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Alecto
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posted November 13, 2007 09:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thoughts thoughts thoughts thinking.....
when someone seems to have a distinc split between how they are sexualy and how they are as a person...
that is.... they have a light hearted, bubbly innocent personality, but sexualy they like submissive partners(sexualy, not so much in other areas), are dominant agressive and a bit on the dark side...

this looks to be such a oxymoron

this being a girlfriend of mine I really want to understand this.
She tells me that she often feels disturbed after being with her boyfriend like she's taking advantage of him, and that it takes some time to slip back into her regular personality and the transition is also unsettling.
I can't imagine how she deals with this as she and her boyfriend go at it like rabbits.

I don't have her birth info, but would love your thoughts and opinions on how this might manifest in a chart. and what could help her with this.

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Waterlily
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posted November 13, 2007 12:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not an astrology master or anything here but in my experience people change when they are passionate about something and i think we can agree that sex can get pretty passionate. A timed virgo woman can become a sexy dominatrix with an aspect like mars in aries.

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Alecto
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posted November 13, 2007 03:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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SexyScorp103
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posted November 13, 2007 06:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW, that girl sounds like me. I have a Cancer Asc and my moon and venus are in the fourth house; im very motherly and sensitive to those around me - especially a significant other. My sun is in scorpio in the fifth house though and with my cancer asc it makes me very energetic, jovial, bubbly.. so I get the best of both worlds!..I get along with literally everyone! My pluto is also conjunct my sun is scorp making me even more passionate and it shows a lot in my enthusiasm and optimism, specially to those who don't know me. Here's where the "imbalance" comes in; i have Venus in Libra (4th) and Mars in Aries (10) making me very passive- aggresive. Naturally im a great actress, but with these aspects and placements a lot of the time i feel like the act IS me. I can relate it very much to the sexual part of it especially. It's very tough to balance the wants of the heart, body and mind. SO many of my friends are stunned when they discover (which most dont) what kind of erotica I enjoy etc, they dont believe that its really me - and sometimes I dont either...
Sigh, the balance im still working on.. i would hope that it ceases a little with age =)

hope that helps =)

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aqua inferno
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posted November 13, 2007 06:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's soooo weird! My first thought is they were sexually repressed growing up, so now it comes out with a vengeance

I have V&M conj in aries - but my sun(pisces) dominates in the bedroom. The only aries thing about me in this area is impatience

btw that girl is totally like that red head from American Pie

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SexyScorp103
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posted November 13, 2007 06:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol Aqua!

and the thought about being "sexually repressed" is very true

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