posted December 06, 2007 10:21 AM              

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hello boyz andd girlz, i m in a situation which i do not understand very well, so i was hoping some of you could eventually give me their insights.
i'm usually able to bounce back in life when something doesn t happen the way i want but here, in the matter of the heart, i'm quite naive and impatient. so this is my problem:
one night i was going back home at 4 am after a party, when i got hit by an egg thrown at me by students from their hall. (very good shot!!!) anyway, there, in front of the hall was another student. he got embarresed for me and we started talking. he was lovely, and asked me for my phone number, which i gave him staight away (obviously).
i didn't mention i'm a guy too, but that was obvious to him!! and that's may be where the 1st misunderstanding between us lies. so i thought may be he was in the closet or, aged 21, not yet ready to explore his homosexuality...and a few days later he texted me to go for a drink. that night i couldnt and postponed it for 2 days, but he seemed cool about that. so we did go out for a drink and let me tell you, i had a good feeling, we got on well, so well that a bit later in the evening, when we came back to my place, i got carried away and dangled in front of him a bottle of poppers. i didn't realise how aukward i had been until the next morning hang over. so i apologized to him to have scared him ( and to come across as a pervert and ultimately a sex maniac) but to that he replied he was ok, he had not been scared at all and had a good time and he would like to go again for a drink.
hourray!!! i thought. especially cause by then it must have been clear to him that i was gay, and after his "A***". but hang on, we are getting to the bottom of the problem.
yesterday i invited him to go out with me and some friends this week end, i hoped it would be an impersonnal setting so we could feel confortable but i must i ve got it wrong cause i still don't have any reply. and this is my problem....
i don't know how to handle the situation. astrologically speaking, we seem to have some pretty good aspects between our charts but may be i read to much into it, focusing too much on what was ultimately possible instead of what is technically possible with a guy who's straight.
my real question is this one: what does his silence means? and should i get worried about it? or what should be my reaction? i say "should" because if i behave according to what i feel then i'll be desperate (which i know by experience is not a good thing for the relationship). he's pisces with a cancer moon and libra ascendant, when i'm aquarius with a libra moon and a cancer ascendant. we both have the moon in eac other 1st house, my moon is conjunct his south node and his sun and jupiter conjunct my south node. did i read too much into his chart or am i right to hope something could happen? and if i m right to give a chance to this relationship, can i still do so with his silence or he's trying to convey the clear message to "F*** O**" cause to me that's what he means. what do you think?
(i dont know how to post our chart so i'll just give you our details:
me 7 february 1980 14:55 rodez france
him 21 february 1986 20:30 vienna austria
what do i do from here?

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posted December 06, 2007 10:55 AM            

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Just be patient and befriend him more then anything..His Cancer moon approaches things very instinctively and Well his Libra Asc is indecisive as well. Pisces Sun wants to be friends first..Focus on the friendship more then anything make that the foundation...Don't be to Raunchy us Pisces don't like that at all it does scare most of us rather we admit it or not..

Another Pisces/Aqua relationship ****Sigh****

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posted December 06, 2007 11:03 AM              

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What "dangled in front of him a bottle of poppers " means ?

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Leo rising, Sun in Virgo, Moon in Aries

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posted December 06, 2007 11:43 AM              

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thanks very much mama mia! so you don't seem to think it's dead. isn't it?

neptunelove, basically poppers is a chemical product sold in sexshop, you inhale it and it makes you wilder and hornier for an few minutes. it's succesful among gay men because while you are "high" you just want to get "closer" and you don't feel as much, which can be an issue for gay men, as you can imagine....
so, i came strong on him...

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posted December 06, 2007 01:06 PM              

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praecipua,

I wouldn't worry. It might have been a little intense for him but he'll ease up and call you.

You guys do have some good aspects which probably allowed you to connect instantly. And he made the first move by asking for your number.

sarai

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posted December 07, 2007 08:00 AM              

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cheers sarai, thank you for taking the time to look at my situation !!

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