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Topic: Has this ever happened to you?
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BLKFox unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 04:47 AM
--When you first met, you didn't even like him or her...you got to know the person a little, then you became totally obsessed with him or her?? ---Then you found out the two of you had all this astrological stuff going between you I wonder why the attracted wasn't clear from the start?IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 23, 2007 05:00 AM
This sort of thing happens a lot with friends to me. I'll think they are not my sort of person and then get to know them.. and realize I actually really like them.It hasn't happened with a guy though. Whenever I've been attracted to a guy it was there from the start - but love grows on me gradually.. It might be an Ascendant thing. Maybe his Ascendant was something that didn't draw your attention at all.. or had a negative impact initially - Then, as you got to know him - you saw other sides and felt attracted. IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 05:16 AM
Coral, we both have Libra rising suns in Libra (me) & TaurusIP: Logged |
Hermes28 unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 05:23 AM
This happens to me with friends also.There was a guy I couldn't stand, thought he was a nasty personality. Came to find out we had the same sun and moon sign. Out dads had the same sun, moms had the same sun too. And we were both closer to dad than mom. We became good friends. IP: Logged |
darkdreamer unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 05:58 AM
It happens to me quite often.But in my case it`s some sort of, mmph, selfdenial, I guess. I think the attraction may be there from the very beginning, but for some reason it scares me, and so I go the opposite way, telling myself "I don`t like that guy!". And then I start wondering, why I don`t like him and sometimes have to admit that I do, that it`s just "complicated". This mostly happens when I feel a very strong surge of "anger" towards someone, who hasn`t done anything to me. If I really don`t like someone, I usually are just indifferent and rather detached, but you can tell, if someone makes me angry and gets my blood boiling through his mere presence, there is "something there". I guess it must be my Venus in Capricorn square Pluto - painful. DD IP: Logged |
patisserie unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 08:49 AM
Maybe opposites and some harmonious aspects are involved?My current love and I have opposing ASCs(Sag/Gem) and opposing Venus(Libra/Aries), but there are trines in other places in our charts. Our moons(Taurus/Cap) trine and our Mars(cusp of Virgo-Libra/Taurus) trines. In the beginning I had to bat him away because I had someone else on the horizon, but then I fell hard after finding out he was sweet, artistic and very fun. IP: Logged |
LibraChickety unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 09:20 PM
The opposite happens to me quite often. I can have a conversation with almost anyone about anything at first - then, I run out of things to talk about. ??------------------ Sun is in 03 Degrees Libra Rising Sign is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius Moon is in 16 Degrees Virgo Mercury is in 29 Degrees Libra Venus is in 15 Degrees Scorpio Mars is in 15 Degrees Leo Jupiter is in 16 Degrees Libra Saturn is in 11 Degrees Libra Uranus is in 27 Degrees Scorpio Neptune is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius Pluto is in 23 Degrees Libra N. Node is in 29 Degrees Cancer ........ I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
babeefoxx unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 09:49 PM
The people I am like that with are all Libra suns. I mistake them for Tauruses and give up on them. Then I discover they are Librans and say "they aren't so bad after all!"I obviously have some bad experiences w/ Taurus suns. I have Libra rising. [yay for us and fox in our username ] ------------------ I love my Virgo <3 S: Aries ASC: Libra M: Cancer V: Taurus M: Gemini IP: Logged |
Junity unregistered
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posted November 23, 2007 10:52 PM
It's happened to me with a guy. Where at first I was completly turned off by him and liked him ALOT after getting to know him. It turns out he has his moon conjunct my sun. Both of us have sun, mercury, and venus in Venus ruled signs.IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted November 26, 2007 11:22 AM
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Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 26, 2007 11:26 AM
All the guys that I fall for are the guys I did not like in the begining..Then once I get to know them I began to really like em..So I can relate.. IP: Logged |
Virgo/Aries75 unregistered
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posted November 26, 2007 01:34 PM
quote: --When you first met, you didn't even like him or her...you got to know the person a little, then you became totally obsessed with him or her?? ---Then you found out the two of you had all this astrological stuff going between you
Oh YES!!! The love of my life(so far) turns out to be an Aries guy I met in high school. I couldn't STAND HIM!!! He was very "typical" Aries guy - outgoing, flirty, "fresh", loud, obnoxious, too silly, not serious enough about anything except getting his way, pushy, etc. I was a "typical" Virgo - very booksmart but akward socially, shy, kind of popular anyway just because I was nice, more serious than silly, etc. We seemed to get along and have amazing conversations when we were on the phone, but in person he would get all "fresh" and try to bump into me by accident, or "accidentally" end up touching my behind or being pressed up against me. As time went on I became more comfortable with him and he toned down how outwardly pushy and flirty he was with me. He became my first love and we've been in and out of contact with each other for over 15 years now. The same spark, attraction, and love is still there as it was 15 years ago. Recently I found out that my moon is conjuct to his Sun & Venus within 2 degrees among other linkages. Crazy. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 27, 2007 07:04 AM
Do you mean disliking people at first and then later developing strong positive feelings for them? Or do you mean being indifferent to someone at first and then developing intense feelings for them? The first rarely ever happens with me, even with friendships. I don't instantly dislike many people though. Most people go in the "eh" category and over time I'll develop a stronger reaction to them. My feelings for the ones who I instantly like or dislike almost always stay the same. The second has happened a few times, but usually only in relationships with an inherent distance between us, either because they're an authority figure (teacher) or I don't know them (celebrity). The barrier delays me feeling how they impact me. But with social relationships (friendship, love), my intense feelings are there from the start or don't ever happen. I think this may be due to my Scorpio Asc. I'll grow to like and care about people who I was indifferent to at first, but I instantly liked all the people who I'm really crazy about. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted November 27, 2007 01:25 PM
Nope, never I know from the start.IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted November 27, 2007 09:22 PM
Jane, I mean----begin with notable DISlike, then later discover intense attraction.babee---how can you possibly mistake a Libra sun 4 a Taurus...WOW! what a s-t-r-e-t-c-h IP: Logged |
Lara unregistered
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posted November 27, 2007 10:06 PM
OMG Virgo/AriesI know exactly what you mean. I have same thing with a guy l have known for 25 yrs now and his moon is conjunct my sun/moon/mercury/venus lol and my moon is conjunct his sun/moon/saturn/n node crazyyyyy !!!!! IP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 27, 2007 10:13 PM
That only happened to me once, and it was with a girl who has now become a friend. The first time I met her, I had a huge reaction to her and instantly disliked her. The next time I saw her (2 days later) I thought "Am I crazy? I LOVE this girl!"I have no clue why that happened but I did find it odd. And now I totally adore her. IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted December 16, 2007 12:23 AM
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