posted November 13, 2007 11:44 AM            

Lol! Nah!

Well affection itself varies from individual to individual. Remember that familiarity can totally work against ya in the long run Lol! So my personal rule of thumbs; Give your loved one enough of you for them to know that you are indeed flesh and blood, but keep away those precious talents you have and pop them up from time to time just to surprise your lover ; May it be your talents in the kitchen, With a paintbush, or in particular... in the bedroom.

Though again, one has to give enough in the bedroom to make a VERY good first impression. Hate to say it guys but Sex is definitely your audition for the main act. For that one night, you are gonna leave a lasting impression about yourself on your lover and well... nervousness usually gets the better of some guys.

IMHO, one can not go wrong if one concentrates on pleasing the gal alone (even if you want to limit it to just the first couple of nights.) Me personally... I am more of a giver then a taker. I mean, how can one resist exploring a woman's body? LOL! Its wayyy too beautiful. Its ironic that more and more girls these days are completely unsatisfied in their relationships just because their partner just won't satisfy their needs.