posted November 13, 2007 02:15 PM
hi again well you only have one quincunx in your chart but it sounds like it could relate to what you are talking about. what do you think?
Venus quincunx Jupiter
The inconjunct of Venus to Jupiter shows that you overreact in making adjustments to other people's expectations. Because you are insufficiently aware of your own needs, you generously offer to serve the needs of others. But people are inclined to take advantage of your generosity to the point of abusing it. You aren't at all selective in choosing those to whom you submit, which invites all kinds of problems. Evidently, you were trained in the early years to take an inferior position to others. Perhaps you were told 'Honest work never hurt anyone', even if the people you were helping could take care of themselves. This could make you bitter for all your efforts, which bring so little benefit to yourself. It's one thing to be accommodating, but being a doormat is something else.
There are many occupational functions you can do well. This planetary combination does not of itself give a specific talent, but it does enable you to take on enormous responsibilities and succeed in carrying them out. You adapt to job demands easily, adjusting your personal circumstances as necessary. You are not likely to gain full recognition for all the work you either do yourself or assign to others. Because you underestimate your capabilities, you may be victimized by fellow employees who could take your ideas and use them for their own benefit.
You tend to exaggerate the expectations of your boss and co-workers, and quickly rise to prove your worth in their estimation. You labor under assumed challenges that may never materialize, and fear competitors who never existed. You respond to the goals you've established for yourself in a particular way, and it is difficult to persuade you to think otherwise. By taking yourself too seriously, you impede your progress. You care projects that are destined to fail because of your impossible expectations.
In general, you are defensive in your relationships with people, even those for whom you feel affection. You tend to project a meek and inadequate image in hopes of gaining their indulgence. You are often victimized and exploited in your romantic affairs, and may do all kinds of favors for someone who has no genuine affection for you. You so want approval that you submit to gross indignities, only to realize later that you've been taken.
Most of your physical problems have their origin in your mental attituds. Your weariness may be mental exhaustion from trying so hard to be desired by others. You need to take a more optimistic attitude in order to protect yourself in your relationships with others. Your greatest priority should be to maintain your self-respect by refusing to be used by others.
from astrologyweekly.com