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Lara
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posted December 12, 2007 04:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

Please help me - i'm torn totally between 2 men.

I can't see the wood for the trees at all and it's eating me up

I attach synastries for both - would all you lovely, knowledgeable people please take a look and help me?

OK here is me and Mr X

I am inside (the one with the bigger aries stellium) LOL !!!

Is it just me that looks at this chart and feels like a nice cool swim in some WATER!!! http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee149/larita26/DJLC-1.jpg


and this is Mr Y and me... *l am inside again) http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee149/larita26/JOLC.gif


These men are so different l am at a loss!
I really have my head and heart in a spin, it's dreadful and l don't like to feel unbalanced.

Both have mercury in Pisces but apart from that, they seem like chalk and cheese!

Please help!!!!!! I can't date both of them, i'm such a faithful Taurean and my Aries side is too honest that l feel uncomfortable.

:-)

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kindjali
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posted December 12, 2007 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kindjali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lara,

It would be ungrateful that anybody say who is the best for you, isn't it?
You decide, follow your heart when mind is in confusion of chosing. Heart usually don't lie. But, if you follow with reason who is better man for you, it doesn't in the end can make you happy.

K.

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praecipua
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posted December 12, 2007 04:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello lara,
i think i would go for the pisces, his north node is conjunct your sun, he'll be fascinated by you, if you want that, but who doesn't?
i can't say no more,
but if you follow your heart you should be fine. which one gives you the most butterflies? the aries or the pisces?

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Lara
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posted December 12, 2007 04:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Kindjali

I understand although l cannot do this. I really cannot decide and this is why l wanted to see which was the better synastry for me to help me :-)

Is that so bad?

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augentier
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posted December 12, 2007 04:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Based off the initial feeling I got from the first synastry - TOO MUCH GOING ON. You two seem like you'd be too similar and know how to push each other's buttons far TOO well.

I like the second one a lot. Especially your Mars, Venus, Moon, and Sun contacts.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

No man is free who is not master of himself.

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kindjali
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posted December 12, 2007 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kindjali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with both of them Lara.
I will also go for Piscies Man. That's all for me. Nice Moon-Chiron, Sun and Venus connections And I like this Venus-NN conjuction. It is good that he has no planets in his 8th house

K.

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Lara
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posted December 12, 2007 05:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW thank you so much you guys

You have really helped cos l was worried about the aries guy.

My ex husband is born 15 days before me *yikes* and we fought and fought... pushed each others buttons ALL the time!!!

I was just worried that all my fire would kinda barbeque my little fishy so i'm SO HAPPY you are all thinking Pisces is a good one for me

Big hug to all of you for your kindness

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kindjali
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posted December 12, 2007 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kindjali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are welcome

K.

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Lara
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posted December 12, 2007 05:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW thank you so much you guys

You have really helped cos l was worried about the aries guy.

My ex husband is born 15 days before me *yikes* and we fought and fought... pushed each others buttons ALL the time!!!

I was just worried that all my fire would kinda barbeque my little fishy so i'm SO HAPPY you are all thinking Pisces is a good one for me

Big hug to all of you for your kindness

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praecipua
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posted December 12, 2007 05:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Lara
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posted December 12, 2007 05:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AWWWW Praecipua l love those pics


thank you - so positive and sweet of you!

Here's to decision making and love

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Diandra23
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posted December 13, 2007 08:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone said here not long ago not to look at astrology when try to "choose" someone to be in a relationship with us.
One thing is you,feeling for a person,knowing inside that sth very special is there,betwenn you two that you cant really find out racional reasons for what its happening. You look at him, and to others,and,somehow you cant think of yourself being with someone else than him.
Comes the butterflies,the heart pumping etc..but..do you feel an indescritible peace of mind and soul when you are with him? Do you look at his eyes and know that no matter what,you will always be safe with him?

Here are some of the "clues" you can think of when "chosing" the one for you. By saying choose, its not racional,but emotional and your heart will know very well.

Ive looked at the 2 sinastries and thought: one has better aspects,sweet and loving ones but im not the one who have to choose - its you Lara

Remember this: times ago ive compared the chart of my sister and a guy neither she or I met. There were wonderful aspects,SM aspects but you know what?That guy is now with a girl far far away from here and my sister is here. They arent Soulmates or anything like that cause they dont have a relationship and she didnt felt anything when looked into his photo that i ( on purpose) left open on HI5 here on PC.

So...first try to know better yourself and the guys. To know what you feel,with time and patience.Many times we say we are in love when in fact can be only infatuation or attraction. Impulses are not good for our heart.

I hope to have helped you,even if just a little

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