourself with a spa treatment or gourmet meal.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
As a Gemini, you like to keep conversations light, bright and bubbly, especially at family gatherings. You avoid taboo or depressing subjects like the plague, feeling that these topics will only drag your loved ones down. This can create stress for you, since there will be times when you need to discuss troubling situations. Keeping your feelings bottled up inside can take a serious toll on your emotional health. The key to discussing your hopes, fears and anxieties is to choose a suitable confidante. Pick a relative who is famous for their ability to keep secrets.

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Aries Taurus Gemini Cancer Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Cancer (June 21 to July 22)
No wonder you Crabs are so self-contained … you're born with a hard, protective shell! And while you may appear to be impervious to criticism, you're actually quite sensitive to it. If there's anything you can't stand, it's when your relatives tell you what you should be thinking, doing and striving for. As far as you're concerned, that's nobody's business but your own. And you know what? You're right! The key to avoiding unsolicited advice is to state your opposition to it, loudly and forcefully. If you stand firm, your tormentors -- er, family -- will soon get the message.

Leo (July 23 to Aug. 22)
You Lions understand that you're the kings and queens of the forest. The problem is, not all the other members of your tribe agree with you! You loathe being bossed around, but when you're back in the bosom of your family, certain relatives try pulling rank on you. The next time a family member tries to steal your crown, give a warning roar. This can be difficult for you, because you have such strong affection for your relatives. However, until you remind your folks that you're an adult who is capable of making their own decisions, you'll remain seated at the kiddie table. Bolster your case by establishing your financial independence -- don't ask for loans or accept expensive gifts that have strings attached to them.

Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)
Everlastingly polite, your nearest and dearest would probably be shocked to hear your inner monologue. That's because it consists of grumbling like, "I wish everybody would stop bugging me about scrubbing the plates before I put them in the dishwasher -- so what if I like things clean?" The best way to protect yourself against such barbs is to stay out of the kitchen. Let everybody clean up their own messes -- it's the only way they'll appreciate having a neat freak in the clan! If relatives continue to tease you about your fastidious ways, lay down this simple ground rule: I won't complain about your methods, so you shouldn't laugh at mine. As always, pouring your frustrations into a diary or journal is a tremendous stress-buster for you.
Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces
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Get the Best Times Now Libra (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22)
You Librans have the gift of knowing how to relax. You're not about to use your precious vacation cleaning out the pantry or waxing your car. Unfortunately, certain type-A relatives take umbrage at your so-called lazy attitude, and may try to goad you into forgoing your afternoon nap for the sake of color-coordinating your sock drawer. If you don't want your summer spoiled by nagging, make your desire for rest known from the outset. Encourage people to pursue their pet projects at their leisure, instead of yours. While you're at it, form an alliance with other family members who share your desire for fun in the Sun. You always feel more confident when you're not the lone voice of reason.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21)
Family is always an interesting challenge for you, Scorpio. There's a good chance you feel like there was some ghastly mix-up at the hospital when you were born, and that you went home with the wrong people. How else can you explain the extreme difference between you and your relatives? You can't comprehend their tastes, and they are equally baffled by your interests. The next time you get grief for wanting to watch an investigative report on the bacteria in your food instead of a rerun of 'The Simple Life,' resist the temptation to make a scathing comment. Instead, channel your sentiments into a darkly comic novel or screenplay. If anybody's family is rich with material, Scorpio, it's yours!

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21)
One of the most delightful things about you Archers is your refusal to stand on ceremony. Unfortunately, some of your relatives don't appreciate your free-wheeling style. These are the folks who are always nagging you to comb your hair before you go jogging or eat a hot dog with a knife and fork. It's important to realize that in these situations, the problem rests with them, not you. Have a few jokes prepared to rebut their pleas for propriety. Humor has always been one of your best weapons against stress. You can also ease these relationships by asking etiquette sticklers for help with socially awkward situations. That way, your folks won't feel like you're always trying to be a wise guy … or gal, as the case may be.

Pisces Capricorn (Dec. 22 to Jan. 19)
Is there anything more annoying than a relative who tells you to lighten up, Capricorn? As far as these folks are concerned, your insistence on facing facts isn't an asset -- it's a liability. Meanwhile, you're bewildered by your family's ability to pretend as though life is just a bowl of cherries, without any of those nasty pits. When it comes right down to it, you're just going to have to agree to disagree with these folks. In the meantime, find a productive outlet for your frustrations. Working with your hands has always given you comfort. Taking up a simple hobby like wood carving, knitting or pottery will make you feel as though you're making good use of your time, like the ant who spent all summer gathering food. Leave the crickets to their own devices when it's time to come in from the cold!

Aquarius (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18)
"Why can't you be like everybody else?" your relatives groan when you show up to a black-tie function in a purple jump suit. The answer is simple … you're an Aquarius! Your mission in life is to challenge the status quo. Unfortunately, your need to challenge authority doesn't sit well with relatives who cling to convention. And while you pretend not to care about these people's opinions, their comments can actually be quite hurtful at times. Instead of being praised for your originality, you're castigated for being a freak. The best way to avoid this kind of stress is to express interest in your relatives' unique abilities and interests. The more you praise their inventiveness, the less they'll be threatened by your individuality. It's a crafty strategy, but an effective one.

Pisces (Feb. 19 to March 20)
You're extremely sensitive to your environment, Pisces, so it's especially important for you to have some stress-relieving strategies for family gatherings. This is where your prodigious imagination can come in handy. The next time a family member makes an insensitive remark, pretend as though they're making it about themselves. This revealing exercise will give you added insight to that relative's character. Quite often, people project their own problems onto other people. By keeping this little nugget of wisdom in mind, you'll be able to withstand the pressures of family life that would ordinarily wear on your psyche. When you're no longer able to shield yourself from insensitive remarks, take a bath or a shower. Water always has a therapeutic effect on you.

About the Author
Stephanie Dempsey is an accomplished author, Feng Shui practitioner and astrologer. She has contributed to several New Age titles, including "Your Birthday Sign through Time: A Chronicle of the Forces that Shape Your Destiny" and the upcoming "Love Signs and You: The Ultimate Astrological Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships." She holds a degree in Feng Shui from the Mountain Institute of Tribeca in New York City.

posted November 05, 2007 04:02 PM              

Oh, and when ever I'm in traffic that how i am belive it or not.