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writesomething
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posted November 13, 2007 02:46 AM
 
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aqua inferno
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posted November 13, 2007 06:23 AM
Don't be offended. My friend(aqua) was over at my house...she got a text from a good mate asking how she was - her reply was "I don't have much credit"Whenever I text her she will reply once ONLY cause we're so close - but it depends on her Mood. Unlike my Gem friend who floods my phone with her texts   I think they[aquas] prefer face to face contact, where they can observe you under a microscope IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted November 13, 2007 11:17 AM
I am Aqua  . and yes, I have a "replying" problem. But let me clarify , it is NOT because I want to ignore, but rather, "I DO NOT KNOW what to SAY or WRITE" So I won't reply for a while ( couple of days) Then... if I feel like it, I will.
Sometimes, it does bother me, though.
PS: AquaInferno, you are right! I prefer face to face contact.
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Tigerlily
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posted November 13, 2007 11:42 AM
Instead of giving him the cold shoulder perhaps the more mature response would be for you to confront him and tell him "When I send a text to someone I appreciate a reply." We often have to teach people how to treat us...but they need instructions.IP: Logged |
lmj515
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posted November 13, 2007 02:16 PM
Haha, this is such a funny thread. I didnt know other aquas were the same. I do exactly the same thing everyday. It because unless i reply to a txt with in a minute of recieving it i forget and have gotten side tracked. I wouldnt worry to much about it.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted November 13, 2007 02:19 PM
Writesomething come on this is not the first Aqua guy that you have been interested in. You know what to do.. IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes
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posted November 13, 2007 02:26 PM
I agree on so many levels. I'm aqua, I hate HATE HATE text messaging. I particularly hate text "flirting". Drives me crazy. I detest when boys text me cutesy stuff... I completely ignore it. Hell, I even hate phone calls. I rarely, if ever, return phone calls (takes a few threats from the caller)...and I never check my voicemails. I can go days without using my cell! I think aquas are more social people... face to face interaction. They might like their technology for research and communication, but certainly not as a social tool. ------------------
*Christina*
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writesomething
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posted November 13, 2007 02:38 PM
i think you guys are missing the point, we were suppose to hang out that night. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted November 13, 2007 02:43 PM
Could have been a few things going on with this..He could have just been doing the flaky thing that they are so known for, or he could have been testing you or maybe he simply forgot as they are known for that too..You should have just brought it to him in a mature tactful way thats all..Remember the way you start out will be the way that it ends.. IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted November 13, 2007 03:33 PM
To WRITESOMETINGIs there a possibility that he did not get a text message?
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writesomething
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posted November 13, 2007 04:08 PM
I sent 2 texts, even if he didnt read it that night, he could of at least texted me or called to say sorry for not responding sooner(but Im pretty sure he got them)...or at least explaining what happened. I dont know, it just annoys me. I know he worked late, I know he was at work, we had plans, I like the courtesy of letting me know whats up, or at least a sorry afterwards. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted November 13, 2007 04:18 PM
Sounds like he needs training, Aqua or not..IP: Logged |
Astralmuse
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posted November 13, 2007 04:29 PM
Ignoring an Aquarius is rather vague... If you were to ignore an Aquarius with a Leo Moon or Ascendant, then, yes, an "ignoring act" would bother them. quote:
he said hey whats up, like nothing was wrong, i just kept my head turned and acted like i didnt hear him
Maybe that was the moment he would have explained what happened. Maybe he had a family emergency, in which case you can't reasonably blame him for not texting.... But if you are putting on an ignoring act, you won't know what's really going on. quote:
i made it clear I wanted a frienship ONLY, nothing serious
Perhaps that was off-putting to him? Even if he was seemingly agreeable to that, maybe he's truly looking for "something more," in which case he wouldn't be texting you. There aren't many people who would honestly respond to "I only want friendship here" with "Uh, not me." Just to be clear, I don't think you should sacrifice any personal integrity - you deserve a response about plans, etc. But if this guy isn't into texting, or something happened that prevented him from following up with you then it might behoove you to talk to him about it. Right now, you are feigning disinterest, and for all you know he is interested. Also, should you talk to him - get his information so you know more than just his sun sign! lol IP: Logged |
writesomething
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posted November 13, 2007 04:32 PM
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Mama Mia
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posted November 13, 2007 04:41 PM
Im confused..If he does not want a relationship and you don't want one and he is to immature for you, whats the big deal. His actions should be expected. Plus Venus in Sag is so flaky, I would not worry about it I would not even try to hang out with him unless he showed up at my door..And if your just friends then it does not matter..I don't think he meant any harm he is just being who he is..IP: Logged |
Aquavic
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posted November 13, 2007 04:44 PM
To Mama Mia,
Exactly!!
To WriteSometing!
You can always find another more considerate person to hang out. IP: Logged |
aqua inferno
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posted November 13, 2007 05:20 PM
oooh he did a no show!! That's really rude of him! I don't think that's an aqua trait.
Forget him, not worth it.IP: Logged |
Vintry
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posted November 13, 2007 05:55 PM
He's just stupid!How can he ignore you just like that? It's rude, desrespectful and immature. Too bad for him, who would want to hang out with someone like him? And those are Aries negative traits, not Aqua for sure. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted November 14, 2007 09:38 AM
"And those are Aries negative traits, not Aqua for sure"Yes I agree...tossed in there that Venus in Sag.. IP: Logged |
Dani California
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posted November 14, 2007 10:03 AM
Ah yes, I know an Aqua male, aqua moon with Libra rising and he does this whole ignoring texts thing and not replying............I dunno what the game is with that!!Like you say, your better than that and at least deserve a reply  I think its just plain rude. They wouldn't like it. IP: Logged |
RainbowDay
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posted November 14, 2007 10:37 AM
This is pretty interessting. About the not replying to messages thing, I do that too. But I ALAWAYS show up when I've already agreed to meet someone. And I'm not late either. If something comes up I always call. (has to be something serious then. When my aunt died, I seriously considered still meeting with my friend.) You really should confront him with it though. He may have an explanation.The messages he may not have got, and maybe he mistook the day, I know it's happened to me. Just don't have an emotional outbreak, or he may not take you seriously or respect you. Tell him it's common politeness to warn the other person when you have to cancel a meeting, and answer messages. To be honest, he may not even have noticed your cold shoulder. IP: Logged |
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