posted November 26, 2007 06:31 AM              

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first of all I should tell I am really new to the world of Astrology. I come to know Linda a while back and was really influenced by her, undoubtedly there were lots of similarity to me,I am a Virgo born on 9th September, in life as general and interestingly to my choice of people as friends etc. I have been lurking around this forum since some time and after reading others topic I also got my natal chart but now the problem is that I don't know what it tells about me.. and particularly about my love life

so coming to my topic subject I have this one close friend since two years, who is a Taurus: born May 19th.. recently I started to feel romantically inclined towards him and I sensed that he also likes me. though obviously neither of us discussed it directly. all the time we talked about our life, dreams etc. and he also told me that he is desperate for a girlfriend as he is tired of his virginity and single status. on this I just wished him that he would have one oneday. after our this talk for few more times he started to give me some hints of sexual attraction toward me. it was vulgar for me but I neither stopped him nor encouraged him respecting our good friendship, also thinking, poor guy is lacking a girl to talk about sex

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posted November 26, 2007 06:32 AM              

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anyway he had to move to some other place and from there we talked through IM etc. he made some new freinds there and after 6 months or so he also found a girlfriend for himself. after this I thought that my friend would start again treating me like a friend as we were at the start. but I found him still to be flirtatious, vulgar with me. well I can't stomach such things with a guy when he is into another relationship. so I tried to cut off myself from him by not initiating chats with him or sending him emails. but he continued contact with me with one or two sentences email and IMs to which I replied coldly. that also stopped after sometime as my coldness started to get visible. I was happy when there weren't any contacts between us for 2 months or so as I felt I am moving over this successfully..

but some days back he tried to talk with me by sending me an email instead of chatting though we were both online at the same time! that really ****** me off and I also felt so sad! two days ago he contacted me through IM and I sensed he was talking strangley.. so getting angry I just summed our talk before I would say anything rude!

now I really want to cut off myself completely from my friend but..seems I just can't. first he keeps popping up secondly I think there's still some connection between us.. and my feelings are not fully erased for himself yet..

my question is how well do Taurus and Virgo get along.. and how much it really depends on other stars in one's chart? I have Sun in Virgo, a Leo rising, Moon in Libra, Venus in Leo and Mars in Leo , as my natal chart tells me. do I need to give more details? also which sign are going to be compatible with me when it comes to love life!LOL

p.s. sorry for such a detailed topic but I wanted that you people get to know that how things are before you could suggest me anything. and thanks for your patience!

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posted November 26, 2007 10:53 AM              

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I'm a bit confused. You DO have romantic feelings for him but you think he's rude, vulgar, and you want to completely cut off contact?

I think if somebody felt those things about me, I wouldn't want any kind of relationship (albeit a civil one should there be a need to have one) with that person.

Follow your instincts. And speak up. People can't read minds. Sorry if I sound harsh but this situation doesn't sound fair to either of you.

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posted November 26, 2007 05:19 PM            

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I'm too impatient to read all of your post, but if you're asking about a Virgo/Taurus combination romantically, it can work.

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posted November 27, 2007 01:01 AM              

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AcousticGod I too think I posted a long post with lots of unnecessary details! I also read everywhere that Virgo/Taurus do work romantically but this episode made me wonder..

yeah Mariangela you got it right I still have some feelings for him.. he is vulgar but not rude. and you aren't harsh you are actually telling the truth!hehehe I also realize it's fair for both of us but I think it's just that it was my first love interest and that's why I am feeling this way

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posted November 27, 2007 09:00 AM              

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taurus and virgo usually get along famously.

he sounds like he has venus in aries.

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posted November 28, 2007 06:02 AM              

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what does Venus in Aries tell?

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