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dream believer
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posted November 22, 2007 08:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been following the Magi threads with great excitement but that has been dimmed when I just found out that from next April till dec 09 I have Saturn square Chiron. That's nearly 2 years! Add that to my two years of Saturn sq Neptune also till Dec 09 not to mention pluto sq pluto and it seems all i ever get is bad transits. I feel so depressed now, particularly about my lovelife (or lack of) cos Im tired of being lonely. I cant take any more heartbreak. Astrology is just not worth it because now I cannot feel any optimism and have lost my faith completely. My ex treated me like dirt but all he ever gets are good transits. Do some people deserve this and if so, how can I minimise the anguish and find something positive? Help please..

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patisserie
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posted November 22, 2007 08:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When it comes to Transits and times when things seem bad, this is what I always think: I think it's time for me to WORK. Time for me to go inside of myself and keep myself busy. Exercise my willpower, Get to KNOW what I want from people, from myself, and how to accomplish it so I don't have to face disappointments ever again. If I don't WORK on it, then I am SET for failure.

It's as simple as that. I think Life just asks you to try to solve a problem once, and then that's it. If you solve it, then you probably won't have to deal it with again -- at least, not as hard as it first used to be.

Nature tends to circle itself in ways that suits best for us. Perhaps we have played too much and did not work enough. Then Saturn comes up and gets us all scared and gloomy. But Saturn is just asking us to be serious and do a little construction for ourselves. To be structure in our lives so we won't have to deal with hardships we cannot control. When love related problems comes, it's asking us How Can I Deepen This Love Aspect In My Life? Is it superficial? Do I think this relationship is GOOD for me? etc.

Everything happens for a reason, if things seem "OFF" or just plain bad, there is absolutely a chance to make it better. I know this because I always look for it. I look for a solution. You can minimise so much pain and anguish if you keep yourself reasonable and that resisting or cowering could only make you falter.

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darkdreamer
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posted November 22, 2007 08:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don`t worry about those transits. And don`t take the Magi-astrology so literally.
Even with a Heartbreak-clash going on there must be some happiness somewhere.


I myself am having some Saturn-transits right now. Transit Saturn square my Mars, ASC, NN and Neptune (how is that?) and it will be quinkunx my Chiron somewhen in the future; it`s also trine my Venus.
Pluto just leaving the conjunction with my Sun and Mercury. Neptune still conjunct my Moon.

But I`m still here. Actually I wouldn`t want to miss those last months for nothing in this world. They have been very exciting, exhausting and painful, and yet very rewarding.

And this Transit of Saturn to Venus and Mars? Well, everytime I have this one it seems I`m stuck in work, really huge amounts of work, and Venus rules my 6th and 10th house.

But the thing is it almost feels like Tr-Saturn doesn`t only demand that work from me, but also gives me the ability to cope. Only if I concentrate and work very hard, of course, but if I do this, then I somehow cope, and I don`t even know how I`m doing this.

Besides there will almost ALWAYS be a difficult transit, be it from Saturn or Uranus or Neptune or Pluto. You can`t escape them. But you can use them to work on yourself, your outside and inside life.

DD


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dream believer
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posted November 23, 2007 05:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the encouragement- I will try hard to live in the moment and to learn the lessons I need to. I am going to concentrate on my career for a while and try to be happily single (difficult for a libra gal!) and yes, I am sure there will be smiles along the way..thank you x

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