posted December 10, 2007 03:20 PM              

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I looked, but couldn't find much on it. I am very close to my Cancer sister.

I don't know what his chart is looking like as of yet, but how does this typically work out?

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Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked

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posted December 10, 2007 03:41 PM              

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Online cancer men love to pick on me (Libra). They seem attracted to me somehow, and our convos are usually 'little fights'. I'm not sure if that's a sign of attraction, or uh, dislike. But a good 'discussion' with them usually makes me slightly closer to them, in a squared way. Not exactly a peaceful friendship, but still a connection.

In real life, I know a cancer whom I (used to) like, but I don't think a relationship with him would play out too well. Cancer will be hurt often by libra's (perceived) senseless (insensitive) remarks, and use some emotional blackmail thing, which will wring their heads.. libra gets exhausted by emotional blackmail (however light or innocent it is).

Oh, and cancer may get sick of looking after libra, who seemingly laps up the love and takes it for granted (gasp!).

I guess if none of them do that, it's a good blend of cardinal energies. They can do many things together.

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posted December 10, 2007 03:45 PM              

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Atlenta, what does your chart look like?

I HAVE drawn him online - with similar interests. I'm sure we'll be meeting soon. He seems very impressed with my interests and goals. We'll see... I can't wait to get his birth date and time though :P

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Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked

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posted December 10, 2007 03:47 PM              

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I have Libra sun and moon in Virgo as well. And pluto, saturn, venus and mercury in libra.
I don't want to reveal anymore, else I'd feel naked

P/s: I have a Cancer cousin sister who loves to take care of me - I understand that bond.

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posted December 11, 2007 04:27 PM            

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Its usually Cancer woman/Libra man you find together, at least from what I have seen...with alot of ups and downs(stormy and passionate). I had a Cancer boyfriend many years back, and for me it was a pleasant experience. He was loving and tender(emotionally attentive). He mentioned getting married and having kids but at the time I was not looking for anything serious, and I was the one who ended it. I still feel bad about it though. Even with all the Cancer placements I have there are times when I still don't understand them, though I am fond of the crab. Anyway let us know how it works out for you two ok

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posted December 11, 2007 04:31 PM              

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im a virgo sun with Libra rising and he is a libra sun with Cancer rising - so here it is a Libra girl with a Cancer guy

I love him dearly and he too - i think it can be a good relationhips - both are sensitive and gentile;loves closeness and tender gestures.

Good luck

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posted December 11, 2007 10:28 PM              

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Thank you all for your input!

Well, my first real IM conversation with him, all seemed to go GREAT...until the end.

I threw an insecurity out of mine and jokingly asked "I feel as though you will be running for the hills or reaching for the block button "...To which he replied "hmm, I gave you no indication of that. I was cordial, interested, etc."

I WASN'T EXPECTING THAT!? I think I may have screwed it up! I usually joke around saying things like that looking for reassurance of their interest. But he completely did the opposite! So, we'll see if he talks to me again.

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Moon in Virgo
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posted December 12, 2007 12:27 AM            

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Alot of times Cancer men are shy and reserved, you have to make sure you don't say anything that will make feel insecure or unsure about entering into a relationship with you. You have to constantly let him know everything is alright, make him feel safe and secure with you...otherwise he will jump back into his shell and it will be hard to get him back out lol! Gosh I adore water men

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Jupiter in Cancer
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Mars in Cancer
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posted December 12, 2007 05:20 PM              

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Yeah, I haven't heard from him - so I think I may have screwed up. I feel bad.

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posted December 13, 2007 12:53 AM              

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We talked again. I apologized for my insecure comment. He said he didn't remember. I refreshed his memory and apologized for it.

We're meeting this weekend for coffee!

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posted December 13, 2007 12:59 AM            

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Thats great! Make sure he's your priority(make sure hes first on your people to see), and no more insecure remarks...let us know how it goes

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posted December 13, 2007 01:01 AM              

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Thank you for the advice!

I'm a little worried, however, because he seems a bit sarcastic, showing excitement about our meeting in excessive volumes - if you catch my drift. I just hope it isn't a joke. Can they be insincere like that?

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posted December 13, 2007 01:59 AM            

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He might actually be really happy about it...just go have coffee and see what happens, you will never know till you give the situation a try

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posted June 10, 2011 12:09 PM            

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Lol.....I don't think he got mad because of the "insecure" comment. He actually probably finds your insecurity endearing. Water signs are nonjudgemental, and if anything you'll see with time that water signs, especially cancer, love unconditionally. From my experience and being a cancer myself, most cancers i know don't get mad that often. I think that's a big stereotype that cancer's are too sensitive. If anything leos are too sensitive. I've been friends with 3 overbearing aquariuses, a leo, and a capricorn and they were overbearing and sometimes i felt like they were too domineering but i stuck by them and never complained, just accepted them for eho they were and tried to see their positives, and then later like maybe 1 or 2 years later the leos and aquariuses stopped being my friend because they said *I* was too overbearing. All i did was try to help them when they asked me for advice and try to be there for them ans make themfeel better when they were down, but they'd rather have friends who make fun of them and smoke weed and are "cool." It's fine, I've learned that the masculine signs aren't the most i guess I would say sensitive...or maybe the word is...enlightened I dunno, people. But I think a cancer's main thing is to be loyal. So you shouldn't even be worrying about us getting mad at you. Cancers think that everyone is as accepting as them so that's why they're so naive, but then when they get hurt they can become distrusting of anyone and everyone, but that doesnt mean they stil aren't naive and think that everyone is inherently good deep down inside. we don't hold grudges, we do forgive and forget despite what stereotypes say, because we understand people's emotions and we see it from their point of view. Like it hurts that a lot of people have done things and chosen things i wouldnt say are the best choices and have stopped being my friend but I dont take it persoanlly or hold it against them bc everyone makes mistakes. I would be their friend again if they realized one day that i am their true friend. What good does it do me to hold grudges, it only hurts me in the end, right?

By the way the capricorn is the only one that has stuck by me . Like a true loyal cappy

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posted June 10, 2011 12:15 PM            

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Lol.....I don't think he got mad because of the "insecure" comment. He actually probably finds your insecurity endearing. Water signs are nonjudgemental, and if anything you'll see with time that water signs, especially cancer, love unconditionally. From my experience and being a cancer myself, most cancers i know don't get mad that often. I think that's a big stereotype that cancer's are too sensitive. If anything leos are too sensitive. I've been friends with 3 overbearing aquariuses, a leo, and a capricorn and they were overbearing and sometimes i felt like they were too domineering but i stuck by them and never complained, just accepted them for eho they were and tried to see their positives, and then later like maybe 1 or 2 years later the leos and aquariuses stopped being my friend because they said *I* was too overbearing. All i did was try to help them when they asked me for advice and try to be there for them ans make themfeel better when they were down, but they'd rather have friends who make fun of them and smoke weed and are "cool." It's fine, I've learned that the masculine signs aren't the most i guess I would say sensitive...or maybe the word is...enlightened I dunno, people. But I think a cancer's main thing is to be loyal. So you shouldn't even be worrying about us getting mad at you. Cancers think that everyone is as accepting as them so that's why they're so naive, but then when they get hurt they can become distrusting of anyone and everyone, but that doesnt mean they stil aren't naive and think that everyone is inherently good deep down inside. we don't hold grudges, we do forgive and forget despite what stereotypes say, because we understand people's emotions and we see it from their point of view. Like it hurts that a lot of people have done things and chosen things i wouldnt say are the best choices and have stopped being my friend but I dont take it persoanlly or hold it against them bc everyone makes mistakes. I would be their friend again if they realized one day that i am their true friend. What good does it do me to hold grudges, it only hurts me in the end, right?

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