posted December 10, 2007 06:55 PM              

He's intense with most people, of course, but I have to say, that while he is curious about many people, he's shown more interest in me than I've seen him show in many other women in our social circle. (Perhaps I'm too "under his spell'?)

He seems to be a fire sign with lotsa water. I could almost predict that just from my being with him.

I'm a native Pisces with Taurus moon, Leo ascendant and good ol' Venus in Cap.

We really flirt with each other but are both very friendly, approachable people in general, so perhaps his way of communicating with me is not-so-special, yet once we talked all alone on our own, we still flirted like mad and indeed, we seemed to both sense that spark.

What is that spark? Is it just a fire sign/Sag thing?

I have to admit, at first I saw him as "too much work," but perhaps we can be good friends?

I don't neccessarily feel like a "typical" Pisces (what would be typical, anyway?) so what I've read about my sign in love does not always apply.

How do Pisces and Sags interact? Do we challenge each other to be our best? I feel like he does that with me: I wanna show him I can meet him anywhere and perhaps even surpass him...but then I just wanna have fun and revel in the shared sense of fun we seem to have.

Anybody have any insight/ answers?

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Pisces sun,Taurus moon, Leo Ascendant

posted December 10, 2007 07:55 PM            

If he has a lot of water, that could cool his fire a bit, but his true Sag nature would still spark. Sags have a lot of passion in general, we're emotional creatures.

Is this a working relationship? If so, someone you will be working around?

posted December 11, 2007 12:36 AM              

Thanks for your info.

Yes, we work together in a capacity (not a daily, at-the-office thing, but on the same longterm project nevertheless). What makes this all the more fun/ confusing is that he's my "boss"/ supervisor (we work for the same organization; it's kind of like an arts-charity).

We never really talked until this year's work was over and we had a Xmas party. He and I stayed later than the rest. That's where, to me, his flirting in our common workplace (which we are at about 2-6 times a month, depending) went from just fun stuff to some one-on-one conversations that got a bit personal. He's initiated it all with compliments, kisses & hugs at meeting and leaving, sharing funny stories with me, etc.

I have a good female Sag friend, but am really not familiar with Sag males. I know that my female Sag and I sometimes need a lot of work to "get" each other, yet we're both dedicated to the friendship so we're familiar with that need. Also, I'm newly single so this is all quite new to me anyway.

Like I said, I have his birthdate and it seems there's a lot of water in his chart, but of course I can't really know without the birth time.

Anyway, I'll keep some distance and be flattered : - ). The other women he's been interested in are all, uh, pardon the pun, good catches. I'll take his interest as a compliment but am happy we have 4-6 weeks off. We're both intense people, and we're probably both incorrigible flirts as well, so he may or may not mean anything serious with his curiousity. Like I said, I've no idea if it's physical or intellectual/ cerebral (that's where all my romances start, in my head) or nothing at all.

I think if I'm smart with this situation, we could have a mutually beneficial relationship. He doesn't begrudge his other employees resources, professional contacts, references, etc.

Can any Sags out there tell me what he gets out of this?!

posted December 11, 2007 02:20 AM              

Well thanks, I'm glad to know you're still friends. Sag men are new to me but I'm happy to know they are generally a friendly sort. Not ones to hold grudges or have their egos so bruised they cannot see others' worth.

By the way, I'm ending a romance with a fellow Pisces and your issues with your Pisces guy ring true with all of my experiences with the male version of my sign. I greatly admire many Pisces men, but romantically, it's too much of a drain.

This male Sag seems to be very "high maintenance," in fact, I almost despised him before we got to know one another better on a one-to-one basis. As a woman, I see the other females in his life kinda taking care of him, or handling him in a way and that does not appeal to me at all.

Frankly, he seemed most surprised of all to be interested/ attracted to me. I have no idea what changed.

Probably we both have a fairly superficial attraction however, I feel that we could have a deeper friendship that could really last. He's a straight man with lotsa straight (unavailable) female friends. I like that and I like those women, so...this is very interesting and new to me.

Thanks again,
Zelda

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Pisces sun,Taurus moon, Leo Ascendant

posted December 11, 2007 06:37 PM              

Do the nodes affect relationships at all?

When I saw that his moon was in Pisces, I wasn't surprised, I think that must be part of the attraction.

Zelda

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Pisces sun,Taurus moon, Leo Ascendant