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writesomething
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posted November 24, 2007 05:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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hippichick
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posted November 24, 2007 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know absolutely how you feel.

But any sun sign can be haunting.

Do you have a strong Aqua in your chart or perhaps your Mars in Aqua?

I do and I attract Aquas to me like flies to **** ...and I have learned that it is best to learn the lessons these airy fellows bring to us because if we run them out of our lives before we have learned anything then another will come along to try to teach us the same thing...

Blessings to you!!!

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Tigerlily
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posted November 24, 2007 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tigerlily     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This isn't your Aqua boss or the Aqua you hooked up with from work who didn't text you back? This is a different Aqua?

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posted November 24, 2007 03:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes - their intrigue, that magical kiss...sigh.

The instability kills me...

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Sun is in 03 Degrees Libra
Rising Sign is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius
Moon is in 16 Degrees Virgo
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Libra
Venus is in 15 Degrees Scorpio
Mars is in 15 Degrees Leo
Jupiter is in 16 Degrees Libra
Saturn is in 11 Degrees Libra
Uranus is in 27 Degrees Scorpio
Neptune is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius
Pluto is in 23 Degrees Libra
N. Node is in 29 Degrees Cancer
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I feel so naked ;)

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heart cakes
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posted November 24, 2007 05:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
as an aquarian i can say, firstly, thank you :shucks: and secondly, you really aren't missing much. i mean, we are *that* weird and it pretty much never stops. i think the mystery that you attribute to aquarius has more to do with the bubble of aloof that we keep wrapped around us to protect our hearts, which distorts things and makes us seem so intriguing. but really the flip side of that is neurosis and fear of commitment and other lovely things like this. we are regular deep down, just not very *comfortable* expressing it.. so it is a double edged sword. oh and if you don't understand an aquarius, you probably never will. and that is probably because you aren't one. we are pretty nuts. heck i don't even think we understand ourselves.

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heart cakes
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posted November 24, 2007 05:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and.. i am VERY sure.. you did get through..

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posted November 25, 2007 06:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I remember this one Aquarian who I was obsessed with for 3 years and never said a word to her. Haunting indeed.

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posted November 25, 2007 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
heartcakes - from one Aqua to another - that is a great post.

aquas get such a bad rap here at Lindaland (Ok mostly Aqua males .

I'm sorry that so many people seem to find our behaviour so confusing. But we do hurt too. We do feel things too. Honestly.

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heart cakes
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posted November 25, 2007 06:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
starflower

it's pretty telling that a post as sillily executed as that could touch you! you really are an aquarian..

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posted November 25, 2007 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarians seem very guarded to me. I think they're just afraid of losing control more than anything else. This is partially why they keep that emotionless wall up all the time. They don't understand their feelings so they try to bury them.

Why are aquarians so independent and hard to keep in line? Cause they fear losing control to someone else. I think most aquarians just need a massage, they keep their emotions so tightly wrapped that the build up an incredible tension. THis is why you can feel the "electricty" when they walk in the room. It's the charge of an emotional waterfall being dammed up. They may try to appear cool and relaxed...but I see through aquarius' veneer to the panic and hysteria underneath. This sign invented hysteria. As well as the lightning bolt. They stay unpredictable just so you won't figure them out.

Why do aquarians have to be different? Cause they want to assert their control over their individuality. Society will not dictate how they act/dress etc..

Aquarius is about control. To the orignial poster, all his aloofness and other traits....if he keeps you waiting hes in control, hes the boss. If he expresses how he really feels and opens up he becomes vulnerable, he is no longer the master of his heart.

No offense to anyone, but this is my least favorite sign. I have clash after clash with them. They simply cannot seem to grasp the word compromise, everything is their way or the high way. And oh, watch out for their nasty tempers. Peace and community is one side of aquarius, but the more dominant side that I"ve seen is anarchy. Oh, and public nudity.

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posted November 25, 2007 06:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree Blue...I had an aqua friend who never showed her true emotions---it always seemed like an act...but that may have been due to other factors in her chart. I was really surprised to find that she had Mars in Scorpio and venus in pisces

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Thethirdbenjamin
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posted November 25, 2007 06:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a gem and i've always been haunted by Aquas,

the weird thing is all the Aquas that meant something to me, i've encountered or bumped into them a second time and its as if we never forgot each other, they always give me a warm reception, well the aqua gals do anyway.

Not so much Aqua males there a lot diffrent.

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posted November 25, 2007 06:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All have to agree somewhat with what BlueRoamer was saying.

I've found it to be really true with the deluded Aquas, which i don't get along and somewhat dislike.

I think that the ones that really reach full "maturity" or grow up are the ones that really attribute all the positive aqua qualities.

The other ones are the deluded ones that do that.

Theres one aqua i know thats exactly as you described, i think she has potential to get out of it but she'll have to break out of it herself.

On the other hand there is another aqus i knew thats really inteligent, shes not deluded she always knows exactly what is the right course of action and i just go along with her because she knows exactly but is right.

So you can't say all aquas are exactly the same...

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posted November 25, 2007 07:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
blue roamer, what are your top three?

i think you are stuck on one layer of perception, a two dimensional level. you have some valid points but it seems you are trying to understand the sign by proclaiming that you have, and i can tell that you do not by what you say.

i think much of what you say is true in that it is a potential of the sign when negatively expressed. i don't think "inverted hysteria" is accurate, but there is something to the inverted concept.

there is a filtration of the emotions to the level of conceptualization that has both its up and downside. how the individual works with it is up to them. i also think it is unfair of you to focus on the negativity and try to throw it as a blanket over all aquarians. it just shows me that you don't understand us.. that's okay, but totally unforgivable (jokes ).

we simply process reality differently and it isn't wrong, it's just different. maybe the years of chastisement for this very DIFFERENCE in our makeup has something to do with us burying even deeper into ourselves. i mean, it's not like we can un-aquarius ourselves.

do you see the paradox we face daily in being different? could you try to look for the good in us and maybe you will see us relax and feel a little less tense around you?

we are all learning.

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heart cakes
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posted November 25, 2007 07:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also we are very much like pisces in my opinion in that we sense pretty much everything that is happening around us, the only difference is that we are able to objectively understand this whereas pisces just becomes their environment. (not to say we are always correct in what we percieve, but it is an overwhelming awareness none the less).

so just try to imagine what that is like.. and maybe that will help you understand why we are a bit removed.

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posted November 25, 2007 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I said invented hysteria....not inverted....LOL

Wouldn't inverted hysteria mean relaxation?


My post is more of an anecdote, to be taken in a very tongue and cheek manner. You can tell a lot less from an internet post than you might think. I see I have offended your ego, perhaps you are identifying too strongly with your star sign?

All signs exist in all people....I'm sorry to say this but even the most highly expressed aquarius is a control freak. Even you are proving this now as you try to show that you are "different' than the aquarius picture I have painted.

You're so different heartcakes. You're unique. Just like every other aquarius.

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ghanima81
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posted November 25, 2007 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One thing I've noticed (as an Aqua sun/merc/mars), is that I'm the one haunted by other signs that just so happen to be haunted by me. I swear, I don't mean it... I just end up trying to stay friends with all my old lovers, and because of this, there is always a sense of non-closure... which untimately leads to them still affecting me/me affecting them in some way. I cannot just end things. Not properly anyway. If it's wrong to want to keep the peace between people, so therefore staying in touch randomly and still saying things that remind/rekindle things... that's where I go wrong. I just hate tension. And I don't look at it like a control thing, generally I have no control... I'm kinda a puppy about love. But what people say about us makes sense, we're no closer to figuring ourselves out than they are... so good luck!

And we do feel. A lot. Very deeply. Sometimes I can't breathe from emotions.

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posted November 25, 2007 07:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
blue roamer, what a weird thing to say after all that.

ghanima81, hey me too. i want to stay friends with everyone and i just want everyone to get along. it is confusing! i think maybe it's this ideal that we have that makes dealing with emotions difficult to manage.. because the outcome we want is understanding and peace, and emotions are sticky with potential to confuse even further so we get kinda frozen or something, sometimes.

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posted November 25, 2007 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yup. Frozen.

Kinda funny, all my songs on my i-tunes are love songs. Kinda the yearning, sad, falling apart love songs. But using the term 'boyfriend' is really difficult for me. WTF? Does that make any sense?

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heart cakes
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posted November 25, 2007 07:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha! it does.. but i like the term boyfriend. i am a taurus moon though, so anything that denotes posessiveness is very alluring to me

i am a love song junky too..

sometimes i think we are so romantic and emotional and ideal that it's like we need this buffer of aloofness just to keep out the people that can't match our level of commitment that we carry inside us, for the 'right' person. but i don't know if that is aquarian or just some of my other placements modifying that.. do you identify with that?

p.s. i'm sun/merc/mars too.

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Thethirdbenjamin
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posted November 25, 2007 07:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
heart cakes,ghanima81 that is so aquaish, if thats a word how you guys try to steer the thread in a more peacfull way.

I'm still sticking with my theory that there are three diffrent types of aquas maybe four

But there are some deluded aqus that have potential and are as BlueRommer described.

Ever here of Jim Crammer???

he was a deluded aqua until he got himself out it, he is a genius.

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heart cakes
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posted November 25, 2007 07:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i haven't heard of him, 3rd benjamin.. got himself out of what?!

blue roamer has some valid points and it really is a double edged sword and maybe s/he's right cuz what s/he says does not effect me too much in that i don't agree so i take what i can from it and don't even bother arguing. control freakish, snobbish, or peaceful. it's in the intention i suppose.

takes another air sign to comprehend this maybe?

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posted November 25, 2007 07:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Course not your more of the mature ones!!!

Its a problem "Bash the persons chart, not the sun sign".

But, i've seen those qualities and it does effect certain aquas.

Jim Crammer he's a multimillionaire stock trader, a little bit diffrent from Warren Buffet.

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posted November 25, 2007 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A lil' sign bashing never hurt anyone.

What I said about aquariuses could be applied to a lot of people, aquariuses or not.

People are just people. Astrology is pretty vague and silly if you ask me.

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ghanima81
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posted November 25, 2007 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1/15/17

And I find that I always try to calm the waters in any situation. When people start freaking out or getting heated, I try to keep heads cool and talk logical, so as to avoid a scene. It ****** some people off, those who want to fight, but it is what I do, it's who I am.

Trust me when I say, I've really been doing some soul searching lately, and I'm a lot more evolved than I was even a year ago. My Saturn return is headed my way.... awwww sheet!

heart,
You remind me a lot of me in your posts!

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